Gaslighting vs Lying
Added 2024-12-04 12:00:10 +0000 UTCDr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 Organizing PiS
30:08 2022 OPP
31:40 Forensic psychology & awareness of gaslighting
37:55 Selective memory vs. gaslighting and patterns of abuse
50:30 2022 OPP
52:04 The misuse and overapplication of gaslighting
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December 4, 2024
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Comments
When you said one fell swoop, I immediately thought of Nate Bargatze lol
Talia
2025-02-27 14:22:38 +0000 UTCOh, gosh - I guess you didn't see the next email I wrote saying basically "Oh, I get what you mean now, you elaborated further later on." 😅 Sorry about that!
Mari
2024-12-27 17:17:46 +0000 UTCThanks Dr Honda, I enjoyed the fact that you managed to get a tick for that box, I feel I achieved something with you 😁.
MHAJ
2024-12-08 09:13:57 +0000 UTCGreat episode!
Trissa Schiffner
2024-12-05 18:02:59 +0000 UTCThe question about systemic lying and gaslighting is very interesting. Can we use this framework to better understand fake news and social media algorithms? I think you’ve talked about right wing extremism as a form of cult indoctrination. But could we say that it’s a form of gaslighting?
Mary L
2024-12-05 03:48:22 +0000 UTCI like this clustered email format for these episodes, by keyword search!
Jocelyn G
2024-12-04 20:17:12 +0000 UTCExcellent episode, thank you. I'm not a fan of how the term gaslighting is used either, the people saying 'gaslighted' are even worse. When people say CBT is gaslighting I don't agree either, the term 'crazy-making' is more fitting imo.
Kadita
2024-12-04 18:18:21 +0000 UTCI love the idea of having a special google doc tab "Lovely emails" where you could go every time you feel bad. So many people (including me) have so many lovely things to say about you ❤️
Emily
2024-12-04 15:11:49 +0000 UTCI kind of feel like emails sometimes feel like it’s stagnating things 😅. They tend to discuss things you already have discussed, so we keep empathizing what we already have learned (which hopefully gives a broader perspective and deeper understanding), but it doesn’t really give us new things to talk about. I wonder if it would go quicker if you read the emails that asks similar things first, and try to answer all of them with one or two questions as a starting point to get into the topics (compared to reading them after you have answered an email). Or, maybe it would change things if you wrote down what kind of things people were wondering and then made a “this episode/part of episode” will get your emailed question answered. If people could choose topic, or write shortly what topic this relates to, then that would make it even quicker. Time stamps have been real helpful because the title and the question haven’t always explain what it is you talk about related to the topic.
Heh
2024-12-04 13:41:12 +0000 UTC
