Cheating and Codependence
Added 2024-11-11 12:00:07 +0000 UTCDr Kirk answers patron emails.
00:00 What is Dr. Kirk's model of supervision?
02:07 How do I tell a friend that I have a life-threatening condition?
08:43 Dependent personality spectrum
12:18 Why do I want to cheat?
20:35 OPP 2022
21:30 Psychology "Hacks"
28:03 Grey Rocking
36:25 Mug-level OPP 2022
37:50 Can I report a therapist friend?
41:04 How do I accept an apology?
46:26 What drives the dynamic of an over/underfunctioner relationship?
55:02 How does pressure as a child star impact them?
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November 11, 2024
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.
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Comments
Returning Patreon member here. (No drama with cancelling, just wanting to support others too with very limited funds.) Have been occasionally listening but this episode brought me back. Thank you.
Laura O.
2024-12-22 13:24:12 +0000 UTCoh i didnt know about the mug :) ive been a patreon since 2020🥳
Ines Antic
2024-11-14 00:20:19 +0000 UTCGreetings from Germany. I'm happy to be not American right now :(
sofia guicking
2024-11-13 21:11:24 +0000 UTCMy favorite aspect of Bertosodes is how Kirk never reacts to Berto’s various professions. I wonder if this is because they have been podcasting for 16 years (I’ve only been listening for a couple years). I also wonder if Berto comes up with them on the fly or if he has a document of ideas or something. 🤣
Trissa Schiffner
2024-11-13 04:53:04 +0000 UTCAs a new mom to a vibrant infant girl, I am devastated about the world she will grow up in. I took a few days to mourn the fact that she will grow up in a world that feels much, much less safe than I did as a child. It’s hard not to feel angry. Maybe we should have a collective “fuck the world” rant session to work out these feelings.
Mary L
2024-11-13 04:24:30 +0000 UTCOh what a lovely OPP 🥹🥹🥹 thank you, Kirk. And your feelings are so relatable. Thank you for sharing your anger with us as patrons.
Caitlin Ouellette
2024-11-12 03:51:16 +0000 UTCUgh. TIL I have all of these personality disorders…
Judson Costello
2024-11-11 23:23:31 +0000 UTCHey. I’m almost through this episode as I type this, 6 min left. Kirk, I feel you, I feel all of this, and I just want to say thank you for being honest about your feelings, and at the same time, I’m sending a hug. I feel the same, and it’s been just shy of a week since election day, and I still can’t talk about it without feeling anxiety and swearing, and I’m in Canada (although I am a US born dual citizen and the entirety of my family are in the US). All this to say, I get it, and I want to yell too.
Kara Wheeler
2024-11-11 21:37:23 +0000 UTCHahah oh noooo.... ok my colleague, he often messes up spelling of names when replying to an email where it's right there, and then blames it on autocorrect.... the 'kurt' sstuff reminded me of this, it's so uncomfortable
Ekb
2024-11-11 19:00:23 +0000 UTCThank you so much for letting out your anger about this election. It helped me feel like I can too. It feels like a corrective experience because you’re a man who actually cares!! Please please think twice about doing an episode about the election because I think we really need more people on our side expressing our feelings and facts! The republicans are so loud all over social media and podcasts. I’m pretty sure the top ten podcasts are run by white men republicans. We need to counteract that and be the voice of reason! 💪
La La
2024-11-11 16:57:00 +0000 UTC
