Depressed Husband vs Codependent Wife
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July 15, 2024
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
00:00 Enablement or support?
22:01 Letting go of change & graduate school
28:30 Radical acceptance
41:54 2015 OPP
46:05 Bob's birthday messages & relaxing
1:13:08 OPP 2
1:14:51 Complex Integration of Multiple Brain Systems
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Comments
Not me here at 59:10 feeling validated for not being able to keep my house to my own standards. Because I do have 5 KIDS lol. Ages 15 to 2. All off school for the summer. I request more teenage content! I have been listening since they were toddlers, loved all the stuff on attachment. Got all that stuff goodish… but teenagers are like giant toddlers. Looking for all the advice.
Lynn Di Donato
2024-07-19 15:57:47 +0000 UTCThanks for the shoutout!!!😊👍❤️
Sue Honda
2024-07-16 21:14:03 +0000 UTC22:41 thanks for the insight on "letting go" and acceptance of unhealthy dynamics in the relationship instead of trying to "fix" it and overfunctioning. I grew up wanting a "happy ending" for my family where my parents have a better relationship and my brother becomes less reliant on my family.. and recently my mom was diagnosed with some health conditions and it has been difficult for me to accept that my family won't have that happy ending I have dreamt of since I was a child.
moo
2024-07-16 19:33:15 +0000 UTCBobisode ❤️
Leena Mäntylä
2024-07-16 15:56:19 +0000 UTCmewithoutYou quotes that poem in one of their songs. It's such a good song, called Julia.
Joanne
2024-07-16 03:09:24 +0000 UTCThe sneeze clip was really interesting I hold my nose nearly everytime I sneeze!! Scary to think doing to that can cause issues down the line. I wonder if the husband has ADD/ADHD? Most people with it struggle with depression and motivation, myself included. Maybe if he checks the list to see if he has any of those symptoms. He might need a therapist that specialises in it if he does.
Angela Hayes
2024-07-15 23:22:57 +0000 UTCThis was incredible, like every other Bobcast ❤️
Wandering Soul
2024-07-15 22:19:41 +0000 UTCIf only it was just one... I have found that for me personally I do my best learning from people over books. With books, I have the problem of bias. Plus I can oftentimes never get myself to see one of these type books through to its end. I tried learning DBT by reading Marsha Linehan's textbook, which I did manage to get through, and found that I put a spin on what I was reading that i couldn't detect (like bad breath - hard to smell your own) until she and others taught me in person. I stick to good mentoring.
Bob Goettle
2024-07-15 16:58:31 +0000 UTCLittle stars and sequins.
Bob Goettle
2024-07-15 16:51:15 +0000 UTCIt's funny and charming that Bob was scarred by one pedantic, know-it-all in grad school and now tries to avoid suggesting books as a result. 📚🚫⛔️
Esmond Kim
2024-07-15 15:52:21 +0000 UTCI’m having an existential crisis because I don’t remember putting glitter in Bob’s card 🤣🤣
Rickele
2024-07-15 14:26:56 +0000 UTCI'm from Dublin. I didn't realise that famous patron Lydon was from Dublin also. Now I'm racking my brains to think how I must know him. 😅
Emma Regan
2024-07-15 13:30:13 +0000 UTC
