Late fees debates, resenting good families, and Bob Qs
Added 2024-06-21 11:00:04 +0000 UTCBob and Dr Kirk answer patron emails.
00:00 Late fees debate
07:11 Boundaries or capitalist oppression?
21:54 OPP
23:24 Resenting good families
31:55 OPP 2
32:45 What is Bob's favorite...?
37:26 What does Bob want to do before dying?
39:18 What is Bob's morning routine?
43:23 Dr. Kirk's writing
47:23 AI Dr. Kirk & Bob
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June 21, 2024
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Comments
I love Bob, that's the comment
Julieta
2024-10-12 20:49:26 +0000 UTCI’m imagining someone creating a therapist, or really any type of relationship, then going to the actual person like, “I can’t believe you said that!” 😂 I tend to feel a certain type of way even when it happens in dreams.
Taryn Bonner
2024-07-22 17:34:03 +0000 UTCAn AI Kirk-bot would be awsome! So awsome I wonder if I would just end up giving up on many of my human relations.. And if bots are better than humans at supporting humans, isn't that a good thing as long overall human satisfaction goes up?
Inga
2024-07-02 07:35:00 +0000 UTCAs a female clinician I feel guilty about charging too. I wonder if you can touch on the issue of who can fix the societal issue of access to care if it doesn’t start at the individual level?
Nicole
2024-06-29 01:54:51 +0000 UTCI think resenting good families is a framing that on the surface looks very ill-willed and selfish. When you have these feeling you already feel bad about feeling this way. Seeing a good family is often just a reminder of how inconsequential and neglected you were in your family, if you happen to be born into that lot. It's really hard work trying not to let that ruin your day and by extension you then affecting others'. I'm much better at controlling "the sadness" these days. When I was young it very much threw me for a loop and I ended up crying after visiting friends with good families so much so that my mother thought she did me a kindness in telling me maybe I shouldn't visit them anymore.
Stephanie
2024-06-24 08:18:36 +0000 UTCI want you to know that every time you said "I want money" I was imagining you dressed as Mr. Krabs
Wells
2024-06-24 04:00:04 +0000 UTC24:00 Wow I was just talking about the same struggle with my therapist last week. I love my in-laws and I'm constantly surprised by their genuineness and tight-knit relationships. At the same time, I feel resentful and envious towards my partner and his family because I didn't grow up with the same healthy family dynamics. (I also relate to some of the reactions to Dr Honda's episodes on family). Another factor that contributes to my mixed emotions is the fact that my family lives in a different country and I don't get to see them more than once a year. In contrast, I visit my in-laws almost every month. I feel guilty about feeling relaxed/happy spending time with my in-laws so I often become overwhelmed dealing with these emotions. And have been unfairly mean to my partner because of that too.
moo
2024-06-22 23:32:03 +0000 UTCI used ChatGPT to role play with me so I could practice LEAP (Listen, Empathize, Agree, Partner) in order to get my sibling who was experiencing psychosis help. Active listening took practice!!
Caitlin Ouellette
2024-06-22 19:19:30 +0000 UTC"For the Kama Stura??" Great line Kirk.
Ed Wile
2024-06-22 19:08:03 +0000 UTCThe discussion about “good families” really interested me. I grew up adjacent to a “good” family and I think it saved me more than once. I remember being in grade school and my friends “good” dad said that he was hanging out with my friend that Saturday instead of me, “because you see her all week at school. I want a turn to hang with my kid!” What Was shocking to me was that parents actually wanted to spend time with their children because I had never experienced that. Now I consider them my close family and while I sometimes feel resentful towards my friend, I love her parents like they were my own (and they kind of were).
Caitlin Ouellette
2024-06-22 18:50:15 +0000 UTC
