Modern Masculinity
Added 2024-06-19 11:00:11 +0000 UTCDr Kirk Honda interviews Dr Stephan Poulter about his book, Modern Masculinity: A Comprehensive Guidebook to Men’s Mental Health. Book can found at: https://a.co/d/7CSTsIH
00:00 Introducing Dr. Stephan Poulter
04:05 What is modern masculinity?
07:17 How did Dr. Poulter's relationship with masculinity change?
09:16 Evaluating male role models
17:47 The father and son relationship
20:56 What is the narcissistic masculine type?
24:13 Was this book inspired by work with clients?
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June 19, 2024
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
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Comments
I admittedly have a hard time disentangling the idea of masculinity itself from the opposite of femininity. I suppose that's my own gender disillusionment coming through. I clearly still have work to do with the disentangling because I could feel myself feeling defensive listening to this one. As a nonbinary (and not knowing it then) kid growing up, it wasn't lost on me that when the guys made fun of each other for not being manly/masculine enough, or the taunt "you throw like a girl!", meant that the worst thing a guy believed another guy could be was a girl. As a person in a female body who felt equal parts masculine/feminine, that hurt and was confusing. To be honest, it is all still a bit confusing which is why I noticed myself feeling defensive. I understand I'm the minority and believe everyone gets to define themselves for themselves and for many that includes more traditional gender norms and vocabulary. Just thought I'd share my perspective.
Heather Dube
2024-06-22 03:33:52 +0000 UTCMy husband is in the military, and I grew up with a father with narcissistic personality disorder. I struggle with teaching my autistic son what healthy emotions should look like for a man because the men in my life haven’t been or wanted to be emotionally aware. I wish this episode was longer. Im so fascinated with learning how emotional intelligence and masculinity are evolving. I would love more episodes like this in the future ❤️
Sarah F
2024-06-19 16:50:52 +0000 UTC
