Crowning transference, Bob’s therapy, and DBT study
Added 2024-06-17 11:00:05 +0000 UTCBob and Dr Kirk answer patron emails while providing interesting metaphors.
00:00 Intro
03:11 What should I do when I find my therapist attractive?
23:02 OPP
24:40 How do you push yourself as a client in therapy?
45:38 Australian DBT study
55:33 How would Bob handle teaching teens DBT?
Become a member: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCOUZWV1DRtHtpP2H48S7iiw/join
Become a patron: https://www.patreon.com/PsychologyInSeattle
Email: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com/contact
Website: https://www.psychologyinseattle.com
Merch: https://teespring.com/stores/psychology-in-seattle
Cameo: https://www.cameo.com/kirkhonda
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/psychologyinseattle/
Facebook Official Page: https://www.facebook.com/PsychologyInSeattle/
TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@kirk.honda
June 17. 2024
The Psychology In Seattle Podcast ®
Trigger Warning: This episode may include topics such as assault, trauma, and discrimination. If necessary, listeners are encouraged to refrain from listening and care for their safety and well-being.
Disclaimer: The content provided is for educational, informational, and entertainment purposes only. Nothing here constitutes personal or professional consultation, therapy, diagnosis, or creates a counselor-client relationship. Topics discussed may generate differing points of view. If you participate (by being a guest, submitting a question, or commenting) you must do so with the knowledge that we cannot control reactions or responses from others, which may not agree with you or feel unfair. Your participation on this site is at your own risk, accepting full responsibility for any liability or harm that may result. Anything you write here may be used for discussion or endorsement of the podcast. Opinions and views expressed by the host and guest hosts are personal views. Although, we take precautions and fact check, they should not be considered facts and the opinions may change. Opinions posted by participants (such as comments) are not those of the hosts. Readers should not rely on any information found here and should perform due diligence before taking any action. For a more extensive description of factors for you to consider, please see www.psychologyinseattle.com
Comments
The poo analagy was entertaining thanks 🤣 Sometimes it's not that complicated though, it can just be someone that you would be attracted to in any situation. Then what?
Natasha Bride
2024-09-26 13:22:13 +0000 UTCDBT is awful for people with and without BPD honesty. Extremely invalidating and infantilizing. Blaming the patient for having distortions and emotions. I ended up giving up on therapy completely after trying american CBT/DBT/schema.
Kadita
2024-09-17 20:54:28 +0000 UTCI always thought it was Chocoloney which still rhymes but lacks the negative connotations. I wonder why they called it that. 🤔
Emma Regan
2024-06-22 18:42:08 +0000 UTCBob's relationship to his needs is interesting. I don't relate to suppressing food related needs, but I do have a tendency to not ask for help about important stuff. I think Dr.Honda mentioned before how it doesn't occur to him to ask for help when he moves to a new place. I have a tendency to suppress or not see my needs in this way. But, then, I like doing things my way, and what I need is a system that empowers me. I guess it's not the same thing. I guess it's more like when you don't notice essential needs. For example, I don't think I'm fully aware that I need people. Or, I think I don't realize when I'm attached to people. I sometimes assume I won't care about stuff, or I won't get hurt, then become surprised when I realize how much I care or how much it hurts. Anyways, I love how a significant part of this podcast is about the number two. The metaphor makes sense to me. Thanks for the podcast ♡♡♡
GO!《cɛn
2024-06-19 18:42:37 +0000 UTCHa!
Psychology In Seattle
2024-06-19 03:06:52 +0000 UTCHi Rickele, I got your birthday card today. thank you so much! I was touched by your words. : )
Bob Goettle
2024-06-18 07:08:30 +0000 UTCI believe the medical term you were looking for is "turtle-heading"
Teo
2024-06-18 05:42:24 +0000 UTCWhen I did DBT, I also heard that it was based on secular buddhism
Teo
2024-06-18 05:42:07 +0000 UTCI think everyone could benefit from learning about basic DBT skills. I’ve even wondered if Marsha has ever said she based it on secular Buddhism. If she did. And I think she did. Also wonder whether systematically going through DBT is a worthwhile investment of energy for those who don’t struggle with strong emotional reactivity, as you mention in this episode. I’ve done 3 rounds (2 consecutive) and I’m probably starting another soon. I don’t have BPD. I might qualify for schizoid pd but I’ve never brought it up. I use DBT as a safe exposure to emotional people and to force myself to participate and then journal about it and talk in individual therapy about it afterward. Not saying the skills aren’t useful too.. But it’s kind of a grind tbh. I think other forms of therapy would be better but it’s hard to find nonCBT therapy in many places Also: Asheville NC Vortex Donuts
MK
2024-06-18 01:27:11 +0000 UTCWhen Bob describes wanting to hide the chocolate it reminds me of my ED and not wanting anyone to see me consume. I wonder if any therapies from the ED world could help people who don’t feel like they can be seen needing.
Jocelyn G
2024-06-17 23:41:16 +0000 UTCTony Chocolonely is the best!
Mary L
2024-06-17 17:17:32 +0000 UTCWomen usually have more of a radar regarding who is attracted to them. It’s something we have to develop a hyper-vigilance for because of what we face in this society as women. As a woman therapist I usually have a radar for which clients are attracted to me even without them showing obvious signs of it
Rickele
2024-06-17 15:12:55 +0000 UTCBest donuts I ever had were in Portland, Maine, called The Holy Donut. They're made with sweet potato. So good
Mel Chinnici
2024-06-17 14:37:05 +0000 UTCKirk, knowing you like a good research, an interesting story and a good cause, check out the story behind the “chocolonely” name. You’ll prolly like it.
Renata Kerwood
2024-06-17 13:46:07 +0000 UTC
