Moving forward changes to content in the tiers:

• the lower tiers video I will try 1-2 x a month make it a long video not just 20 mins like they have been.

• The lower tier video will still often include triggers YouTube is strict on like lens licking etc, but if I feel I can’t build a community that makes me happy after doing these changes then I will stop doing those triggers all together. Which I hope I don’t need to do since I love those triggers and I know lots of my members love them too in a respectful way, but my own personal reasons I can no longer handle the sexual comments. 

• I will always do videos with mouth sounds though as I love them the most but I might just remove the ones that get the most sexual kickback IF I can’t change the way I feel based of your responses. 

• The lower tier will also have different type of content more than it has though. It’s also really boring for me to only do lens licking etc. I will be letting you guys vote the week before so it is more involved. 

• Also videos will be more personalized so one video a month I’ll get you guys to write your names and then say what trigger you want and I’ll say your name then do a bit of your chosen trigger. Mybe like “members video” each month. 

• The upper tier the start of the video every week I will either trace or give positive affirmation straight to 3 people, names will pulled from a post I put up about it the day before and just put your name and next to it the preference for option. I want to make the patreon more personalized. 

• The upper tiers extra video will be a big sister vibes video and be something like a GRWM/including fit check, my current beauty favs, what’s in my bag, and always answering your personal questions.  

• I’ll continue to give away one free custom a month and I’ll offer Patreon members 10% off customs. 

• I’ll continue to share photos and videos of my personal life and do QnAs with things I don’t share anywhere else 

• I’ll continue to be fully me! Swearing, goofy, playful etc. I don’t want to change who I am as a person I just want to help create the space that feels safe to me.

I’d like to make one thing super clear, I am

Never quitting and my patreon will always be here and so will my asmr on every platform. it is so important to me. But I have come to a stage in my

Journey creating asmr that I can no longer handle the sexualization of my content. I understand there’s a lot out of my control with this, but there are things within my control so I’ll do those. I also want to do so much more than just those triggers it’s boring to always do them. 

I understand putting these changes in might mean a mass exit (almost all) of members and that is something I’m very comfortable with in order to create a community that will hopefully be long term and make me feel good. I rarely do selfish things but for this that I put SO much love into I need it to feel completely safe for me and I still don’t. 

Not that a majority of you will give a shit or even read this but if you had any idea what my early life looked like you wouldn’t push the point you do with me and the sexual stuff.

I am an open minded and relaxed person but I feel me being that has made people think they can say and do what they want. I also know many of you say what I’ve said in the first two months of my asmr journey shouldn’t be gone back on etc but like I’ve explained many times that is irrelevant to now after learning properly wjay the internet is like, feeling safer to assert my boundaries, realizing how most people aren’t open minded and smart about it like me but instead just entitled and rude, so these changes and potential future changes are my way of protecting myself. 

I also know it’s tiring to experience the same thing from me every few months so making these changes means I can consistently feel good and not need to do this moving forward anymore so it’s a win win for all of us. Time to start feeling good in this space I give my heart and soul to! Love to you all x