My job as a psychologist
Added 2024-11-21 19:09:53 +0000 UTCturns out I also need to clarify how different my professional psychologist career is to creating sexual content on patreon 😂 that’s hilarious some of you think that’s the same and why I should be ok with doing that. If anything my professional standing in the field of education around relationships and sex is a reason not to! I talk about sex and relationships On podcasts as a psychologist. I’ve never once in my post expressing my boundaries said I’m uncomfortable talking about it! I’m very comfortable talking about sex and relationships and educating people and love my job as a Psyc (that is just one part of what I do as a Psyc) . But I don’t want to create sexual content for men especially with my Asmr. So incredibly vastly different guys. Not to mention ethically using any of my Psyc stuff in a non professional setting like this means I’d get in so much trouble so i purposefully stay far away from what my other job is when doing asmr.
And like I’ve said from the beginning ive got nothing against creators that make sexual content, it’s a job and that’s awesome that’s what they want to do with their job description. I also have no qualms about people interpreting my work in certain ways, you do you boo. I don’t need to hear about it but I’ve got nothing against it as I understand sex and sexuality a lot and I know people can feel that kind of pleasure from almost anything and it doesn’t make it sexual content. The stuff I know people get pleasure over is actually so wild but I get everyone’s different! Its the beauty of life. Me creating a safe space for people to experience whatever their inner world is is not an Invitation to ask for straight up sexual content. Hopefully this makes sense to some of you too.
Girl expresses boundaries and explains respect and a bunch of guys have a hissy fit because they can’t understand the difference between professionalism and creating the content they want on patreon 😂
I also asked the question I did the other day because the sudden drop happened recently and nothing in my message or content had changed so when I asked I certainly didn’t expect the same bullshit guys said months ago. This isn’t in response to some of the guys that I responded to in comment and understanding the fair points you made! 🥰
Also not me deleting any comments on past post it’s patreon saying it violates stuff. I’m all for reading and having other read the small minded comments, it only proves my point more. I’ve just changed a setting to make sure they can be seen 🩷
Comments
You’re wonderful
A梦 哆啦
2024-12-06 10:17:26 +0000 UTCYou’re so kind! Thank you x
Michaela Overman
2024-11-27 00:10:41 +0000 UTCEhm, hello. New sub here, i'm not a commenter but i felt like i should at least say why i subscribed. You were just looking very fun and playful on youtube, i just wanted to support here too. I understand everyone wants different things, but that shouldn't involve you being sad/mad. Do your thing, youre like my best type of person, i wish i have more people like you around me. Thanks.
Akna
2024-11-26 21:37:09 +0000 UTCSame!!! the girls are in here too, Mic! Keep doing you.
JJ
2024-11-24 01:30:54 +0000 UTCThank you 🥹🩵
Michaela Overman
2024-11-23 10:19:55 +0000 UTCi generally don't read comments so i have to admit i don't understand the logic of those you are addressing here but it sounds like some people are doing mental gymnastics. an avenue for feedback does not mean all feedback is appropriate. i hope you are not on the receiving end of more childish demands and excuses.
flah flah
2024-11-23 04:45:15 +0000 UTCweird and sexist, gross
rabbitbong420
2024-11-22 11:40:02 +0000 UTCSorry sorry, but idk just seems redundant. You’ve clearly said many times your boundaries and people are still pushing. Seems pointless to even engage… I think you already push the boundaries a lil which is what I enjoy. If that’s intentional or not idk, but ngl I do like that playful sexual side to asmr. There are things you do that I find almost seductive. I like it, it’s entertaining, it relaxes me, it stimulates my primitive ape brain 😂 but I don’t care for more. I just enjoy your vids. Now I’m yapping 💀
WELLZY
2024-11-22 00:05:55 +0000 UTCHaha! Yapping is a bit rude when a girl feels disrespected she deserves to put in her boundaries loud and clear! Thanks for the support x
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 23:55:42 +0000 UTCSo appreciative for you!
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 23:54:56 +0000 UTChii, i hope you know not all of ur supporters are weird men!! i love your content because its relaxing and tingly!! ❤️❤️
nariya
2024-11-21 23:54:33 +0000 UTCLove you mumma but you’re yapping 😂 let them talk, who cares. You can’t change someone’s mind thru a comment, it’s a lost cause. I enjoy your vids most and as long as you keep making I’ll keep enjoying. Peace and love.
WELLZY
2024-11-21 23:48:51 +0000 UTCThank you 🥰🩷
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 22:21:33 +0000 UTCHello Mumma, it's amazing that you're a psychologist--not surprised at all! Thank you for doing ASMR. If the other guys give you a hard time, I agree just block em'
VL Starr
2024-11-21 22:05:31 +0000 UTC😊 thanks
Noah Taylor
2024-11-21 21:30:28 +0000 UTCGreat idea!! 🩷🩷🩷
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 21:23:50 +0000 UTCGive it to them mumma. I’m so sorry you have to keep doing this. Unfortunately, ASMR and sexual content are connected at the hip, especially now nowadays. Unfortunately, there’s a lot of creators that use ASMR as a gateway to their sexual content. I could spot the creators who do this, just by looking at the thumbnail and the title 99% of the time. And I can tell you your content, and your thumbnails do not give me that impression. These boys are just dense in the head. And we know they’re all boys. I don’t know how Patreon works, but maybe you could pin a post that even unsubscribed members can see so they don’t even bother subscribing and get butt hurt. These guys may not always read the about section of your profile, especially if horny enough.
Noah Taylor
2024-11-21 21:15:42 +0000 UTCThese men is also the kind of men that ask "how was she dressed"
jono
2024-11-21 21:13:20 +0000 UTCHaha! I love this xx
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 21:05:50 +0000 UTC🥰🥰🥰
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 21:05:30 +0000 UTCThank you!! 🩷
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 21:05:24 +0000 UTCAmen.
Bulnoc
2024-11-21 21:01:28 +0000 UTCYou seem like the nicest person ever, you shouldn't have to keep defending yourself for setting boundaries. Anyways, I don't plan on unsubbing, thank you for making amazing content that helps put me to sleep most nights!
Damon
2024-11-21 20:28:40 +0000 UTCIt’s crazy how some people feel entitled to your own body! This reminds me of a famous poem by John Donne called “The Flea”; a man is attracted to a woman. A flea bites both of them. The man wants to have sex and a relationship, so he tells her the flea united them. He continues to nag the girl for sex and a relationship. The girl gets annoyed, so she squashes the flea and ultimately his begging. Long story short, I’ve seen too many “pests”, literally pestering women. I’m sorry for the way people are treating you mumma mic
Leena
2024-11-21 20:24:50 +0000 UTC😆👏
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 20:15:37 +0000 UTCThank you for this beautiful comment 🥹🩵
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 20:14:31 +0000 UTCIt is rather unfortunate how anonymity seems to encourage such degenerate behavior and disrespect. I have to hope that these trolls at least PRETEND to be decent humans in their day-to-day lives.
Jack B Nimble
2024-11-21 20:14:21 +0000 UTCMale here. I do find you stunning and I enjoy all the content you bless your subscribers with. You are my favorite ASMRtist and I hope you choose to create content for those here who truly appreciate the hard work and dedication you put into your content. Please ignore the ignorance of the keyboard warriors who hide behind their screens. Thank you Mumma! ❤️❤️
William Wilhite
2024-11-21 20:10:29 +0000 UTC🩵🩵
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 20:03:26 +0000 UTC🩵🩵🩵
Julia ❁
2024-11-21 20:01:09 +0000 UTCIt’s mental
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 19:43:06 +0000 UTCIt is so telling that the only people angry, are men. What a world we live in 😵💫
Rachel
2024-11-21 19:42:05 +0000 UTCHaha! A woman expressing boundaries means crazy to you. Sweet heart you’ve got to understand what this means about you right. Poor boy 🩵
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 19:33:57 +0000 UTClol this one has gone crazy. Get back on pills.
Usman Raza
2024-11-21 19:28:50 +0000 UTCSo true lovely girl x
Michaela Overman
2024-11-21 19:17:21 +0000 UTCI also can’t fathom why people can’t respect that you just don’t want to do that kind of content. Doesn’t even matter why, the matter is you don’t want to create that content, you’ve stated your boundaries clearly numerous times, so that should be enough in itself.
Sarah Smith
2024-11-21 19:16:11 +0000 UTC