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Why Sex Work Is Hard - Video

Its time for another sex work advice episode! From what sex work looks like going forward to how to setup collaborations to WICKEDLY talented friends turned lovers on screen. Why is porn how it is? All these questions and more with Daddy and Amp this week!

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I'm catching up on episodes, so I'm running a bit late to this. As an AFAB mm erotica writer, this is fascinating. I do write stuff on the heavier side (think heavy cnc and pain), using my own experiences as a heavy masochist and having lived in a cnc tpe relationship, as well as from topping and bottoming for all kinds of people with all kinds of genetalia. I don't think that makes me better at it, but I can tell when someone doesn't have experience and didn't ask for help or get a good beta reader. I'm going to sound like Mr Kristofer here, so as a caveat, this ramble is about my opinions, for me personally, and not intended to criticize specific people, only tropes and phenomena. On the list of things that drive me (me. personally.) up the freaking wall about AFAB people writing erotica are a) treating the sensations of p-spots like a clitoris, b) that PIA must be the goal of all encounters so no novel is complete without it and preferably the toppiest top must choose to bottom out of love, and c) that rimming is nearly always a thing - and it's treated like oral on AFAB genitalia. There's so much nibbling of rims and sucking on holes leading to near orgasms, which I'm sure it can... but consistently? Probably not.

seastone

As an Asexual/Demi I love your content. I stopped reading MF romance books at all decades ago because 98% of them were the man rescuing the woman in some way. In MM books, it tends to be more equal. even if one of them does literally rescue the other, the "rescuee" usually bring something to the relationship that completes the other person as well. I also tend to read books with BDSM because I like the power exchange.

Wendy TRANKLE


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