System Update - pages 56-61 - ENGLISH
Added 2025-11-12 17:00:32 +0000 UTCHi guys! I... forgot to upload last weeks post. The pages were ready, I thought I did it. Then I left for a convention. Oops. 🙈 So here are 6 pages this week!
The poor ghost boss didn't stand a chance. :(
How do you deal with jealousy?
I am a very jealous and insecure person and I struggle with differentiating if voicing my needs/wants to the other person or dealing with it on my own is the best way to deal with it. I do think trying to avoid certain feelings is a super normal desire for control but eventually impossible.
So it's important how we deal with the feelings that are there instead of wishing or arguing they shouldn't be. Be kind to yourselves. ❤️
Comments
I'm so sorry to hear what you went through! Stalking, possessiveness and emotional abuse in the name of jealousy/"love" is just horrible. While feelings aren't someting we can't avoid, people need to take accountability for their actions. I believe the though of "if my partner/friends acts correctly, I don't have to feel jealous" is wrong and damaging. It sounds like those people treated you really badly by overstepping your boundaries and making you responsible for their feeling. I'm glad you got away. 🫂❤️
Fiothin
2025-11-13 23:29:17 +0000 UTCThank you so much for the compliment, I am blushing! ❤️ And I think you are so right! Jealousy can be such a nasty feeling and takes a lot of maturity on both sides to not try to find an easy "fix" for it but to work through it together. ❤️
Fiothin
2025-11-13 23:23:15 +0000 UTCThe fact about jealousy is do correct. While most people with that can't be helped, they tend be be always jelly no matter what. Since the problem lays foen mostly dince their childhood, and tgey don't seem that's a problem or that they shall tale a therapy about it, as they mostly assume the other person has to coop with it and give them certainty and trust, but most of them have problems with selfesteem and fear of loss, and that no partner can fill up no matter how hard they try. Mostly if they are too different and both got big problems with that problem, also if it's hard, mostly best to do is split up. People with that problem and behavior need mostly therapy + someone who can handle it. That's why I mostly end the relationships I had. Once some started stalking me, since he want to "own" me or "be my world" that's a way more extreme way of jealousy and is mostly critical and dangerous for others. And once someone needed nearly each second/minute the "I love you" while the relationship was only on sinxe a few weeks and I couldn't give them that, since I am a a-romantical person and told it sibce the beginning, being a-romanticsl but also monogsny is mostly not enough for jelly people. So I hope they can deal with it, since they look cute together 🤍
Yve
2025-11-13 08:43:25 +0000 UTCI truly love this comic so much!! You do a BRILLIANT job with your artistry – – storytelling AND drawing. Jealousy is SO hard to overcome, and it takes a lot of work on the jealous person‘s side, as well as care and concern on the partner’s side of things. What a necessary and fantastic conversation! ❤️🩹
TT
2025-11-12 22:11:51 +0000 UTC
