no literally watching him like this makes me cackle as bit
rin
2025-08-08 21:16:09 +0000 UTC
Thank you! 馃憦馃従馃憦馃従馃檹馃従
Nitanita
2025-08-06 08:05:48 +0000 UTC
i think that many people kinda gloss over the fact that ray is an addict. like yes they鈥檙e aware he drinks heavily and does drugs but not many people address how his psyche is literally altered. therefore his actions (his nonchalance toward his own life/safety and that of others, his inability to empathize with others, his inability to think critically, and his complete obliviousness to how mew is literally using him and is not actually romantically interested) are a direct reflection of how much he is poisoning his body and brain like鈥cientifically. like most of his focus is on one thing and that is his addiction, which is anything that makes him feel good in that moment (alcohol or even sand). this is definitely not to excuse any of the horrible things he does but it鈥檚 so interesting how ALL of the people close to him are aware that he鈥檚 an addict and they treat him like he鈥檚 not and are shocked that he鈥檚 morally defective? like he needs HELP and nobody besides sand is actually trying the approach of showing him true tough love, holding him *somewhat* accountable and pushing him to get help enough (not to say sand is perfect AT ALL馃槶).they respond to the symptom (behavior) and not the cause (addiction). But I think the show does a really good job of showing the correct and incorrect ways of loving someone through literal addiction (which no one is required to do btw鈥ut sand does anyway).
Zaria Middleton
2025-08-06 02:52:03 +0000 UTC
I hate SandRay, people romanticize them but they are so TOXIC. you'd think this episode wou've been a wake up call to Ray, but no
Alex
2025-08-06 01:11:20 +0000 UTC
its hard for me to take Top seriously because of knowing how Force, the actor actually is. 馃槶 He goofy as hell irl
Samiya
2025-08-05 21:27:13 +0000 UTC
OMG YES!!!! he HAS to watch revenged love
Samiya
2025-08-05 20:48:49 +0000 UTC
After Not Me you have to watch revenged love is a new Chinese BL drama!! 馃檹
And this days is really popular