Disord Lurkers: How would you feel about a special night with me on mic, and you can interact with/introduce yourself to me and we can chat for 2 hours without the regulars/more active members there to disrupt us? P.S. The non-lurkers know who they are lol. If you are on the fence, round yourself up to lurker and join~
Added 2020-11-18 08:50:21 +0000 UTCI don't know how many of you lurk simply because you do not want to interact with me or anyone, but for those of you who are just too shy to jump into the existing conversations and might want to chat with me, I am very interested in getting to know all of you who I have yet to get to meet. No regulars would attend or even be able to see the channel we'd be in. Let me know if this is a thing you'd be interested in.
Comments
Would be lovely! And second what Polly said above! Also I may not talk bc you... maybe intimidate isn’t the wrong word but something like that...
dangerfloof
2020-11-21 01:50:58 +0000 UTCI'll join i'm just new and shy online
Caroline Lamport
2020-11-18 23:29:50 +0000 UTCi’ll stay lurking 🙄❤️ i’m scared of humans
Josie
2020-11-18 17:56:45 +0000 UTCMy smile is so wide right now. This is one of the kindest ideas! Hoping good times are soon to be had 💜
Jan Brady
2020-11-18 17:41:04 +0000 UTCThis is awesome.
Ralph
2020-11-18 17:30:08 +0000 UTCI wouldn't say that I'm new to the server anymore but I definitely am a lurker. The only times I really interact are for movies. That's mainly because I don't have a lot of time to be active in chats all the time plus I feel like I'm intruding on people's conversations if I do talk 😅 so I think this would be a good thing to do!
Ken ♡
2020-11-18 17:12:00 +0000 UTCwell i certainly hope i don't intimidate you (at least not so much from my end)! hopefully you can learn to be comfortable chatting or saying hi :)
Tombanter
2020-11-18 16:04:15 +0000 UTCI used to be more active within like the first week but as more people joined, Banterville started to feel overwhelming for me
Sleepy all the time like aizawa
2020-11-18 15:30:57 +0000 UTCI would love this, honestly. I set up discord pretty much to hang out and get to know others in the asmr/adult audio community, and I have to be honest that I am overwhelmed in Banterland, there's just so many channels, so many conversations, so many People... this would be much appreciated
Ivy Ironwood
2020-11-18 15:07:10 +0000 UTCSame
LilacKate
2020-11-18 14:53:50 +0000 UTCI think this is a great idea! As someone who will basically eavesdrop (???) but not really talk, this seems very approachable. I think it can be hard because a lot of people have already made quite tight knit friend groups, so being a quieter/less pronounced person can feel limiting. I can’t promise i’d talk bc you definitely intimidate me a bit, but it’s a really sweet thing to even think of !!
shea
2020-11-18 14:41:03 +0000 UTCIdk if I count as a lurker..... I do interact but not to a point where I consider myself a regular(?) And I usually do so if I have an opportunity or if there isn't a huge crowd
Jamie
2020-11-18 14:15:54 +0000 UTCDo I count as a lurker? I’m there but I’m not sometimes.
Juanita
2020-11-18 13:01:11 +0000 UTCOh yes pls. I would love to
Brooklyn
2020-11-18 12:58:15 +0000 UTCFollow others on here but first ever comment on any of them but I think it's a good idea for someone who is socially awkward in any situation including online interaction, since finding Tom my confidence as had a boost (although I did have some conference) sorry if this was a little long, (I was nervous) also I'm in AEST time that changes to AEDT Also live with other people in a open house
Rosie94
2020-11-18 12:58:08 +0000 UTCOkay I’ll take off my invisibility cloak 🤣
Berne
2020-11-18 12:52:31 +0000 UTCI’m lurking because I’m in a lot of other servers and I just do not see where I fit in here at all lmao.
verylemon
2020-11-18 12:26:57 +0000 UTCcrazy regular here to say this is a GREAT idea
LouBengal
2020-11-18 12:09:19 +0000 UTCi’m definitely a lurker lol. it’s a really good idea cuz i feel like i don’t really fit in with the regulars on discord. i’d love to get to know you and for you to get to know me but mostly i’d love to talk to you !!
leigh.olivia
2020-11-18 12:02:43 +0000 UTCI talk to the other discord people but when you're working or discussing with the others I stay back. I feel like I'm interrupting and would love to get out of my shell more
Katie Miller
2020-11-18 10:18:00 +0000 UTCI’m more on the lurker side I want to join in on the conversations but I get too nervous or idk what people are talking about soooo heck yea I’m in 🤍💛
Ayana
2020-11-18 10:04:30 +0000 UTComg do I get to finally confess my undying love of syndey to you 😩😩
Jen
2020-11-18 09:19:17 +0000 UTCCool 😎
CallMeJia_Gia
2020-11-18 09:18:02 +0000 UTCI see you in event channels but never part of the discussion. If you'd like to participate, this would be appropriate
Tombanter
2020-11-18 09:13:41 +0000 UTCThe non-lurkers know who they are lol. If you are questioning where you land, round up to lurker and participate. This is so i can have a little ramble with those of you I don't see almost every day
Tombanter
2020-11-18 09:12:03 +0000 UTCWhere do those of us who you maybe have seen and occasionally participate fit in? Or is this strictly for those who don’t participate at all?
Peewee
2020-11-18 09:07:22 +0000 UTCI love this idea 🥰 thank you ❤️
Melanie Maie
2020-11-18 09:02:48 +0000 UTCGreat idea, also for all the newer people like me. 😊
She_wears_shadows
2020-11-18 09:02:47 +0000 UTCTom this is such a great and lovely idea!! It makes me so happy that there's something for people who are too shy to interact❤️
Sabina
2020-11-18 08:59:22 +0000 UTCim like a semi-lurker lmao
CallMeJia_Gia
2020-11-18 08:53:21 +0000 UTCwellllll guess i won’t be a ghost anymore.....😳😐
yoyo9er
2020-11-18 08:52:27 +0000 UTCDid Tom just call me crazy ?
Sesshomaru_
2020-11-18 08:51:09 +0000 UTC