I'm honestly mixed on this. On one hand, yes, she is clearly approaching this wrong. On the other hand, Nana could be helping more than she is but seems content to just sit back and watch her struggle when a little bit of info would really help her stop faceplanting so hard like this. She could ask for help more directly, but I feel like she's already humbling herself and openly acknowledging how bad a mom she's been and yet Nana is still just string her along.