Session stories: the coin toss game

I had a really fun session today. It was the tipping point at which I decided to start sharing session stories. I’ve wondered a long while if keeping a journal of sorts about things that happen, but I’ve never gotten into journalling, try as I might. Sharing stories with you is better, in my opinion.

So, this particular submissive loves games and coming up with his own games. Sometimes, they make it past his thoughts into our chats. We had another one today and it was honestly so much fun.

The rules of the game:

He chooses head or tail. I flip the coin. If I win, I choose where his paddle or crop must warm his skin. If he wins, he can choose - but while he decides, he has to pull on his nipple clamps. And he’s got the serious ones, the Japanese clover clamps… they don’t f*ck around. The total number of strokes would be ten per round - how that ten is spent is up to the winner. The winner can choose whether it’s all ten on one spot, or whether it’s five on right and left side, or seven right and three left, whatever.

What I absolutely love about this game, is that it’s a positive-sum game, which is exactly how BDSM should be practiced, in my opinion. He’s an absolute masochist who thrives on making me laugh at him. Regardless of the outcome of the coin toss, we both win.

On the rare occasions that I did win, I aimed for more sensitive areas. I knew his chest would be delicate with the clamps and that the sting of the crop would be met with equal sensation from the clamps. His laboured breathing confirmed my hypothesis. In true CBT-fanatic fashion, my instruction of “balls” was met with a smile and an excited “yes, Sai”. I know how easily he bruises so I made sure to contribute to the reminders of today by adding strokes to the already-pink inner thighs.

By the end of the session, he had pink marks in several places. His cheeks were flushed and he was all smiles. My happy, floating slut for pain.

We both had fun, never knowing who would win the next coin toss. We both laughed at the outcomes, when he won for the third time in a row, again. We both enjoyed his pain immensely. BDSM is a positive-sum game.