ASMR For People Having A Bad Day - Male Whisper Ramble
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Left a comment on this video, I hope it helps a bit 😊💜
Artzilla Aysha
2023-06-24 02:56:12 +0000 UTCHi JimmyH. Yep, I’m absolutely convinced that 50% of our present trauma is caused by bullying when we were teenagers. It’s really bad isn’t it. And the adults in charge don’t do shit most of the time. But there are some good people out there Jimmy. Sometimes it’s really therapeutic to push yourself to travel. Change surroundings. Take an airplane and go stay in some cheap airbnbs in Spain or the Netherlands. Or even another state in the US, or even better Canada (Vancouver)…But for long enough like 2 weeks at least. And on your own. Travel is really powerful. It creates a distance with past problems. It helps reset. (I’m an ex long haul flight attendant - you can trust me on that). And when you go abroad people are culturally different, you get a better and different contact with them, AND with yourself. which is often so good for the soul.
Matthew.102
2023-06-22 22:59:37 +0000 UTCSupport one another ❤️
Will
2023-06-22 22:49:17 +0000 UTCHey, no worries brother it’s a pleasure. I went on a bit of a limb here , fearing to be perhaps too intrusive…, so I’m happy you liked reading it. I’m sure I’m not right on everything, but I don’t it like when someone suffers from similar crap I went through, caused by people who had INEXCUSABLE power over me….. Yeah the pancakes incident? It must have felt really really bad when it happened…. It’s something that you picked out of so many other things she did, for a good reason…. But hey… press the pause button… have some NASTY WET BUMB FUN with your boyfriend tonight ….or just with yourself if he’s too tired..(sticky fingers🤪🤪) With all the toys and strapons and shit….. and water works 😂😂😂 the whole combo…. Yeah!!! ….😂😂😂😂😂. He must be a great guy, you’re lucky to have one another.
Matthew.102
2023-06-22 22:35:26 +0000 UTCwow that was the longest comment I've ever gotten. I had to turn on text to speech and it was basically like listening to a podcast haha but just know I really appreciate your perspective on everything. I agree with everything you said and you honestly made me feel a little more valuable through your words :) the pancake thing made me laugh haha and yes I really do hope I am helping people with my videos and maybe ive been doing this so long that I don't see it. thank you for the comment ❤️ it means a lot and it makes me happy to have supporters like you
Tyson ASMR
2023-06-22 19:41:35 +0000 UTCim so sorry. im glad you felt some comfort form the video. I hope you're doing alright. and I couldn't agree more. social media is cancer to the world haha. thanks for the comment ❤️
Tyson ASMR
2023-06-22 19:31:30 +0000 UTC❤️❤️
Tyson ASMR
2023-06-22 19:29:06 +0000 UTCthank you! I am having a much better day today
Tyson ASMR
2023-06-22 19:28:56 +0000 UTCthank you 🥰
Tyson ASMR
2023-06-22 19:28:28 +0000 UTCMan I understand completely. And love you too btw…. I went through the exact same motions and feelings and still do sometimes, although a bit less, so there is progress….Some people around us are narcissistic, inconsiderate , and completely insecure. The way you are feeling is actually normal. The problem is though, and you’re saying “if you guys want to give me some advice please go ahead” - so I’m doing it ok? Don’t be mad at me I’m doing it - the problem is the social media and how it perverts the perception human beings have of one another, and how it perverts self esteem. It perverts it in order to make money from it. I actually completely closed my Facebook account forever. Just a few months ago. Just having those 210 so called friends on my account, I couldn’t bear it anymore. Only three or four of them were sort of in touch, so why calling “friends” the 206 remaining? It’s a perversion of the word friends or friendship in itself… Social media functions on attracting views, advertisers and money, with people posting just anything, ANYTHING, that will attract those views (and money). Social media, and Mark Zuckerberg and the youtube owners have been proven to CREATE and EXPOIT people’s addiction to validation, to “likes”, and to comments they receive from others, in a bottomless pit of craving validation from others. I’m not describing YOU here.. just saying what it feel to many many people. It’s a gigantic money machine game. You have whistleblowers and ex employees from fb and Google showing documents that the owners KNOW the degree of gravity to which they ALLOW their algos to promote and to worsen people’s craving for validation from others. (They put more rules pushing people to respect each other more, but it’s just a coverup). As a result, a very big chunk of YouTubers and intagrammers LIE… they lie with the pics and videos they’re posting, they lie about their life, about their appearance, they promote narcissism and even perverse narcissism in a very very subtle way. But as a result, way too many viewers are caught up in expecting validation , or meaningful validation from people they don’t know at all, or who don’t know Them. On top of it all most of people who leave bad and hurtful comments , they do it to get even with their own daily agressive reality. It’s a public arena, social media, and the first public arena was the Coliseum in Rome under the Roman Empire…. And you know what was happening there…. ANYTHING was allowed there as long as the crowds came…. There was blood, violence and public humiliation for all to see. Tyson, social media is really fucked up. Instagram? You really have to look at it with A LOT of criticism and with a critical eye. Just for self preservation. Tyson there is a ONE VERY IMPORTANT THING: ……… and I’m sure you know this….. constantly wondering or worrying about what other thing of you, is delegating away, and putting into those people’s hands THE POWER over your self esteem. You place in their hands , subconsciously or consciously, the power to determine YOUR WORTH, your value, if you’re a good person or not, if you’re a valuable person or not. It’s very very serious, and it drove many to suicide. You have decide that you will find the power within yourself, to decide weather or not you have value. Weather or not you have worth. Weather or not you are better and looking and hotter than those photoshopped assholes on Instagram. I think , after watching some of your videos on YouTube where you confide about your anxieties (I’m Alexxx on YouTube), and you’ve been super open about your past and it’s extremely valuable and inspiring when people tell about their struggles and adversities, well, it’s simple. That past, in the church, and with what happened inside your family , who , them too, were perversely affected by that church, all at was responsible for regular and almost constant rejection. Not only a rejection of you feeling being born gay, but with all the horrible high control rules in that church, it was forbidden to you and others in there to be normal, natural human beings. You were probably told that people outside the church were evil and not to be socialised with, or else there’d be punishment…. Or your step mum falling down on you”
Matthew.102
2023-06-22 11:50:48 +0000 UTCIt's hard to be a sensitive person in such a chaotic, often ugly world but I'm glad you are. You're beautiful inside and out, Tyson. Thank you for sharing these reflections with us.
Benji W
2023-06-22 07:44:28 +0000 UTCListening to this has brought me a lot of solace and comfort as I've been feeling really sad and heartbroken for the past few months as I'm struggling to cope with having lost BOTH of my parents earlier this year and my depression/anxiety levels have spiked uncontrollably. I've been battling depression and anxiety my whole entire life, 90% of which stems from my being bullied by the kids at school AND in the neighborhood (they treated me very badly) and it's led me to suffering from low self-esteem and having trust issues and basically staying to myself, having to put up these protective shields cause I was afraid of letting people get close to me, worried about being hurt and/or betrayed (which has happened) and after allowing myself to become vulnerable to people who were just using me for their benefit and I was too blind and too stupid to see it. Social media, that's a whole 'nother story, don't even get me started on that cause it does nothing but bring out the absolute WORST in people (I'm on Facebook but haven't been on it since last November) and I've had my fair share of leaving nasty comments/cussing people out after they've attacked me and/or my character but I've been doing great thus far by steering clear of it cause it isn't good for my stress/anxiety/depression levels, it just adds more negativity
JimmyH
2023-06-22 07:03:21 +0000 UTCI get, understand and relate to so much of you are saying and what you are feeling today. I really think when people make nasty comments to people like that, it is because they are jealous. And i hope you aren't ever really embarrassed by what you so here, it is so appreciated. I love to just hang out, listen to you and relax
Mikeylikesu69
2023-06-22 01:30:02 +0000 UTCThose bad days can really suck, but there is better days to come! Keep your head up Tyson 🙂 I can relate to a lot of the issues you talk about and it really helps me to push forward! Thank you for sharing.
Jeff
2023-06-22 01:10:01 +0000 UTCYou are a sensitive person - obvious from your videos. Tmrw you will have a great day. Everybody has a down day. By the way - your hair looks great. Sometimes can’t be seen with the bandana covering it up.
Howard Cobb
2023-06-22 00:35:36 +0000 UTC
