Sexual Imagination vs P*RN π§
Added 2025-07-15 03:50:49 +0000 UTCSo it's been a while since I picked your brains...
I am reading this new book called " Ethical Porn For Dicks- A Man's Guide to Responsible Viewing Pleasure"
GREAT BOOK. Highly recommend.
He mentions that using your sexual imagination is a healthy way to be in charge of your sexuality. As opposed to porn that puts us more in a passive state of mind with our sexuality.
My question to you all is....
How often do you use your imagination instead of porn? π
And would you ever read (or even pay for) someoneβs written fantasies, or maybe write out and expand on YOUR fantasies? Or is visual stimulation your go-to?
Comments
Not sure if those options are a good fit for me. I certainly love using my imagination, but I also really enjoy porn and erotic fiction. I'm not much of a reader of fiction, so not sure I would pay for erotic stories unless they were mainstream fiction - such as New York Times best seller list - and had a deeper purpose than just sex. Besides, it seems like there is an infinite amount of free online sexual fiction, "to infinity and beyond!", so that also makes me doubt I'd actually buy it. Although even the best of it could use a good editor to clean up the grammar, sentence structure, misspellings, awkward punctuation, poor pacing and the story's flow.
Kirk Evenson
2025-07-16 01:04:26 +0000 UTCI like visual and using my imagination I have also gotten to like writing out my fantasies just depends on my mood and what I'm feeling in the moment and with me being a wheelchair user I like to add my chair into play sometimes.
wheelz
2025-07-15 19:50:58 +0000 UTC
