Let's talk

Hi everyone. I wanted to talk about something. Since it's looking like it's going to get big, i wanted you to hear a story on my side. I had no intention to make this post but looks like i have no choice.

In this story i'm going to tell, i will hide names due to obvious reasons. There are two people involved in this. I will call these people as A and B. This story is going between person A and B. It had nothing to do with me but one of them decided to make it about me. So here we go.

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It all started after sharing the Sylus sim as COTM. I did not include his outfits due to company being very unhappy with their models being exported. To avoid takedown, i didn't include them. But this A person was very annoyed of me not sharing his outfits. Then, to calm them down, i told them where to find Sylus' outfits. They couldn't find it. Even though it was a very easy search, they couldn't find it and kept complaining both in comments and community chats. Then, the person B decided to contact them and send them a link for this character's outfits. But how could they contact them? They clicked on their profile, this click lead them to person A's patreon. There was a youtube linked and when you click on their youtube, there is a "Contact me" button. When person B clicked on this, it showed the email adress of person A. With good intent, person B sent an email to help person A.

Person A took this offensively and considered it was a violation of their privacy. They contacted me and very angrly explained that this person B stalked them and found their email in the creepy way. At first, i was shocked that person B did this. I mean, how could they stalk person A, right? So i contacted person B and asked how and why did they stalked person A. Depending on their response, i was going to ban person B. But then, person B explained the situation and how they found person A's email adress in the first place. Turns out, person B found the person A's information due to person A decided to write their very own email adress publicly. ANYONE who finds their youtube can click their "contact me" button and see their email. It's not a magic trick. In the end, person A wrote their own info publicly themselves.

I turned to person A, explained the situation and said that they wrote their own email publicly. Still, person A was VERY, VERY angry. Commanded me to tell person B to not contact them again. So i did. I told person B to not contact person A ever again because person A felt violated and does not want to be contacted by person B. I actually told them to not contact person A multiple times. Person B agreed and promised not to do so. And actually, person B stopped typing them. But the very angry person A decided to contact B themselves. Called them names and curses for sending them an email in the first place. Person B felt upset so they sent an answer to person A and explained that they were only trying to be kind. But of course, person A wasn't expecting a response after insulting person B answer. When person B tried to explain themselves to person A, everything fell apart.

Person A contacted me again with very rude tone and commanding me to ban person B. At this point, things were going very intense and i have no single connection with person A nor person B. They are my supporters and we have no other relations. I'm being completely neutral here.

But unfortunately, person A has a history of going other creators' pages and calling them names, doing some rude things and end up getting blocked. On top of that, person A was doing this for months to me. Every single time they did this to me, i tried to calm them down. Tried to be reasonable. Let their curses slide multiple times. I have saved every conversation where they were harassing me. More than 3 times. And yesterday was the last line they have crossed.

I was still trying to calm them down and told them that "yeah, they shouldn't have contacted with you in there first place". I mean, who wants to be get cursed and called names from person A, right? Person B shouldn't have tried to help them. Since they wrote their very own information themselves, i wouldn't call this "violation of privacy". But i tried to understand them and to keep things cool, i tried to reason with them so many times. I told person B to not ever contact person A again, yet, they answered person A's angry, insulting message.

Can i control anyone's actions? Can i make them type or not type?

Person A kept insulting me because person B responded their insulting mail back. Then, person A demanded me to ban person B. They were not listening to me and kept sending same exact message back to back with copy-paste. I went back to person B and asked for the mails of person A to person B. So person B showed me the mails (on their fb page), where person A calling them names and threatening person B to be getting banned from my page etc.

So the outcome would be me banning person B here, IF they were really stolen person A's information. BUT since person A personally wrote their email adress publicly themselves, i can't blame person B. Since person A kept harassing me to ban person B, cursed me, on top of that, this was not their first doing, i decided to block person A. Person A's June payment fully refunded.

Unfortunately going on, person A made this issue all about me. Decided to go after me and shared untrue stories about me everywhere and acted like i was the reason person A and person B got into fight in the first place. They are still doing this nonstop on social media.

Personally, my conscience is clean. While i didn't have any part to play in this, person A decided to make everything about me and go after me.

I was always transparent to you. So i wanted you to know this as well.

I have all the conversation screenshots but for now, i'm not pouring them out yet. If it comes to it, i can share them.

I sincerely apologize for taking your time. I sincerely apologize that this has to be posted here. But this problem is not even about me but thanks to person A and their false judgement, i'm being targeted nonstop. I only wanted to explain myself here.