Little tips and tricks to be your true self.

Hey you!

I hope you're doing well!

I know that being ourselves in a world that don't leave room for inner exploration or uniqueness can be hard, but I wanted to share with y'all the things that often help me.

1. Think before committing
Not everything is right for you and that is okay. But it's always harder to take a promise back than taking time to think before committing to something that involves other people. Don't just commit to things that feel good, but only commit to things that sound right, if that makes sense.

2. Change is inevitable. Embrace it
Yesterday doesn't define today. Try your best and let your soul grow. Be okay with not being okay with your past decisions. It means you are evolving. Don't limit yourself by who you were in the past. This version of you  is over. What do you want now? What do you feel like today? Fighting it can be exhausting and won't have much success. Everything around and inside you changes constantly. It is so beautiful.

3. Redefine how you spend your time, energy and money
Would the person you want to be do what you do today?  Would they fit in the schedule you set for yourself? Would they be happy in your routine? What would make them happy and how can you manifest it in your daily life?

4. Use internet and your devices (as) wisely (as possible)
It's hard to be perfect on this one, but an effort is already amazing. I personally often unfollow accounts that don't align with the world I want to live in (which doesn't mean I have anything against them), block most apps on my phone between 10PM and noon, and try to show the algorithm what kind of content I would like to see.

5. Give to the Universe the kind of energy you want to receive
Basic but so true. I used to complain to myself about the way people would act with me, without questioning as much the way I acted with them. But with some self development practice, I noticed a major change in my social life. The more I spread kindness, love and support and the more I receive it. It isn't calculated, but the results are here. And it doesn't take much time for things to change. Of course some people will resist, but that means more about them than it'll ever tell about you. Just let the relationship go, with peace, and keep going.

I hope these little tips helped you! I'll try to do this kind of articles more often :)

Have a wonderful day,

Talk to you soon,

Flavie.