Spilling the Tea #12: Alice

My dear Gardeners, I know you have missed me! But fear not, for I am back with a brand new batch of pictures and interviews featuring Alice. Let me tell you, this girl has truly impressed me with her insightful thoughts and conclusions. I also want to remind you that I have planned some bonuses from our meeting with Alice, so this is not the last post with this bunny.

Me: Hey Alice, I just wanted to say that I had a great time doing this photoshoot with you. You really brought the party with you, and your confidence and enjoyment of yourself created such an incredible vibe.

Alice: You know, I think it might be because of the champagne, hahaha! You had a great idea to bring it as a prop. But seriously, I wasn't always this confident. When I was a teenager, I isolated myself from any social interaction. And when it got to be too much, a real hungry beast came out, hahaha. Then I saw how people responded to my vibe, and I decided not to hide myself anymore. Because they give me good energy, and I give it back. It's a mutual exchange, you know, hahaha.

Me: Yeah, social interaction helps you get to know yourself better, that's for sure. But people can be so different, some only see your flaws, and well, you know, there are strangers on the internet. And some only see the good in you. How did you deal with controversial opinions and find yourself among them?

Alice: Oh, that's a good question. I'm just too big of an egotist, I think. I listened to my inner voice, and then it became clear to me what people's intentions were. But the most important thing is to look at yourself from the outside, honestly and openly, pay attention to all the values of your personality and those things that are usually called the dark side of the soul. When I honestly looked at myself and accepted who I am, no stranger's opinion could change my self-knowledge. All the changes I make, I make out of love for myself and the desire to become the best version of myself. But honestly, compliments still give me a boost, hahaha. It's nice when people notice how I work on myself and enjoy my peak, and when I do it sincerely, it's hard for people not to feel that strong energy.

Me: Alice, thank you for being so honest and open. Do you ever have moments of downturn when you want to give up everything and not look in the mirror? What do you do in those situations?

Alice: Of course, I'm a living person. Today, I can be the star of the dance floor, and tomorrow, I can wrap myself in a blanket and think that I'm just a puddle of tears, hahaha. What helps me is a cozy atmosphere and warm hugs from my best friend or someone close. As you said, social interaction plays a big role in self-discovery, and when you have the right people around, they help you get back on the right path.