Volatile
Added 2025-07-18 17:52:03 +0000 UTC
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I just saw Regret posted on Reddit and you deserve my money. I've been following as a lurker for a while but I don't have a Reddit account so I couldn't comment there. Don't know how far back Regret is here but this seems like a decent place to comment. I've been both Stahli and Bingus. I've been the volatile one who ends up having to be comforted after I hurt someone because I'm spiraling. I've been the anxiously attached, codependent mess who needs constant reassurance even when it was never enough. I've gotten a lot of therapy and I've come a long way, but I needed people who believed in me and my ability to grow and change to get here. Folks like to look at everything through a black and white lens, and I just wanted to thank you for writing them. Stahli and Bingus are unhealthy for each other, and they love each other not just in spite of that but because of it at times. Maybe they'll work, maybe they won't. But it just really stuns me how well you portray this relationship when so much of the narrative is that one person has to be the abuser and the other the victim as opposed to some relationships just being really toxic and a bad fit. Or a good fit that needs therapy, and also that relationships like this can't have love. They do, and sometimes that's part of the problem. Thanks, dawg. (Also I'm on mobile I'm sorry for the lack of paragraph breaks)
Syd Rosen
2025-07-23 21:31:23 +0000 UTCthis mf is volatile
Maurizio
2025-07-18 22:00:55 +0000 UTC
