Some late-night thoughts and thanks
Added 2019-09-08 17:32:50 +0000 UTCComments
Have you thought about opening up a discord? May be able to talk more about fetishes in general, or it may just end up with a bunch of guys requesting their fantasies. It really depends on the community i suppose.
Xul
2019-09-10 03:09:11 +0000 UTCProbably one of the best things about the internet these days is that people can connect this way. I know being able to share my kinks that I've been locking away in my mind out of fear of being shamed for it has helped my psyche a lot. VR has also helped me realize and enjoy my kinks without fear of judgement or exposing myself to strangers who may or may not be helpful or healthy for my life. I highly recommend checking out MeshedVR's Patreon project Virt-a-Mate if anyone here has a VR setup and is saavy with manipulating 3D models. Making a scene with models you tweak to your taste is an amazing experience. What a time to be alive! Sorry I went on a bit of a tangent there, but the whole "hidden kinks" thing has been on my mind lately too.
Tony
2019-09-09 04:24:23 +0000 UTCaw, thanks. I used to be into the BDSM scene in my local community, but I haven't managed to get into it in my new place and maybe that is what is missing right now.
MizSpecific
2019-09-09 04:17:51 +0000 UTCnaw that's sweet. Sounds like you need some community. I suggest signing up for free on fetlife in your city. Go to the events tab and go to a local munch. It's usually just safe space at a bar for kinky people to meet up in normal clothes and mingle. The creepy kinky people online usually sink like stones (socially speaking) and don't come back. But you get all the more normal socially adjusted people left. Then you network into the rest of the kink community in your city. Kink parties, orgies, all that goodness awaits. At least in my experience there's as many girls as guys, but on fet you may get inundated with all the weirdo online kinksters who do ever take their kink beyond their screen.
Xul
2019-09-08 23:28:41 +0000 UTC
