PATREON EXCLUSIVE (Full Video): Men study the world and women study men
Added 2024-03-15 05:00:03 +0000 UTC
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@E C - You really need to re-read my posts at least once more before responding. Try practicing it now. PS. There are TWO distinct aspects to "Emotional Intgelligence" -- the inward-facing "emotional regulation" and the outward-facing "social intuition". Which are you referring to? When you say "the more emotional intelligence you have the less money you need", it seems you are referring to the FORMER -- the one that men naturally excel at (which fuels their "storic strength"). But when you say "Establish an emotional connection with a woman, she won't leave you for someone with more money", you appear to be referring to the LATTER -- which women naturally excel at (which fuels their perception of "mind-reading"). Your hope to have a femininely-sensitive man is a contradiction. If you wish "emotional connection" (that is, "mind reading") with a man, then you'd be better off establishing it yourself ... or, as you say, go it alone (or with your pets). "AG is not contributing to out of control hypergamy. It's social media." The latter does not preclude the former. If he indeed raises his daughter to be "extremely hypergamous" as he said then, BY DEFINITION, he IS a contributor. "Hypergamy is basically having high standards of choosing a quality man." As I intimated earlier, "high" is relative -- what you REALLY mean is highER (than yourself). For a "low quality" woman, the bar is necessarilly QUITE low. "When you talk about submitting, it sounds like you want me to be a pick me." You and your OBSESSION with that word: "Selective submission" or being a "selective pick-me" is STILL submission and pick-me. And with respect to your "I want a man to set my soul on fire!", you necessarilly have to be HIGH-OCTANE FUEL for him. A LAZY and ENTITLED woman is essentially a DAMP RAG. And so too is a "masculine woman" as your video creator correctly mentioned -- surprising un-Feminist views for YOU to cite -- but she misses the point right at the end, by implying LAZINESS or PASSIVITY may work for you -- IT WILL NOT.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-01 07:14:28 +0000 UTC@E C - If you want a TRULY INDEPENDENT man, then you, by definition, can NOT call the shots in these minutiae -- HE must. So YOU have to learn to submit to HIS valuations and assessments. You can't have it BOTH ways -- let go these juvenile Feminist millstones and complete your growth. PS. I STILL don't have my stated concerns addressed.
Joseph Omega
2024-09-01 04:34:08 +0000 UTC@E C - Certainly I like to question inconsistencies. If there are none, I generally remain silent. Note that Alexander did not address my concerns. Maybe YOU can take a stab at them FOR him? 🤔
Joseph Omega
2024-09-01 02:10:33 +0000 UTC@RhodiumMaiden - Ah. Phrased that way, I'm tempted to agree. Again, relating this to evolutionary adaptations, this is in keeping with the "men versus the world" and "women versus each other (community) and the home (family welfare)" paradigms.
Joseph Omega
2024-06-10 06:55:19 +0000 UTCIt’s just obvious to me. Women, myself included, nearly always relate everything back to themselves. We are self-referential. This isn’t always a bad thing. But look at comment threads - women are much more like to talk about how they personally relate to the topic/talk about their personal experience, whereas men are more likely to ask questions or just comment on broader themes.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-06-07 13:03:44 +0000 UTCI thought it was the general (popular) understanding that MEN were the much more solipsistic ones--relatedly, also the much more stoic ones. Can you describe women's solipsism in a little more detail??
Joseph Omega
2024-03-24 05:57:46 +0000 UTCThis does not sound particularly "hypergamous", far less "extremely" so. It sounds like the kind of message that one would also give a son--the danger lies in the natural propensity for dads to spoil their little girls (and for moms to spoil their sons). This understandable passion may help explain your uncharacteristically hyperbolic phrasing. Not a problem, as long as you consciously recognize this very human weakness.
Joseph Omega
2024-03-20 10:30:06 +0000 UTCAs a guy in his 60s, with the same woman for decades, having raised children who are now adults, this is what I tell them about interacting with people. 1) Be polite, honest, & direct 2) Mean what you say. Or, ensure your words & actions ALIGN.
HR
2024-03-19 11:56:25 +0000 UTCIt seems simple to me, I have no great secret. Raise her to take accountability, treat people right and don't settle for a man who doesn't do the same.
Alexander Grace
2024-03-19 11:02:34 +0000 UTCYou said: "What's happening now in the modern dating--market women having standards being hypergamous that's not necessarily a problem, but when that hypergamy is out of control to the point where Modern women are just delusional that's an issue." But earlier you said: "I'm proudly raising my daughter to be extremely hypergamous because when she's an adult I don't want her settling for anything less than a top quality man." However, you used the word "extremely" for some reason--what PRECISE measures have YOU taken as a dad to PREVENT her hypergamy being "out of control"? As you said, there are increasingly large numbers of ("red pill" and other) men whose "tolerance for being tested is at an all-time low" and "truly are thoroughly sick of being tested" in this clearly rigged game. Are you not worried that you may be PERSONALLY contributing to the problem you identify? How do YOU navigate this obvious conundrum--I honestly would like to know.
Joseph Omega
2024-03-19 08:55:36 +0000 UTCImagine that you can afford (and strongly desire) to have a custom home built, however are not very knowledgeable about construction. You place an ad to attract builders and find your inbox flooded with applicants. You open your door to see the street filled with rusty pickup trucks and a mob of dusty scrawny ragged hungover men of all ages. A sea of flannel reeking of cigarette butts and draft beer, a throng of grown men pushing and shoving each other to get your attention. They all call to you, "What's your budget?" "Anything you want." "Start tomorrow." "Pay when the job's done." "Hire the best." How long will your patience last?
Jer A
2024-03-17 15:59:55 +0000 UTCBecause women are much more solipsistic. Understanding people doesn’t mean necessarily caring about them & without high standards we & our children won’t survive.
RhodiumMaiden
2024-03-16 20:15:37 +0000 UTCAccording to the website ClearThinkingCampaign.org which shows us how to think clearly, it makes a big deal about how OVERSIMPLIFICATIONS CREATE CONFUSION. So we have to take great care in how we use language. Alexander is ALWAYS sure to point out how what he's saying can seem like an oversimplification. Likewise, in your question above, you may be unaware how your question is riddled with oversimplifications. See if you could rewrite your question without saying "modern women in the west have such disdain, apathy and contempt for unexeceptional men." Watching this video to the end shows how men benefit from being shown how to manage shit tests, for example, and frame things in a way that help their women also learn what is actually going on and improve their relationship moving forward. This is all about EDUCATION across the board, and not becoming a victim of the way things are. This is what Alexander is showing us. Note also that "masculine, alpha/beta" are also gross oversimplifications. On the 21CMan.org website the case is clearly made that NO ONE knows exactly what masculinity means (using 50+ TED talks to make the case). Oversimplifications create confusion, so we must surround these terms with lots of clarifying sentences.
Markus Halvorson
2024-03-15 15:02:14 +0000 UTCEffing Brilliant Video. Dang. I give this an A++.
Markus Halvorson
2024-03-15 14:47:02 +0000 UTCGood question. My name might not be Alex, but I like to join in on your thought process if you don't mind? In the (work) environments I am part of (Im a 'Western'), there is not that much problems between men and women. They respect each other. Yes there are some imbalances at certain 'age categories' but in general it ok. How could this be the case for me, if for you at the same time its that disrespectful? To me this looks like depending on where you are (in 'the West') that there are 'local hotspots' of more respect as there are with more disrespect. I personally think thats why Alex has this common advice to 'hop around' between friend groups to find that 'hotspot' of more respect for the type of men you are.
Erik de Roos
2024-03-15 08:54:51 +0000 UTCPerhaps you can enlighten me Alex. I question why, if women are generally interested in people, and if it is in their nature to be nurturing, how is it that modern women in the West have such apathy, disdain, or even contempt for unexceptional men? I.e., the vast swath of honest, hard working men whom they deemed to be inferior, are also the very men responsible for the social order, safety, and infrastructure that entitle them to their modern optionality and comfort?
Hyperion
2024-03-15 08:21:55 +0000 UTC
