Pottery Metaphor and Dating

Dating can be seen as a monumental task in today's sexual market place. Never before have so many men have flooded the internet to search for answers on how to fix their reproductive problem. Some choose to double down on blue-pill idealism. Some learn intersexual dynamics but decide it's not worth it. Some choose to discard the TRP and rely on money and game to get what they want. Some turn to religion and conservatism. And very few use red-pill mental models to further their own interests and make peace with the current dating environment. 

There was a pottery class where an instructor decided to try an experiment to try to motivate her students. She divided the class on the basis on how she would grade their work. She told one half of the class that she would grade them on the total weight of all the pottery they produced. The other half would be graded on quality of the pottery they produced. Once both sides understood the parameters they were given several days to learn, work, and finally produce their pottery. 

Side A, who would be graded on the total weight of all their work, got to making pottery immediately. They produced piece after piece and spent little time thinking about perfecting each piece and prioritizing the next work as they would be rewarded for the total weight. 

Side B, who would be graded on the quality and artistic merit of the piece, spend days researching pottery methods, classical pottery, and techniques only to start producing pottery 3 days before their deadline. 

On the final day of the class, Side A and Side B both presented their work. Which side do you think produced better work? The side who just pumped out work after work, or the side who spent more time reading, thinking, researching, only to try to produce one perfect pot? 

In dating, you must realize is that you have to take action and stumble forward. No matter how much you consume red-pill content you must take action or you will still fail. That is what the red-pill is based on. Guys getting together failing or succeeding and trading notes. There would be no dating advice or red-pill if all men sought a perfect answer or protocol. Dating requires reps, as with many other things. Observe your results closely over a long period of time and assess your actions and tweak your approach. When you immerse yourself in dating, even for a short time you learn many things about women but more importantly, yourself. 

You'll learn

- Your preferences in women

- What women's role will be in your life

- How to vet based on YOUR standards

- Whether you prefer monogamy or spinning plates

and so on and so forth. 

Ultimately, no one cares that you make bad pottery for a bit. The bad pottery can teach you a lot. Once your hands are dirty you can look up some pottery theory. Solidifies it better. Good luck. 

- Nuke