How To Flex Your Wealth & Success Without Looking Too Try Hard (Desperate For Attention)

I'm not one of those guys who moan about women being attracted to flashy and material things. Seriously, crying over this is a waste of time. 

People (especially women) like nice stuff, and that's just how it is. Instead of complaining, focus on how you can make these things work for you. 

I’m all for having nice, shiny, and expensive things. 

But there's a right way to show off what you've got.

Flaunting your wealth in a desperate attempt to get attention can be a massive turnoff. Women can spot a try-hard from a mile away. If you want to impress, do it with subtlety and style, not by shoving it in their faces.

If you have money, you should definitely make it obvious you have money, don’t listen to all those jackass 'Alpha male' gurus telling you to ‘downplay’ your wealth. 

You just don’t wana make it seem as if you are intentionally trying to win over her approval with your money. 

There are questions women will ask when you first meet them and based of your answers, they’ll try to determine how well you are doing financially to see if you are fit to provide.

Disclaimer: This advice is mainly effective for women over age 23 - 25.

Most girls younger than this don’t have enough life experience to notice quiet luxuries.

• For example, a 19-year-old girl might think a guy with £10,000 in stacked physical cash is richer than a guy with a BLACK AMEX who never carries cash.

• They will not know the difference between a guy who is shopping at a local affordable grocery store, compared to a guy shopping for all of his groceries at a premium supermarket and ONLY buys organic foods.

• They will not know the difference between a guy who has a gym membership at a normal gym, compared to a guy who has 5 different gym memberships in the best gyms of the city.

• They will not know the difference between a guy who goes to France, compared to a guy who goes to Monaco.

• They will not know the difference between a guy who gets a hotel, compared to a guy who gets luxury Air B&B stays

• They will not understand what it really means to be allocated a Rolex from an Authorised dealer 

(Tbh with you I don’t think most women regardless of age will ever know what truly means 🤣🤣🤣)

Etc....

If you’re dating women under 23 and want to show off your success, you’ll need to be more direct with how you 'flex' your wealth.

This means wearing flashy chains, designer clothes, jewellery, driving a nice car, etc. Basically, you’ll have to present yourself like a rapper to make an impression that you’re doing well financially.

When women reach 23 and above, they start to understand what true wealth and success look like.

They can appreciate subtle indicators of true success. So, you won’t have to be as aggressive when showing off.

Nothing wrong with it, it’s just them maturing.

As they grow older, their understanding of wealth and success evolves. They begin to understand the signs of TRUE wealth instead of being tricked by flashy displays.

It's just a natural progression and a sign of maturity. Happens to men too.

There are a lot of young fake ballers who pretend to be richer than they really are.

With age, women realise that outward appearance doesn’t represent a man’s true financial status or stability. 

They start to see through the flashy fronts and understand that real wealth is often understated. This maturity helps them distinguish between genuine success and guys pretending.

With younger women, you have to ‘show the money’ more.

They won’t understand the luxury lifestyle just yet.

How To Stunt

1. Where You Live

Your town, neighbourhood, and city speak volumes about you. Every town, country, or city has an ‘upper class’ location, and living there says a lot about your financial status.

A prestigious address subtly communicates success and stability without you having to say much.

Every city and country has that one place where, the moment you hear someone lives there, you automatically assume they’re rich—or at the very least, very financially stable.

When you are getting to know a woman, this is something that will come up naturally during conversation.

Sometimes women will also ask if you live alone because it’s quite common these days for people to have roommates even if they live in the expensive parts. 

Living alone in a major city shows a great level of financial stability, even success.

2. Travel 

 I started to notice how people have taken a big interest in travelling around 2018 / 2019

Where you travel and how often you travel is another way to subtly display your wealth. 

This is another conversation topic that will naturally come up during conversation. The key is to make it seem natural. 

Mentioning your travel experiences in passing, without making a big deal out of it, shows that these luxuries are a normal part of your life.

Exotic destinations, luxury resorts, and frequent trips indicate that you have the means to enjoy life to the fullest. 

It’s about casually mentioning that weekend in Paris or that month-long trip to Bali. 

Your travel habits can speak volumes about your success without you having to say much at all.

Travelling has become a way for people to showcase their lifestyle and financial freedom. 

It’s not just about the destinations but the experiences that come with them. From luxurious beach resorts to cultural expeditions, travel has become a status symbol.

If you travel a lot, make sure you put the highlights on your instagram profile, or if you are on dating websites, make sure you post pictures of you in the different cities or countries you have been to.

3. Plain Designer Luxury Watch (Preferably Rolex)

If you date younger women (under 25) and you want to impress and showoff your success, get a bussed down sparkling diamond watch. 

The diamonds can even be fake, they won’t know.

With a woman over 25, it can seem as if you’re doing ‘too much’ if you are wearing a buss down. 

A little bit of diamonds around the bezels is fine, but avoid having a complete buss down watch when you're with women who are over 25

A plain, high-quality designer watch speaks volumes about your taste and financial stability without being over the top.

If you are getting a watch just to look cool for women, get a Rolex. This is a very popular luxury watch brand that even your grandmother will know.

If it’s simply for women, avoid going for brands like Audemars Piguet, Richard Mille, Patek Phillipe.

Whilst these watches are MUCH MORE expensive than a Rolex, they just don’t have the Rolex level of branding, which means the average person on the street won’t know that it’s a luxury ‘big boy’ watch.

With the way some of those watches are designed, women will think they’re not worth more than a few hundred £

Once, I asked a girl I was having a lunch with to guess the price of a Richard Mille Watch.

She thought it was a £200 watch.  That watch costs well over £200,000 GBP!!!

When you get those ‘big boy’ watches, it will only impress other men. So save them for the networking and business events if you get them.

Women will notice your watch and your shoes. 

Make sure you have good shoes too. They don’t have to be the most expensive, but they MUST be in good condition.

If your shoes are beat up or have a lots of stains, it can make you look poor in the eyes of a woman.

Especially if it’s your first 1-2 times meeting.

4. American Express Credit Card (AMEX)

All credit cards do the same thing. 

The only difference is in the rewards benefits for the points you accumulate, but fundamentally, they all serve the same purpose. 

It's like comparing an Audi RS Q8 to a Lamborghini Urus. It’s the same car, with the same engine. The only difference is the branding and the design.

American Express has a very powerful brand. Nearly every mature person automatically assumes that someone with an American Express card is rich and doing very well for themselves. It’s a subtle but strong signal of financial success.

With America express you usually need very good credit / strong financial background to be eligible for one.

Most young women (under 23) will think an Amex is just a regular old bank card.

They won’t understand its significance or what it represents. If you’re looking to impress younger women, this card might not have the impact you’re hoping for. 

You are better off pulling out a STACK of £50 notes or $100 bills and paying that way 🤣

But with women over 23-25, pulling out an American Express card can silently communicate your financial stability and success without you having to say a word.

This point mainly applies if you live in England, USA, Canada, Australia, New Zealand.

This is because in most other countries across the world which are not economically strong, they don’t know what an American Express is, regardless of their age. 

No offence, but do you really think people in Botswana know what an AMEX represents?

Remember, this advice holds true mainly in capitalistic countries where the branding of American Express carries significant weight.

If you do choose to get an American Express, see if you can qualify for the amex Gold or Platinum. 

Fuck Apple Pay. 

Make sure you pull it out and ‘casually’ put it on the table. It will be impossible for her to not see it. Most women e

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5.. Your Job Title

Sometimes when someone’s tells you their career title, you will hear it and immediately know they are making money. 

• Chief Executive Officer (CEO)

• Chief Financial Officer (CFO)

• Chief Operating Officer (COO)

• Chief Technology Officer (CTO)

• Managing Director

• Senior Vice President (SVP)

• Vice President (VP)

• Professional Athlete at a respectable level 

• Partner (in a law firm, consulting firm, etc.)

• Principal (in a consulting firm)

• Any type of Engineering

• Executive Director

• Investment Banker

• Portfolio Manager

• Surgeon

• ALL types of Doctors

• Dentist

• Medical Director

• Lead Engineer

• Project Manager

• Architect

• Software Developer/ development Manager

• Financial Analyst

• Data Scientist

• Real Estate Property Developer

• Venture Capitalist

• Private Equity

• Jeweller

• Attorney

• Pilot

• Scientists 

Im sure there are PLENTY more jobs that can be perceived to be 'high value' but these are just a few that came to my mind as I am writing this.

What you do / going to do as a career or business is something that will naturally come up during conversation, by you stating this, she will already start doing the maths in her head lol.

Again, there are some career titles, you will hear and immediately know the person is making BANK!

Conclusion 

I WISH men got over this aspect of female nature.

You must understand and accept that women by nature seek a PROVIDER. 

I don’t like it how all of these ‘alpha males’ in the online self improvement space has made it seem like a man is weak or almost made out to be some kind of sucker for love because he wants to involve money in dating.

They will call a man a simp for taking a woman on a very nice date.

This is how nature intended the male and female dynamic to be.

Even the animal kingdom operates this way in the wild. Idk why modern men are trying to fight against it.

As men we are the providers and women will test us to see if we are capable of providing in order to feel safe and trust our leadership so she can be at her full feminine.

As men, we don’t have to go that deep with a woman. We either find her attractive or not.

With women, they have to dig deeper into us and test to see if we are fit to lead and protect.

Men lead with resources and protection, women lead with their sex appeal. 

Women dress beautiful, they wear their makeup, they do their hair nice so they can to put it out there for the men to pick her. 

This is why they will spend hours doing their makeup before they meet you for a date. 

Thats nature. Get over it.

-Till Next Time