Ladies, You Must Do What Is Easy (Marrying Rich)

If there are guys who are willing to provide for you and are attracted to your look, go for one of them.

But pay attention to the type of men you’re attracting. 

If you go around every day wearing dark colours, black stiletto heels, and red lipstick, you're not going to attract a dominant or strong man.

Instead, you'll attract a submissive or passive man who needs a strong woman to lead him.

If your approach is aggressive and demanding, don't expect to attract a man who takes initiative.

Men who take charge aren't looking for someone to compete with; they're looking for a partner who complements their strength, not challenges it.

Adjust your vibe if you want a different kind of man.

Track who you attract based on your appearance.

Think back: when you wore that light / floral dress, who noticed you?

When you dyed your hair lighter, who showed interest?

Looks don't matter in that anyone can marry rich, whether you're short or tall, curvy or skinny, dark or light. There's room for every type of woman.

However, looks DO matter because regional beauty standards and preferences exist. 

We can use cultural beauty standards to understand who will be attracted to what.

Many European men with lighter features like medium-dark skin and dark hair and eyes.

Asian men often prefer women with dark hair and ivory skin.

Black men in the US and UK often like medium-light skin and more curves.

Middle Eastern men and those in southern Italy/Greece tend to like the tall Russian blonde type.

This is all culturally relevant.

If you're trying to attract a certain type of man and it’s not working, but another group is always attracted easily, find out about the high society of that group and lean towards their beauty ideals to gain maximum benefits.

People always say to move to a new city or country to find a good partner but here's no point moving to another country to try dating if you don't fit their standard at all.

It’s only making it harder for you if you know a certain country or group has a beauty standard that is the opposite of you, targeting them won't serve you.

Adjust your strategy to fit the standards where you'll get the most return.

"Oh But He’s Boring , I’m Not Attracted To Him"

If you want to marry rich, stop worrying about attraction.

I'm not saying he have to be really ugly, but if you want to marry rich, looks can't be the main thing you focus on.

Let me explain this from a male perspective so you can understand better.

Most good-looking men aren't rich or wealthy because they've never had to struggle to attract women. Yes, you see handsome, rich male celebrities, but they are a very small amount.

Most good-looking men have had their life on easy mode, so there's no drive or ambition to become really successful.

Sex and female attention is one of the biggest motivations for men. Not 'God & Family' 🤣🤣🤣

Unattractive men, who didn't get much attention from girls and women, knew they had to level up and become rich or successful to attract beautiful women.

This is why there are so many successful men who aren't very attractive compared to the number of attractive men who aren't successful.

This is also why many successful men are go to poor countries to find wives and start families.

Not saying those women don't have any standards, they do. But looks and physical appearance is not the most important thing for those women.

Men go to these poor countries, meet and marry a young attractive woman and then take care of her for the rest of her life and she never works again.

Does this mean they don't love each other? No, they do love each other.

I write it here so you can understand much better :https://www.patreon.com/posts/lessons-id-teach-103093588

Also, this video shows exactly what I am talking about, this is rich Chinese man who would be considered 'Unattractive' by most women who married a young woman in Africa.

I will link a youtube video for you to see because I just want you to see what I am talking about is happening in real life and this is why western women fail in marriages and why women from 'poor' countries do very well with marriage and having families

Skip through it because it's quite long.  :https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7t-qtdsP_6g&ab_channel=GladysLin

These types of relationships are happening all over.

There's loads of good quality men in rich countries and the women are not choosing them because he is not sexy enough.

If A Man Is Boring, This Is Very Good.

This means he’s stable, calm and normal.

The Chinese man that African woman marry is a 'Boring' type of man.

He's an engineer. But the AVERAGE salary for an engineer in China is around £250,000 a year

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n7jm-YIiIPc&ab_channel=GladysLin

He’s not doing anything unpredictable, he’s solid. And also other women will find him boring, so they won’t go for him.

Men like this are the best type to go for if you want to marry rich with stability and longevity.

Is there charming and attractive men who can do this? YES! but it is not many, and out of that, many of them will not be in their 20s 🤣 some might not even be in their 30s

Who wants an overly charming man who charms every woman he meets? If you are looking for a long term relationship or marriage, do you want competition, stress and worry everyday of your life?

This is why the funny, charismatic and smooth men are dangerous, they will laugh the pants off some stupid women who don’t have self worth and who don’t look for money.

And they'll charm you out of looking for money, stability or anything real.

I spoke about it deeper, here: https://www.patreon.com/posts/4-dating-rules-i-83237986?utm_medium=clipboard_copy&utm_source=copyLink&utm_campaign=postshare_creator&utm_content=join_link

Some women will feel embarrassed to be seen with an 'ugly' man, a short man, an older man

I hate when other people stare at me

These are all things I have been told.

But who’s paying all of your bills? who’s buying the gifts?

Is it the people staring, or is it the 'ugly'/short/older man?

most men who are considered 'short', are not actually short. they are average height.

most men who are considered 'old' are not old. Old age is 65+... not someone in their 30s and 40s

most men who are considered 'ugly' are not ugly. They are just average or just below average without anything special about their facial features. 'Ugly' is when someone has several facial and skin deformities.

Whatever makes YOUR life easier and happier, do it. Whatever feels like an uphill battle, stop doing it

Besides, a lot of 'older' 'ugly' 'shorter' men are simply not that bad. There are many handsome or regular looking men like this.

Most men will be late bloomers.

As a woman, if you want to marry rich, you may have to sacrifice something.

Maybe he won't have a very lively personality. So he might not be super funny or charming.

maybe he won't be the most physically attractive.

Maybe he wont be as tall as you wish him to be.

but there is something youll have to sacrifice, most times.

Remember, in life, there are no perfect scenarios. Only tradeoffs = https://www.patreon.com/posts/podcast-life-is-70873845

-Till next time