Calm, Logical, Rational

Have you noticed how most people make the worst life decisions when they are in an emotional state?

When you’re angry, scared, horny or overly excited, you lose the ability to think clearly.

Decisions made in these states are usually impulsive and lead to regret.

It’s like letting a drunk person drive a car—it’s gonna end badly. 

There's 3 States Of Mind 

Reptilian = Survival, sex, eat

Limbic = Emotional 

Neocortex =  Logical and rational 

Most people run on autopilot, using their reptilian and limbic brains 95% of the time.

The neocortex, the part responsible for rational thinking, gets used only about 5% of the time with most people.

Think about all the terrible decisions you've made. Chances are, you were in a high-emotion state. Would you have made those same decisions if you were calm, logical, and rational? Probably not.

Increase your neocortex activity. Dial down the limbic responses. This is how you make the best decisions in life.

If you want to make great choices anytime, anywhere, use the Neocortex 50-80% of the time or more.

When you're experiencing high levels of emotion, stop. Breathe. Think.

Ask yourself:

If I remove my emotions from this situation, what is the RIGHT way to handle it?

It sounds easy, but it's challenging for many people. This is elite-level emotional control and management.

At this level, not much in life can affect you mentally or emotionally. You stay calm, logical, and rational no matter what.

This kind of emotional control means you make better decisions and handle stressful situations more effectively.

Especially as a man, women find it really attractive when a guy has a gentle but powerful calmness to him.

If a guy gets upset easily, she will doubt his ability to lead her. Emotional outbursts signal weakness and instability.

Always be calm, logical, and rational. This shows strength, reliability, and confidence. It proves you can handle whatever comes your way and are a solid anchor in any storm.

If someone cheats on you, don't go and start punching the walls. Don't immediately start crying your eyes out.

Just calmly break up with him or her. Understand and recognise you are a person value.

The cheating probably had nothing to do with YOU but they allowed their REPTILIAN brain get the better of them during that moment.

And no matter how much they cry or beg to take you back, theres no chance for a relationship again as you can no longer trust them and they pose as a risk to your life as they are easily talked into making bad decisions.... such as cheating. End things calmy with a smile.

If you know you're on a journey of giving up an addiction, instead of allowing the Reptilian and Limbic brain get the best of you, stop, breath and think. Remember why you are on the journey of giving up and continue with the good habits.

"I feel like masturbating right now but I know this an addiction I'm trying to minimise / give up. let me go have a cold shower then go to bed"

"I feel like eating unhealthy snacks right now, but i know this isnt helpful to achieve my weight loss journey. OK i will have some vegetables and water then go to sleep"

"I understand work has fired me but there's nothing i can do now, it's done. being sad won't get the job back. let me sort my priorities out and get back on the job market"

"This girls pussy feels so tight and warm right now and the sensations I am experiencing is crazy, i really want to cum inside of her ...but I know im not ready to be a father. OK let me pull out"

"I am trying to save up money but eventho I see these new fashion trends, I know going on a shopping trip and consistently eating out will greatly delay my financial goals"

"I am trying to save up and get ahead ahead financially, i don't FEEL like working two jobs but i know having an extra job will help me get there faster. I don't do much with my weekends anyway.

"This boy / girl is making it really hard to meet up with them. Instead of blowing them up. let me just give him/her space until they reach back out to me. I will alk to other men/women for now"

"This guy is really testing my patience and I know I'm capable of knocking him out but this would come at the cost of losing my great job and my bright future. I'll just give him a verbal checking and avoid him for good now. fuck him"

You get the idea....

There's people in jail because they allowed emotions to get the better of them.

There's men who have unplanned children because they allowed a few seconds of emotional excitement to get the best of them.

There's people who have been fired from great jobs because they allowed a moment of anger lead them to badly disrespecting the boss

There are students who dropped out of school because they let frustration, doubt and discouragement win.

There are individuals drowning in debt because they gave into the thrill of impulse buying things they can’t afford

There are people in unhappy marriages because they let the short term of emotion of ‘love’ make them believe that was a perfect life long partner

There are business owners who made terrible deals because they let greed and impatience cloud their judgment.

Always be calm, rational and logical. 

Master your emotions, and you will master your life.