It's Time For You To Start Being The RUTHLESS VILLAIN π
Added 2024-04-05 15:47:55 +0000 UTCAre you sick and tired of being the underdog with the chip on your shoulder?
How about you start being the 'Bad guy' to achieve your goals?
Start developing a ruthless (none destructive) attitude towards life.
Start saying NO to more things and start saying YES to things that benefit yourself. This is a REQUIREMENT if you want to achieve anything big.
Every successful is a bit of an asshole.
Starting being willing to be the bad guy that no-one likes but it will all be worth it in the end.
Notice how you lose people from your life when you decide to get serious with your life.
Being ruthless about achieving your goals means setting strict boundaries around your time and energy.
Say no to commitments that don't align with your objectives or drain your resources. (Time, money, energy and focus)
Protecting your time and using it wisely is critical to maintaining focus and momentum towards what truly matters.
This might mean turning down social invitations, stepping back from time-consuming hobbies, or even distancing yourself from demanding relationships just to focus more on the GOAL.
Challenge: Make a plan to ONLY commit to things and habits that will take your life forward for the next 30 days and see how your life naturally unfold and then see how great you feel.
What will happen you will realise how much progress you've made in just 30 days and then this will make you think twice when you're about to do things that don't align with where you are going or what you're working on.
You will get addicted to this.
This challenge is not just about seeing what you can achieve in a short span but also about realising the potential every focused effort has in steering your life in the direction you aspire to.
Stop wasting money on BS
Staying up late for no reason
Nights out drinking & Junk food, instead nights in the gym & eating clean
Ending a relationship because it's draining and time consuming
Stop trying convince people on why they should level up, it's draining.
Stop wasting time on people who have 0 interest in dealing with you 'Like that'
Hanging out with deadbeats, when you could doing overtime at work, doing extra studying or working on your business.
etc...
It's easy to say to others, but how easy is it to say no to yourself on indulging in the urges that are not aligned with the best version of you.
The majority of people are not RUTHLESS, they are just NPC's just existing so most people are not your competition, which is OK because not everyone wants big things in life
But as you level up, you will enter very competitive spaces where there is groups of people who are striving for the SAME SPOT AS YOU, everyone becomes ruthless and sometimes the person who makes it to the top and wins is just about who is willing to be the most ruthless individual.
E.g. Sometimes at work or school, there is opportunities but they are ONLY reserved for the TOP TOP TOP TOP students and employees and only the ruthless ones will get it.
The ones who are willing to come in 2-3 hours early for work / training
The ones who are willing to stay 2-3 hours after work / training
The ones who will LIVE in the library all week studying so they can do the best on exams
The ones who will stay in their bedroom everyday working and building their business
The ones who are willing to wake up at the SAME time everyday, eat the SAME healthy meals and have consistent training plan to achieve their dream physique.
Now imagine you used this type of mentality into everything you do with your life, think of how further you'd get?
Nothing is wrong this. Many people will attempt to gaslight you into feeling like you are selfish for doing things that benefit YOUR life, but this is your life, why would you not take it seriously?
When you are highly competitive environments you will notice the people who strive for more are ruthless.
Billionaires, ruthless
Millionaires, ruthless
People who earn a high income, ruthless
These people had to take their life very seriously in order to get the positions they're in today.
I am someone who's developing an interest in the outdoors lifestyle as I'm getting older:
Camping
Hiking
Trailing
Mountain Biking
etc..
So I have just started to gravitate to start watching TV shows that are based outdoors & survival.
In the beginning of the shows, everyone is nice and friendly, but when the competition ends with one person winning $1,000,000 you will start to see human nature in it's RAWEST form.
https://www.netflix.com/gb/title/81480322
This is a great show which illustrates how raw and cutthroat human nature can be. Especially when there is a massive prize to win at the end.
It's a great representation what things are like when you are in highly competitive environments.
And because many people have never experienced being in ruthless environments, it can be a real SHOCK to many people when it finally happens to them and the pressure makes them uncomfortable then they go back to playing the game at a much higher level.
**I experienced ruthless environments from an early age playing sports at a high level.
When you play sports at a youth level, you may be officially 'signed' on a teams roster but your position is never actually 'secured'
Every week your position is up for competition and 1-3 bad performances can be the result of you getting released from a team. There was no time to 'breath and relax'
It's a highly competitive environment because is working to eventually get offered a professional contract (limited spaces, and only the top performers get them)
I always had to be on GO mode. **
(I did not get released for bad performances, it was me and my entire age group who was let go for things beyond our control) Put some respect on my game π
I've seen so many people have high aspirations to be making a lot of money but once they realise how competitive it is to get involved high paying industries, they get intimidated and settle for the lesser paying jobs then complain why they are not making big money.
Be willing to be one who bites down on your mouthguard to take a punch in the face whilst you counter with the punch that KNOCKS OUT the competition. πΏ
Always remember: Just because it's difficult does not mean to AVOID. The difficult things to get are things worth having.
BE THE RUTHLESS VILLAIN.
Comments
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chambersjr
2024-04-06 16:46:29 +0000 UTCAmazing. The sooner people realise that its kill or be killed in this life the better. People expect things to be fair and easy when life is the complete opposite. Its supposed to be this way, thats why there is a hige divide between the rich and the poor. The rich are willing to put everything on the line and squash anything in their path People look at jobs and think it sounds too stressful and competitive to partake in - they will never find another scenario where this isnβt the case and still pays lots of money Everybody wants luxuries, not everybody wants it bad enough to do the work required and constantly live on the edge
Aidan
2024-04-06 16:12:37 +0000 UTC