Why 95% Of Men Don’t have Access To The Women They Truly Want

I believe most men don’t have access to the women they truly desire and this could be due to a few reasons which i'm going to get into today.

1. Location 

Whenever I discuss with men about love & relationships, I usually ask them to describe their dream woman, a woman who ticks every single one of his boxes.

The answers I get is usually a description of a woman who:

• Has different cultural belief systems

• Different language / accent

• Skin tone

Most men have a preference and type in a women which is beyond the country they are in.

But most men can't have what they really want and thats because it means they’ll have to put in the WORK in order to be able to go to the countries and cities their type of woman is in.

“Omg Noah, I want to have an Eastern European women”

“Omg Noah, I want to have an asian women”

“Omg Noah, I want to have an African women”

And I've spoken to men from America, who say they desire women from England/ AUS

If thats your type of woman is not in your hometown or country, what are you going to do about this?

Are you going to continue staying in your small town & forever keep on day dreaming about what it would be like to meet a woman from these places?

Or are you going to figure out a way to actually go to these places.

You NEED to be ruthless about the things you want.

The things you want are not going to magically find their way to you.

These things will not randomly 'manifest' their way into your life 

God will not just magically put these things in your life.

I really don’t want to come across as a doomer but let’s keep it real for a second, If you want these women, it means you need to go over to these places.

It means you should even take the time to learn the language before you are there. 

You want a traditional Japanese or Eastern European wife but you don’t even want to learn her language. Make it make sense?

I have spoken to many men and I’ve gathered most men are not attracted to the women who are in their city or their hometown.

Sometimes it's because of different cultural values.

They may believe in much more traditional values but they are living in a very modern environment where traditional values are not prioritised.

2. Most Men Don’t Have Access To The Women Because Of Where THEY Are In Life.

When men are in a competitive dating marketplace, sometimes they don’t match up to the level of men the women they want, may have access to. 

I strongly believe that the average man is only 3-4 years away from going average to high level. 

This can be a strong start to significantly improve your physical appearance and building up your financial foundation. 

I believe fitness & success is the foundation for a great male life and when this foundation is in place, things become a lot easier.

This is totally possible. 

Another thing is that sometimes guys will work hard on themselves, build a great life but they’re just in the WRONG LOCATION.

I HIGHLY encourage men (and women) to go where they are the MOST desired. 

Whats the point of doing all the work and putting in all the effort just to stay in the same location where you’re not even really into those kind of women?

Maybe you’re into women with a different skin tone, hair texture, accent, body type, culture, life values etc...

or maybe you prefer women who are in your country but of a different socio-economic class?

Not many people talk about how important your LOCATION is when it comes to dating and/or find a life partner.

I encourage you to find ways you can relocate yourself and be in the environment where the type of women (or men) you want are at. 

You don’t have to be a super rich self made entrepreneur who’s travelling the world.

Example: You could become a foreign English languages teacher in those countries 

Or does the company you work for have firms in other countries that peak your interest?

Do you have any skills you received from your career that can be valuable in other countries?

This way you can be making a UK / USA / AUS/ CA income and then be in countries where the cost of living is not so high. Especially if those countries have the kind of women you really want.

If this is something that has sparked your interest, I highly encourage you to start looking for ways you can work remotely whilst still earning in a strong western income.

Usually a lot of tech, law and finance firms pay extremely well and have options for remote work.

I’ll be honest, the careers that pay really well and have international firms usually require some kind of formal education or gone through rigorous training. 

Or the other option is by building an online business, this way you’re location free and only need a wifi connection. 

(I’ve made content on here already on exactly how to build an online business)

This is a huge cheat code. what's stopping you?

Another option is by joining the military. 

Most military positions that you will be offered after training, your base will usually be overseas.

Your home costs will be covered and you could be in a new country every 6 months if you really wanted to, you’ll learn soo many new skills and have a lot of benefits WHILST making a western strong income (£$€)

(not trying to recruit you in the military, just putting it out there if you are not aware already)

Many people often get afraid when they hear the military and think they're going to be on the battlefield shooting their guns and dodging bullets.

There are soooooooooooooooo many departments in the miliatry which doesn't involve you doing this.

The days of fighting on the battlefield are not the same as the old days, nowadays war is done through technological warfare

• Stealing Data Online

• Drone wars (unmanned)

The military is one of the best moves for someone who wants to do something like this.

They will also be willing to train and PAY you for getting an education or getting trained in a high income career.

Not to mention the salary, the opportunities and very good benefits.

This is just to spark an idea in your mind that you don't have to settle with someone or a life you are not really into just because they are in your city and you don't have hope you could find anyone better.

I hope this motivates any man or woman who is reading this.

It’s possible to get what you really want, you just don’t have access to it yet, but trust me if you REALLY tried, you can.

95% of men aint doing this, that why their life is the way it is, respectfully.

Till next time.