(Article) 11 Positive Signs That A Girl Is Girlfriend Material

If you see majority of these signs in a woman, you should probably date her.

It doesn’t mean she’ll be your soulmate but it means you should definitely give her a chance.

These signs demonstrate that she’s a great/healthy prospect to take seriously whether you’re looking for a girlfriend or marriage.

MAKE SURE THAT YOU ARE ALSO GIVING OFF THESE SIGNS ASWELL.

1. She’s Consistently Interested In You

Someone showing consistent interest in you should be one of the first signs you look for when dating.

You don’t want someone who’s 50/50 about you.

If they don’t show consistent interest, then you should have to have some self respect and keep things moving.

It’s not your job to try and convince her to like you.

Always take mixed signals as a NO

If they’re not giving consistent interest, find someone who will.

2. She Communicates Honestly With You

- If she can’t communicate honestly with you

- If she hides her feelings

- If she lies

These are things which will cause huge problems later on in the relationship.

It’s not your responsibility to get her to “open up”

3. She Has Friends

Women should have other female friends.

If all her friends are male friends, that’s a huge red flag

Or if she has absolutely no friends at all, you will then become all she’s focused on.

Which will make you too much of a responsibility

In the long run, this will get annoying and draining.

A woman must have a life outside of you

A woman SHOULD have other female friends she’s hanging out with

If she doesn’t have this, you’ll be too much of her focus.

4. She Has Hobbies

She has to enjoy doing other things with her life apart from staying inside and watching Netflix reruns every weekend.

5. She Makes Time For You

Even if she has a very busy schedule, if you’re a priority, she WILL make time for you.

You should make time for her aswell too if she’s a priority in your life.

The biggest gift you can give anyone is the gift of your time and attention.

So if you’re giving that to someone and they’re not willing to give that back to you, then she’s not worthy of you giving it to her to begin with.

Move on.

6. Physical Attraction

You should be physically attracted to the person that you’re dating.

Physical attraction can change, so take time to get to know them once they get comfortable around you.

Some women don’t always look the same 24/7

7. She Is Kind

She has to be a kind person.

If you’re with someone and they’re not kind to other people around you then it’s only a matter of time until she starts being unkind to you.

You won’t know this on the first or second date.

It usually takes around 3 months (or longer) for a persons true character to reveal itself.

If they’re rude to other people, eventually it will happen to you too.

8. Has Goals & Ambitions

If she’s someone who has no goals or ambitions, then the only ambition she’s gonna have is you.

That’s too much responsibility, especially if you have your own stuff going on.

Her goals and ambitions may not be the same as yours, it doesn’t need to be.

So don’t judge her based off of that.

But she has to be aiming for something to achieve with her life.

9. She Is Emotionally Stable

Now there are times when women will break down and that’s OKAY 👍

And when that happens then it’s your job to be there for her. You have to be the Rock in the relationship.

But if you’re ALWAYS dealing with an unstable person it can become impossible for the relationship to be stable if one person is never stable.

She has to be able to deal with some issues on her own instead of always running to you to cry on.

You can gently guide and suggest but It’s not your responsibility to fix anyone.

People have to be willing to participate in their own rescue

10 . She Is Supportive

She should be supportive to the things you’re going after in life

She should be supportive of your lifestyle

She should be supportive with your career

If she’s not supportive with those things and she’s never encouraging you about it then you should move on and find someone who will.

You don’t want someone who’s always jealous and negative.

Be with someone who’s positive.

11. Physically Takes Care Of Herself

She should be taking care of herself and her health.

If she can’t take care of herself, how well do you think she’ll take care of you when you’re sick or how well do you think she’ll take care of your child(ren) if you’re to have any?

Be with someone whos responsible and has their shit together.

Pay attention to the little things she does:

- Does she shower often?

- Does she always smell nice?

- Does she wear clothes that are appropriate?

- Is she a responsible person when she’s outside?

- Is she messy / unhygienic?

Paying attention to those things will let you know what type of person she is when it comes to self care.

Conclusion

If you have a girl who does a majority or all these things then she is girlfriend / wife material

MAKE SURE YOU ARE ALSO EXHIBITING THESE SIGNS IN YOURSELF TOO.

Because if you’re not, it will be very difficult to find a girl who will behave this way towards you.

Till next time.