(ARTICLE) The ACTUAL Way To Get Girls Using Your Social Media (IG and Snapchat)

A lot of guys nowadays are surprised by the amount of women that’s leaving them on *SEEN* whenever they send them a message.

Attracting women (not chasing) to you on social media is completely different than how it’s done in real life.

Social media is extremely superficial.

So in this article I will explain all you need to do and know to be in the top 20% of men who easily get girls on social media without being a try hard dork who posts stacks of cash hoping girls will come flocking to him.

Why Instagram / Snapchat (or other social media)

Have you ever seen a male peacock attract a mate?

He will approach the female slowly, then once he’s within 10 feet of her, he will expand his tail feathers to reveal his captivating colorful patterns.

Once he has attention, he will shake his tails feathers. This motion, along with the colorful patterns, attracts the female peacock into mating with him.

Keyword: Attracts

Now think of yourself as that peacock and Instagram is your colorful tail feathers.

When you approach a girl and get her number, 90% of the time you have not really gotten her attention unless you are an excellent gamer.

Most times a girl will give you her number because she feels bad or because your approach gave her an ego boost—so she rewards you like a dog.

This is evident when you text the girl and she texts back with one-word responses, or doesn’t respond at all.

(Don’t act like you don’t know what I’m talking about)

Using Instagram is a different scenario.

Let’s say you approach a girl, but now instead of asking for her number you ask for her Instagram/Snapchat

After your departure, the first thing she is going to do is look at your profile to see who you are.

If you have an attractive profile (which I will show you how to in this article), where in your posts she sees

• You having fun with your friends
• Having fun doing your hobbies
• You hanging out with other girls

Too easy.

When it comes to how to attract a girl, Instagram is the best way if used correctly because:

• Girls are more willing to give it out.
• It’s super efficient
• It does the work for you.

Girls are more willing to give it out

Let’s be real, in the world of social media it’s about who has the most followers.

Both women and men aim to have thousands of followers because it gives them a sense of popularity and admiration.

For that reason, it takes minimal effort to get a girl to provide you with her Instagram because she wants the followers.

There is also minimal risk in giving out an Instagram.

On the other hand, giving out her number comes with the risk that the guy might be a creep who will call her excessively.

Also, let’s not forget that a girl giving out her number has always been associated with a romantic advancement.

So when you ask her to give you her phone number, you’re also pressuring her into making the decision to accept you as a possible romantic interest.

On the other hand, adding people on Instagram is seen as a casual friendly thing to do.

The lesser the risk = the higher the probability of compliance.

REMOVE YOUR PAGE OFF PRIVATE

How can they see or know who you are if you’re a private account?

It’s Super Efficient

When you’re out and meet a girl and ask for her number, she might give you her number, but it doesn’t mean she’s going to respond to your messages.

To get that girl to respond, you have to work some excellent game on her for at least 15 minutes, which is just not very efficient.

However, by asking for her Instagram instead, you become as efficient as can be.

This is because, as we discussed in the last point, giving out her Instagram isn’t a big deal to a girl.

It Does The Work For You

I don’t believe in chasing women and trying to work magic tricks to make them like you.

I believe in building an abundant life of doing things you enjoy and placing yourself in a position where women come to you or at the very least, they’ll make it VERY easy for you to get to know them deeper.

If you have an excellent Instagram page, you can sit back and let the profile do the work for you.

How so?

Well, let’s recap on what makes a man attractive to a woman:

• Strength

• Wanted by OTHER women
• Confidence
• Ambition
• Leader of other me
• A winner
• Money and Success

• Independent

• A man who isn’t desperate for female approval and validation

These are just a few of the things women find attractive in men.

After enough time spent with a woman for her to notice these character traits, she begins to develop an obsessive like attraction.

But there isn’t really any way of displaying these traits if you’re out and about and approaching her

But in our case, we want to get in and out, we don’t have all that time.

What you have to do is show these character traits through your instagram profile

Once you do this, just add the girl to your profile and let it create all the attraction for you.

Shortly after, she will either… direct Message you first, or you can hit her up.

Either way, I guarantee that she will be incredibly receptive to you.

Now, you may be asking… how do you do it!?

How To

Optimise

Your Instagram For Maximum Panty Dropping?

Posts

The pictures you post on Instagram must convey that you possess the characteristics of an attractive man. How do you do that?

1) Pictures with

mesmerising

backgrounds:

To prove that you travel and have a great life, have someone take a pic of you with a beautiful background.

It can be by the beach, ocean, mountains, desert, and even a beautiful city.

*Try to have someone else take the picture so the girl knows that you are never alone, giving you social proof*

2) Pictures in other countries:

Once again proving that you travel

3. Pictures enjoying your hobbies:

If you’re a great artist, then have someone take a picture of you finishing up a masterpiece. She will think you are super talented

If you’re into fashion, then get someone to take a photo of in new outfits.

If you’re into fitness, get someone take a photo of you doing your workouts

Whatever it is you’re into, take pictures whilst doing it

4) Pictures with animals:

It’s no secret that women love dogs, so use it to your advantage. If you have a cute dog take photos with him/her

5) Pictures of your best features:

If you have a body like a greek-God, show it off!

Get a shirtless pic of you and your buddies at the beach.

Not only will she be impressed with the discipline you must possess to have a body like that, but she will get turned on by your aesthetics.

DO NOT take a shirtless bathroom selfie. Only try hard losers do that!

Make your gains seem effortless, like you ain’t even trying.

The more it seems like you’re trying, the more desperate you’ll look.

6) Pictures with all your friends:

Being surrounded by people lets her know you’re a likable guy, and not a creep.

So take many group pictures while doing cool shit.

If you don’t have friends, join a club of something you enjoy doing, you’ll naturally make friends doing them things

(Go and watch video on how to stop being socially awkward )

8) Pictures of your preferences:

If you have a favourite show, ice cream flavor, or food, then post it. If she happens to have a similar preference, that similarity will attract her.

Only post these stuff on your story tho.

9) Pictures with other girls:

Lastly, the most powerful attractor of women…

pictures and videos with other women.

Pre-selection is a significant factor when attracting hot girls.

If no other girl wants you, then why should she?

Even if you have females who are just your friends, take photos with them. (Read number 6)

Women love a man that is desired by other women because it makes him the prize, if she can get you, then she is the winner.

So any time you hang out with a friend that’s a girl, or even when you’re on a date, take the time to snap a quick pic.

The more girls in the picture the better, just make sure you are the only guy in the photo.

Additional tips

• Don’t force a smile
• Take distracted shots, almost like if the paparazzi caught you off guard. Avoid taking pictures where you’re always looking directly at the camera
• stay away from bathroom selfies
• stay away from all selfies, group selfies are ok
• No boring pictures, keep them interesting.
• Write a short funny description
• Take GOOD QUALITY videos/pictures. No CCTV camera graphics
• lighting and angles are everything

• Avoid posting pictures of you holding physical cash trying to display your financial status. It makes it look VERY try hard and desperate.

If you’re in a good financial position people (especially women) will know through the kind of lifestyle you live.

A lot of broke guys try to display their financial status, through posting pictures of physical money

Don’t do that.

Display your wealth through

• Your hobbies
• The kinds of foods you eat
• Your travels

Remember: this has to be effortless So don’t go living a lifestyle you can’t afford JUST to impress girls.

Because if you ain’t really living that life and it’s all fake, you may be able to attract girls, but if they hang out with you can come to find out you was just faking, they’ll go......

not that they’re gold diggers, but its almost a feeling of getting catfished.

If you really wana take pictures holding cash, do it with extremely large amounts of money. £100K +

If you’re taking pics with a few hundreds or a couple thousands, most people will assume that’s some kind of rent money you’re flexing with.

Again, that’ll make you look very try hard and desperate.

Sliding In The Dm

Unless you’ve already had previous conversations don’t pop up saying ....

“Hi”

“Hey”

“Hello”

“You’re so beautiful”

“Sexy”

You can only get away with this if you have a blue tick and/or loads and loads and loads of followers.

If you’re not a guy with a blue tick and hella clout, Instead, when she posts a story, respond to what she’s doing in that story post.

That’s the best way to start a conversation with a girl online

*Vice versa*

Followers

Having a large number of followers creates what I like to call the “celebrity effect.”

Meaning that you seem like a celebrity since all those people follow you.

To the girl, this massive amount of followers is an indication that you are a valuable man, her attraction gauge will go through the roof.

It’s not a MUST but it’s definitely a bonus.

Think Before You Post

Remember that when you post on social media you’re not just posting to your Boys;

Be mindful of what you’re posting.

I honestly believe that the best policy when you post is to be positive, upbeat, playful and fun. That’s the best way to attract a girl using social media.

Flirting

It’s generally a good policy to never say anything on social media that you wouldn’t want on the front page of the newspaper.

That said, you can be a little more forward and personal when flirting in private.

Remember, though, that the whole point of using social media to attract girls is to get them to go on a date with you in REAL LIFE

Don’t use social media as an end to itself.

Rather, flirt with her in private to get her to go out with you.

Once you’ve done that, the best thing to do is to use social media to set up the logistics of your date.

Remember the goal is to actually MEET these girls in REAL LIFE.

It’s best to leave any “getting to know you” types of conversation to when the two of you are actually together.

Conversation is about way more than the words that you use.

It’s also about your tone of voice and body language. All of that goes missing when you are chatting with someone on social media via text.

If things are flowing well on the social media app.

Get her number and either FaceTime or call her, it’ll make her feel much more comfortable.

Closing Thoughts

There is no reason to waste precious time trying to get her to give you a flaky number, instead, add her on Instagram / Snapchat and let your content do the work for you.

When learning how to attract a girl, It’s about working smarter, not harder. We live in the age of social media, so utilise the tool to the fullest.

I know you’re thinking all of this will take a lot of work, and that’s true.

But it will be worth it. Very few guys are doing this, therefore, you will stand out.

And remember the principle… 20% of men get the hottest women. You must put in the work to be part of that 20%.

…or not… And be part of the majority of men who get stuck with the less attractive girls or keep getting left on SEEN.

Till next time.