(ARTICLE) This Is Why A Girl Doesn’t Text You Back

A common problem a lot of men face is when they’re speaking to a girl. Everything’s going great. She’s replying back quick and lively replies

Then all of sudden.

She takes 1 hour to respond, 3 hours, 5, 6 hours.

Then one day she never responds back.

Why?

In this article I will share common errors guys make when speaking or texting with a girl through the phone.

First and foremost,

Women ALWAYS have their phones close to them. They know exactly when you message them.

If they don't respond to you relatively quickly, you’re not important to them at that point in time.

Move on,

Don't harass her.

Now if you're having a conversation with her and she leaves you on "read,"

You've probably said something that turned her off to the conversation, or she wasn't interested from the beginning and you finally validated why.

So here's some reasons you get left on "read."

1. YOU COME OFF TOO NEEDY!

This means you:

- Message back too quickly

- Blow up her phone with messages to her at one time

- Give too many superficial compliments

Let me break it down...

If she takes 5 hours to respond,

And you respond in 30 seconds.

You're being too needy.

If she says: “lol yep”

And you send her multiple messages,

You're being too needy.

"Lol yep" is a polite way of her ending the conversation.

If you say things like "hey beautiful. Hi gorgeous. Yo cutie."

YOU'RE BEING NEEDY!

Needy men are:

- Weak

- Insecure

- Unattractive

Kill your Neediness.

2. YOU HIT HER ASD!

"ASD" means "Anti-Slut Defense."

When women feel as though you see them as sex objects, It turns them off and makes them run from you.

Society shames women for their sexuality,

So they'll do everything they can not to feel like a Slut.

When you give her too many compliments on her appearance, like all of her pictures or bring up her physical features, she automatically knows you're thinking about having sex with her.

This makes her feel "objectified,"

And makes you look like a creep to her.

3. YOU'RE BORING!

You don't really have much to say.

You don't seem to live an interesting life.

You DON'T ENGAGE HER EMOTIONS!

If you want to build rapport with a woman, You'll want to engage her emotions and make her FEEL like she WANTS to talk to you.

Many guys message her something like:

"Hey."

"How are you?"

"Want to hang out?"

“What you up to?”

I've seen so many screenshots where men EVEN IN THEIR 60s do this.

You're just advertising that you're horny and lacking options!

#AntiSeductive

I'm no expert at Online Game,

But I've got a few tips for you...

1. ENGAGE WITH HER ON HER POSTS!

Just remember,

The same things that are unattractive in the DMs, are the same things that are unattractive on her posts.

I like to:

- Crack Jokes

- Add Depth

- Offer Insight

On her posts.

As a result? I get a better response rate than most.

2. SHARE INTERESTING POSTS YOURSELF!

Try not to be offensive and get banned.

But share posts that:

- Spark Curiosity

- Encourage Discussion

- Make Others LaughOutLoud

This is a good way to show that you're:

- Funny

- Influential

- Valued Socially

3. INSPIRE HER TO MESSAGE YOU FIRST!

You can do this by:

- Building Mystery

- Being Interesting

The point is to give her a reason to message you.

Social Media is all about attention.

People want your attention when you give them something worth paying attention to.

Women get attention all the time from Men,

Yet barely pay any back.

If you want to Attract Women online?

Learn how to get their attention.

Till next time