Types of Consent Manipulation

Are you sure you need this limit?

Isn’t it selfish to refuse when it’s my favourite kink?

I’ll leave if you don’t do what I like.

Are you sure you don’t want to be tied to a moving car with your knickers off?

I’m just using you as a demo dolly, so you don't need limits. You can just trust me.

You used to do anal, so turning it into a limit is neurotic.

If you don’t do what I want, you’re not a real sadist.

Are you still sure you don’t want to be tied to a moving car with your knickers off?

I swear this is not a penis. <inserts penis>

What? Penetration is an integral part of my personality. If you aren’t into it, you aren’t into me.

Are you still sure don’t want to be tied to a moving car? No, this isn’t manipulative because I’m asking nicely. Are you still sure? What about now? And now?

Can’t we just try it once for my bucket list?

Your doctor is wrong. I’m a nurse and I know your panic attacks and heart disease won’t cause a problem when we’re cruising down the interstate at 200 ks an hour with your sweet self tied to the bonnet.

I’m an educator. You owe it to the attendees to engage in all kinks relevant to this class or you aren’t service-oriented enough.

I’m having a bad day. I got fired. If you’d drop this limit, it would cheer me up. I need it.

No is for bottoms. Tops are only badass if they always say yes.

No is for tops. Bottoms are only real subs if they always say yes.

If you wear my collar, it’s traditional to do whatever I tell you to. Refusing isn’t real BDSM.

Try this drug. It will make things easier for you.

If you do this once, I’ll never ask you again. I promise.

If you do this once, I’ll definitely ask you again because, now that you’ve done the thing, you know it’s not that bad. That was the whole everloving point of getting you to do it the first time.

You’re ruining this relationship with all your boundaries. Do you want us to disintegrate?

Of course I’ll stop if you want me to stop. Are you sure you want me to stop? Are you really, truly, completely sure? I totally will if you really want me to, I swear it. Are you sure? Oops. Came. Sorry.

You fell off the bonnet? Well, it’s not my fault. I’m PRICK.