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Pat's August 2024 Solo Movie Corner

Pat talks getting off antidepressants, OCD, Chappell Roan, Hot Air Ballooning It, and a downward dating spiral.

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Christ, Pat’s tales of dating are horrific.

Shmomar

And if I’m being honest, I did it so that I could stop hearing about pickles.

Paul Wright

I've known a few Pickles Nobody in my days.

Mat

The first couple line of this episode had me laughing out loud uncontrollably in the street. It would make a great start to a Bukowski-style novel.

Mat

Pat! You'd probably like Caroline Polachek. Check her music out (if you feel like it)

Mat

Thanks brother.

Larkin Hill

Whichever one they’re talking about.

Larkin Hill

His Emotional Hangs pod with Kurt Braunohler ran for quite a while and was pretty raw as I remember.

Rob M

This that RAW SHIT!!!!

Jack Feeney

As a fellow unmedicated depressive (BPD for the win) this was hard to hear but also comforting in a weird way. We love you, Pat. Thanks for keeping it real and I’m glad you got the solo corn down, even if you had to sit on your hands to do it.

Luke Ganje

This was a series of punches in the gut, Jesus Christ. Keep your head up, Pat. We love you.

Felix

Patty! We got ur back baby! This pod could/should be a script. Anyway I've been outta the dating scene for a while but all those chicks sound certifiable. Just know you were always and will always be the better person. Keep it up pat and joe!!

Lee Ellis

This episode shows me why I relate to pat so much. I am unmedicated and have ocd, depression. I really need to get Healthcare and get on meds. Ugggh

don gidel

Pat, these dating tales are phenomenal. Thank you for your continued service🫡 Side note - as a single man contemplating going back into the dating world after a long-term relationship ended incredibly painfully, these stories terrify me 😂

Tom Laverick

Pat! You would like the music of “The Beth’s” if you don’t already. Love ya 💝

VM Acosta

Just wanted to say we love you Pat and dating in LA sounds like a nightmare. Not to take away from your experience, but you’re not alone in your anxieties. It’s amazing how brave you were to move to New York and LA and make it in the business, certainly braver than me. You’re a hero to us and don’t forget it. And I’m sure if you moved to any other place in the world, women would line up wanting to be with a guy who made it in Hollywood. You’re kind, thoughtful, sincere, funny, and successful. Jesus Christ what else could they want?

Will Glasco

God, the delivery of that Michael Hutchence joke was the best thing I’ve heard in a while.

michael N' kyla

Well, that was amazing

Jack Feeney

I thought you were talking about me here, but it was pointed out you probably meant the rich girl. My apologies for going off on you. Unless you did mean me, in which case F off mate!

We'll See You In Hell

Really makes you wonder about the content of the previously tossed 5 minutes! ~ Godspeed ~

Glist Zen

Check out his podcast from ten years ago "Down With Joe DeRosa"

Semen Demon

If rich people problems were a person

caleb sorensen

I’m with you Pat... My favorite movie corner... loved it... be well...✌️✌️✌️

Hectik deleon

So wait…does Pat like pickles or not? Think I missed it. Anywho, still have time to book a venue for a Live Halloween ep in Vegas boys. HAWK TUAH ON THAT THANG

Matt Holton

Patty, baby, don’t delete, create a best of unheard solo dolo

Clayton Jacks

Pat … I freaking love you man …. You say things I think, you go through things I go through and I only wish I could share, it’s not easy … but I really do appreciate you sharing.

Jamie Luna

omg this was a tour de force riveting start to fin

Andrea

Jesus dude, this was literally the best podcast I’ve listened to in fucking forever. Going through similar stuff with my first serious girlfriend I’ve had since I was in my 20s…46 now haha. Just get your own Patreon pod.. and throw a price at me. Your vulnerability is beyond perfect. Thank you, man

Smoke Boys BBQ team

Ugh the OCD spiral was too relatable.

Kurt Zeigler

Great ep. Stay strong Pat. We love ya. Will we ever get Joe opening up on the pod like this? He seems to have closed off on us about these things long ago

Raffi N

Thank you so much for being so vunerable, and sharing your dating experiences. I feel so alienated in the dating scene after being in a relationship for 7 years. Much love Pat.

Samuel Kidwell

Ask any fucking kid from any fucking background to draw a fucking pickle! 🥒

Msmaynaise

The pharmacy worker Could not have done anything though. One day off doesn’t hurt at all.

Nick

Too much?

Nick

Which one lmao

Logan Dotson

You should definitely delete this

Logan Dotson

Okay, I’ll say it. These solo pods are worth the whole subscription

Logan Dotson

Great episode! 👍 Hopefully the karaoke party with contestant number two was fun, at least! 🥳🎤🎶

Zachary Balls

Pretty deep episode, thanks for sharing Pat. Many, including myself know exactly what your talking about

Luis

Pat might have been the one who got treated bad in these situations, but at least he wasn’t the one treating people like that. Imagine if he treated someone like he got treated. He should feel good about himself. He’s not the crazy one

Nick

Jk we all love you Pat. All three of those women were absolutely insane. They behaved like children. You are awesome Pat.

Nick

He probably should’ve deleted this one too.

Nick

I relate to your struggles so much despite being a woman. I was single for 6 years in my 20’s because every woman I dated made me feel like I was constantly being punk’d. Just one ridiculous argument after another and usually entirely unnecessary. I already had mental health issues so I decided to just stop dating altogether until I was almost 30. Going off my meds was also hell (almost kms), but it was the right decision for me. Took about a year to really be “okay” without any meds, though. I wish it wasn’t so… Thank you for being so open and for fighting through the compulsion so you could finally share your thoughts. It means the world because we do genuinely love you, Pat.

Anna Valencia

Thanks Pat for keeping it super real. Other podcasts simply do not do this. By coincidence I just stopped my meds after 2 years. I don't care what happens, I'm never going back.

Barton Fink

I've recently been re-listening to the podcast from the very beginning (I'm most of the way through season 5 now and then will go back through ALL the Patreon episodes). It's hard to explain how much joy Pat, and I suppose Joe :P, have brought me over the years, and folks--it's still gold on a 2nd listen (or if I'm being real, this is probably my 3rd or 4th time through). Pat, I'd give you a hug any day!

Christian Reynolds

Holy shit, i almost wish Pat would keep seeing that girl just to hear more crazy stories. That was completely riveting.

Jay Miller

...so you're saying this girl is single now?

Jeremy Griffin

Best solo episode to date! We love you Patty!! You explaining your OCD about the email hits sooooooo close to home ❤️. The argument about pickles with nobody girl had me cackling in my kitchen.

Rick

Side side note: Pickles Nobody sounds like a human nightmare. Never respond to her again

James O'Brien

Until today

James O'Brien

Side note: I’ve never in my life said “I want a pickle.”

James O'Brien

Patty!! I’m sorry to hear you’re kinda struggling, I danced w lexapro for a couple years and just recently switched to Prozac in the morning, seroquil at night…game changer. Such a massive help w anxiety, perhaps it could help w OCD, ocd seems adjacent to anxiety and the seroquil had all but eradicated anxiety. Just a thought. It’ll get better buddy Hang in there and keep up the pods

James O'Brien

Pat should open an artisanal pickle joint across the street from where this woman lives just to spite her. She’ll come crawling back as soon as all that pickle money starts flowing in.

KT1000

Check out Strange Darling, if you haven’t. It might make you feel better about dating. Plus it’s a fantastic movie. If you disagree, I’ll refund your movie ticket.

test

I feel you, Pat. I’m a couple months past a break up and am back at dating again, and it’s been disappointments so far. Feels like love is dead, but I’m optimistic. I don’t know why, but I am. I think it’s a year+ of sobriety and newfound confidence. I hope the best for you, Pat. Keep staying true to yourself, and keep searching for the things you’re yearning for. You’re an inspiration, even when you don’t feel like it.

test

Patrick, I’m so sorry the dating scene has been awful for you for the past little while and sorry to hear about your anxiety stuff. This too shall pass. I just want to echo the numerous people on here and say that we love you, and that I hope you realize how much this show means to a lot of people, including myself. Over the past several years you guys have reshaped the way me and my wife enjoy movies, you make us laugh hysterically, and often give us an interesting worldview we wouldn’t otherwise get. Don’t feel like you have to re-record these things. We love the structured ones and we LOVE the stream of consciousness updates on your life, but we love you more. You’re a good person, and things will get better.

David Clark

Ahhh Pat you deserve a nice lady who will treat you right! Your last story about the old acquaintance ghosting you after the make out sesh made my stomach turn. I so badly wanted that one to work out for you. Holding you in my heart.

Ben Mettey

Oof, Patty... as a divorced guy around your age who's also trying to date in this crazy landscape, lemme tell ya, you're not alone in dealing with what you're encountering out there (and I know women deal with this nonsense just as much). So much ghosting, flakiness and the occasional landmine of crazy -- it's beyond baffling. That last story, I felt like Ralph when Bart freeze-frames his heart ripping in half -- I can't imagine how you felt! I let out an involuntary "ughhhh!" listening by myself... scared my cat. That said, someone as rad as you will definitely land a good one. Hang in there, buddy. And hey... if you ever need to, fly up to Toronto and I'll hold ya.

Mike Wills

Also, Google "Pickle"... Literally. 🤦‍♂️

Dirk Overton

Dating blows, especially when you’re interesting and funny and smart. The only acceptable prospects are also as such, and they’re (by and large) difficult. You don’t really get to be interesting-smart-funny (and 35+!) without some real shit. One day though, one day, stars align and these types can somehow mesh seamlessly, the triggers aren’t triggering for some reason. It’s a miracle that you just have to believe will happen. I suspect you do. :)

Sara Park

Been a Hellion since like ep 4, but I don't comment much. Really at all. But I've got to say... this Solo Corn hit me right in the kitchen. Love you, Patrick Walsh. You're the best.

Clinton Davis

“I had sex with her so I could stop hearing about pickles.” 🤣🤣🤣

Vicki Rogers

Please New patroen tier in the podcast to have access to the "100h of solo corner lost in August 2024 and recovered "

Hatem

Love these monthly chats with my good pal Patty Walsh

Maxwell Ashcroft

Really relate to your relationship stuff. Super funny. We love you Pat.

Alex Rodriguez

Best opening line ever lol

Brett bowden

I hope sharing your stories here helps give you perspective. It seems like talking it out, even to us, may have some good benefits. Love ya Patty

Richard Howenstein

I can promise you that this occured prior to modern feminism

Sergio

I haven’t gotten to that part yet but I hate her too

Edmond Aggabao

Re-listening to old episodes where Pat plainly says "I'm not taking anything" makes me sad. It does my heart good hearing about the new attitude toward pharmaceuticals

Jason Patterson

Hey Pat, how is the Ashwagandha + magnesium working out for you? Also has Keaton liked your script? Cheers

Hatem

I love the Solo Corner but I don’t need it at the cost of your sanity. I watch maybe 5% of the movies you guys talk about and I loathe watching horror but you/you guys reviews and back in forth is what I’ve tuned in for, for the last, almost 9 years. Do what makes you happiest. Be it the solo or no solo, I’m still subscribing, still psyched to see an ep drop and I’m still along for ride. (In Pats voice) And baby, it’s still the longest line for any ride in town!

Don’t worry Alec, it’s unloaded

I’ll also say this…modern feminism has emboldened women to jerk men around for sport.

Amanda

Armchair psychiatrist here….her parents never disciplined her which results in constant boundary testing. She has no foundation for how to treat people. She desperately needs to see how much she can do and say before people put her in “time out”. It’s a game to her. She’s manipulative. She’s an alcoholic. She’s got sociopathic tendencies. She’s sadistic. Let her go.

Amanda

Been there done that. I’ve had several stints on subs. Brutal man hang in there.

Colin Crary

Sounds like Pat was in quite the…..never mind I’ll let myself out

Nick Gonzalez

Pat, thanks for getting this out despite the struggles. We all love you and appreciate the effort to stay true to the show and real to your fans.

Nick Gonzalez

🫂

Lush Render

Ohh Pat. So much to relate to on this. First of all, I was on a dozen different psych meds from 19-29 ish. Some of them helped, like my bipolar diagnosis and coming down from my manic/psychotic episode in 2019. But after a decade on a bunch of different meds, I wanted to see how I felt with nothing, my baseline. It’s been about 3 years of no meds (occasionally Seroquel for sleep and Xanax for panic attacks) but I truly feel about the same as when I was on regular meds. I also went through crazy brain zaps coming off SSRIs. My OCD/anxiety is pretty bad at times though, it comes out mostly in double (or twenty-times) checking things like if a door is locked. I try and spin it positively like it makes me a good pet sitter. Thank you for sharing 🖤

Kayla Fulp

"How'd ya like that PICKLE!" Pat, we still love ya Baby! Maybe you need a new hobby, add a little joy back in that day.. (I recently bought a 3D Pen.. which is rocking my world a bit!) *p.s You could always half a 10mg (you know, just to take the edge off) Have Fun Dude🙌

Dirk Overton

Pat don't forget you have a whole fan base that thinks ur fkn hilarious. Have me dying every ep.

Lush Render

"Drunken Doughnuts over here" made me laugh really hard

Dogliani

What an episode. This was great. Also, Pat accidentally quoted Leo in the Departed when talking about his doctor.

Cy Rod

Yup! They do that to me with my suboxone sometimes (highly controlled and regulated tho), which is an opioid maintenance drug. So I go into hardcore heroin like withdrawal, it SUCKS. Usually I just lost one of the films. But with this med, they WILL NOT give it to you if it’s even a day early.

Larkin Hill

I’ve tried Prozac, depakote and lexapro. Nothing worked. Tried Effexor highest dose and still felt it didn’t work so got TMS treatment, which DID help. Unfortunately after a few months the effects started wearing off. Depression got really bad again, suicidal ideation etc so in desperation I went on a lower dose of Effexor. And it definitely helps some! Not majorly but some. About to start a new bout of TMS as well. I’m convinced that getting TMS is the reason the Effexor is working now. So yeah Pat, I’d highly recommend looking into TMS. I’ve struggled with depression, drug addiction and alcoholism since I was 11, it sucks. I’m now sober and work at the same rehab I went to (and still writing some, not nearly as much as years ago when I was actually working in the industry. It’s also said that antidepressants are the one drug you don’t know you need…until you go off them. The effects can be relatively invisible. It’s only with retrospect we see. Not telling you what to do, I tried to go off Effexor and ultimately had to get back on but not everyone does. Just laying out my experience in full. I haven’t even listened to the pod yet (bout to), but I saw the subject heading. Edit: sex is why I didn’t want to be on antidepressants. I’m already on suboxone, which is a maintenance opioid, and that already fucks with your libido. But it’s not nearly so bad on Effexor, especially on this lower dose ((Effexor is an snri and known to cause less than ssri’s). Also I’m on Wellbutrin which helps. And last but not least, look into testosterone replacement therapy. Been on it a year and it’s great. Really helps. I’m 42 now, I think you’re around the same age. My test got wrecked by opioids (from Kratom to heroin) and drinking all day every day (usually a fifth on average). But once you hit 40, your test starts to decrease more by each decade. Once you hit 40 it’s alot easier to get on TRT. I had to see a urologist. EDIT: no, that dr is a cunt. And dude if you’re feeling better off, all for it. I know what you mean about the libido too. Just keep TMS in mind as well.

Larkin Hill

I hate this woman

Patrick Delaney

“I have a very limited view of pickles, and that’s on me. I apologize” 🤣 Love ya Pat, and love this pod

Raffi N

Slow clap

ian

:52 in and I trust everyone on this thread.

Jordan Duh

This is the best episode of all time.

Keegan Martin

Sorry “nobody” girl.

Nick

Also I can’t believe he went back to the “nothing” girl! So funny. And pretty hot, sounds like the sex felt real good.

Nick

I’m 20 minutes in and this is the best solo corner yet. So funny and also you can hear his pain when he says the OCD is back 10 fold. Pat is the man

Nick

The pharmacy worker denying him his meds is fucked. I’m on a much higher dose and have been on it for 15 plus years. If I had to come off cold turkey it would be extremely dangerous. I would likely have to be hospitalized.

Colin Crary

Also this is my favorite podcast. Your real talk is always a breath of fresh air. It’s refreshing to hear honest conversations and opinions raw. Even if I don’t alway agree with the takes, I appreciate you guys. Please never stop. You folks rule.

Keegan Martin

Can’t wait for this, I swear today I was listening to an ep where you guys talked about music, and I thought “I wonder what Patrick thinks of Chappell Roan?”

Tyler Gingrich

I got off all my antidepressants and it took 6 months to feel like a real person. Now I’m not depressed so… the divorce helped as well.

Keegan Martin


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