usually the main skill issue is just not actually meeting enough people, because it’s difficult to find a partner without talking to people irl
which is kinda a skill issue of our entire modern society, hence the loneliness epidemic
though, i guess from my part, being entirely oblivious to when people are flirting with me and not knowing how to flirt myself are significant skill issues, but i managed to find a partner anyways from theatre club (or rather, they found me, i was too shy). so, the method that worked for me was to find something with regular irl meetings and a shared interest in something and waiting a few years
LambdaDuck
2025-04-17 05:27:04 +0000 UTC
Though I know I’d be happier with someone, as I see couples happier, my aloneness suits me as I’d fear I wouldn’t be good enough, and things were moving too fast or getting too real.
Joshua
2025-03-14 22:23:26 +0000 UTC
I see those lesbian colors. Are you trying to tell us something? (Because we already know)
Lakana
2025-03-14 20:00:18 +0000 UTC
What if the right person hasn't bumped into you just yet? Not just any relationship would do. The right person would tick all the checkboxes in the pickylist and they would pop right through the guards. Perhaps life needs to build up before you meet. While some of the build-up might be about developing some skills, it's more likely about meeting the special person at the right time when both are open. Meeting them at the wrong time could lead through an excruciatingly painful heartbreak.
Sussch
2025-03-14 18:05:44 +0000 UTC
Ah shoot
LadyofBree
2025-03-14 17:07:35 +0000 UTC
Darn!
Dahlia Grayson
2025-03-14 15:03:08 +0000 UTC
Just be your naturally adorable self, and let the prey come to you!
Juliette Dianne Moss
2025-03-14 14:04:43 +0000 UTC
Whilst I have a severe case of mild skill issue
Rina
2025-03-14 13:55:19 +0000 UTC
Why's this gotta be soooo true!
Rhysie-Cup
2025-03-14 13:20:15 +0000 UTC
I felt the same way for a long time and yes its all skill issue if you dont think too deeply into it you should be better and if you be yourself someone will show up someday