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The Gays and Dating Apps

Hey everyone!

First I want to thank you all so much. Everyone who came together and made it so our channel could keep going... I honestly can't thank you enough. The amount of teary-eyed messages Nick and I have been sending back and forth with each other would be sad if we weren't so happy lol. We want to do something special just for patrons but we haven't figured out what that should be just yet so we'll let you know about that, hopefully soon!

We also have a big video coming out this weekend. One that's been taking a while to edit and that I'm really proud of. Ya'll should be getting early access to that tomorrow evening.

But until then!

Nick and I recorded a Conversation video last week that will be going up on YouTube tomorrow about our experiences with gay dating apps. I hope you enjoy our naughty ramblings lol.

The Gays and Dating Apps

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I feel like i have a different grindr. Surely, there are some weirdos there. But over the years my xp there was very fun, light and respectful. Nice interesting chats, reasonably entertaining dates, mostly good sex. And i mostly travel very homophobic countries.

Grindr terrifies me because I feel like the expection of sex is the basic entry level of it instead of thinking, maybe we get to know each other first. I guess that comes from club culture where people go to a club for the now and are open to letting it mean nothing or move on to the next while, I am not demanding forever, but looking for friendship and maybe dating, grindr scares me. Now and fudging the rest to make up for the cracks, I don't want. Bars scare me and grindr scares me. I want slow and easy, but the culture is to be here and fierce. Some personalities don't mesh with that and coming out culture also gets wrapped up in that sensilbilty, while some people are more meek to flow well with gay culture. Some of us want a bed, and not a dirty hook up in the alley and are seeking for sex before other things. I am happy you released this because I feel less alone in this disconnect where I feel maybe I am not gay enough because I seek sex above romance is the idea driving attending any gay space before hand.

OK. This is good content, it should be out there, and I do not believe in censorship. May you always have enough to stay afloat. I want your channel to live. But I think I have to put on my teacher-mask and be a little less deferent and cute to get this across: If content like this doesn't go on one channel, and the general-audience-approved think pieces on another channel, YT's algorithm is going to strangle you to death and point at your body to indicate it's fairly censoring conservatives AND leftists. It's not fair, but everything I can find indicates that's how it works, and you're not the first. I don't know you and you don't know me, but you yelled for help. Sometimes help looks like a socially-inept person writing overly-verbose comments about an unfair ecosystem that has an incentive to kill you. Delete and ignore me if you must, but gird your loins and get ready to fight hard to keep your voice heard.


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