Sad Boyz Nightz #15 - "ADHD Power Hour" (w/ Dipper Johnson) [VIDEO]
Added 2023-06-16 23:54:37 +0000 UTCThe boyz talk external validation, Jordan addresses the clip from Creator Clash, and Dipper does whatever he wants to!
Let us know what you think of the episode :)
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this is literally so late but just in case someone else is wondering how to get a grease stain out of clothing: dawn dish soap (or whatever dish soap you have on hand) OR if its really stubborn you can buy amodex, i've seen that stuff get stains out of everything.
elle nowlin
2024-10-08 16:15:48 +0000 UTCI'm so late but I wanna know who Jordan mains in slay the spire
Sky Lucky
2024-03-23 22:48:15 +0000 UTCWild that Jordan went to the same uni as my sister
Jana
2024-02-08 21:46:26 +0000 UTCI appreciate Jordan talking about being in an emotionally numb state and going through his mom’s stuff because I’ve never heard someone else talk about that before in a normalizing way. My uncle passed two years ago on Christmas Eve, he was like a dad to me, and I had to go through his house afterwards and I always felt weird for having been able to do it without really feeling sad about it in that moment. The ADHD ‘get things done’ mode clicked in and I was so focused on throw this away, donate this, store this, etc. the emotions didn’t hit me til it was done.
Emmett Tucker
2023-12-29 16:53:19 +0000 UTClistening to Jordan shout out every single town near me is something I will never get used to
Max
2023-08-14 15:47:24 +0000 UTCIt's so interesting thinking about someone just not showing to class, because my anxiety was so intense for all university that I *had* to show up. I didn't miss a single class throughout my four years. This was my anxiety-driven brain because no one cared about my attendance
Zoie
2023-07-12 14:46:28 +0000 UTCcongrats on the eepy boi study! doing mine really helped with how i approach my sleep and mental health treatment in the context of a sleep disorder
Haven Himmi
2023-07-10 17:46:33 +0000 UTCDipper is so damn cute
Tyler Monsoon
2023-07-10 09:15:27 +0000 UTCthis is extremely late but i was born in swindon and i live like 30 minutes away so hearing you talk about it gave me whiplash
lola
2023-07-08 16:33:36 +0000 UTCHey! This is a bit late, but if you go to the membership bar for the sad boyz patreon page, there will be a section about discord. Click on open server (or connect to discord, if your patreon and discord aren't connected), and it should take you to the server! If there's further issues please let me know (I'm a mod for the server so I should be able to help!)
Alek.Koj
2023-07-03 05:01:39 +0000 UTCa lot of the talk about body image has really been helping my own self image and the way i think about myself a lot tbh
Barley I guess?
2023-06-28 23:28:29 +0000 UTCI didn't comment earlier because I wasn't sure how it would be received, but after the most recent podcast where Jarvis said he was open to peoples health suggestions I came back. What you're describing sounds like either/both POTS and CFS. Both of these conditions are rising currently because of COVID/long covid. I've been struggling with my own debilitating health mystery for almost a decade now so I empathize greatly with what you are going through and hope you are able to get answers and/or a treatment that works for you. Thank you for being open about your current struggles. On a completely different note uh, can anyone help me get onto the discord?
Amy Payme
2023-06-25 01:36:40 +0000 UTCThere are these little yellow bottles of specialized stain removers you can get and there is one for oil!! They’re called Stain Devils
Malma
2023-06-23 03:27:42 +0000 UTC1:03:Xx Forgot the time stamp but Fallout 2 is like that. You get a literal car that you can just miss, that makes the game so much better.
Leoné Jordan
2023-06-20 23:25:51 +0000 UTCDoesn't John green support afc Wimbledon? I don't know sports but I do know green brothers and London. Also, watching Ted lasso is very surreal bc I used to hang around Richmond a bit as a kid (didn't live there tho I'm not rich lmao)
Jenny Messer
2023-06-20 17:22:24 +0000 UTCJordan I am convinced you and I need to be best friends because I relate to everything you've ever said in your life. I can't even begin to express to you how seen I felt when you mentioned worrying you're secretly on the Truman Show and being embarrassed/ashamed that you're on the toilet playing STS for too long. Genuinely why are you so relatable
Lauren Triolo
2023-06-20 05:14:57 +0000 UTCI just subscribed to the Patreon, and have been binge listening to all the bonus episodes. Thank you for all the quality content ❤️
Anna McAnnally
2023-06-20 03:45:17 +0000 UTCBTW THE WEED AND THE ENERGY DRINK AND THE MEDS ALL DO DIFFERENT THINGS AND THEY ARE ALL VERY HELPFUL TO ME ITS JUST NOT HEALTHY OR GOOD BUT THEY HAVE INDIVIDUAL FUNCTIONS
listerine
2023-06-20 02:23:30 +0000 UTCi didnt mean to actually tell u any of that i just type and ho boy i keep typin
listerine
2023-06-20 02:21:49 +0000 UTCi do crosswords all day ehich is not a project but i just cant even fathom sitting at a table im either Standing Up with an Occasional Crouch or im laying on my bed im so afraid of chairs god help me
listerine
2023-06-20 02:20:31 +0000 UTCalso im Stuck bc i take vyvanse 50mg every day and i dont feel the need to eat but every hour or so i get up and have a tiny weed break which is a nice relief from HYPERFOCUS but then im in this weird halfway stage so i have an energy drink and i just do that all day and i cant stop because the weed breaks and the energy drink are so satisfying as like A Thing To Do and usually i do a weed and then go clean something for half an hour and im just fighting my own brain and body with so many chemicals when i could just. go for a walk or. clean something. but i dont always get up just to wander its either i check the mail or i do a weed and thats my Standing Moment and girl i know this is so messy but its also such an effective process for me i think i need to start a project
listerine
2023-06-20 02:19:00 +0000 UTCi cant believe i didnt sub here earlier this is the only therapy that works for me jfc. so grateful for you boys
listerine
2023-06-20 02:12:59 +0000 UTCbro i am also reentering "maybe i need a smart cookie jar that only lets me have like 2 cookies" phase, AND i got a tummyache last night because i cracked open a pack of biscuits at 11pm and now there is one left. i have forgiven the biscuits tho
listerine
2023-06-20 02:11:09 +0000 UTC*Listening to Jarvis talk about his relationship with food and ADHD* "Oh...🥹 He just like me foreal"
Tyler
2023-06-20 00:32:45 +0000 UTCthis ep was sick usually I cannot sit through a whole podcast at once but every time I was ab to pause it y'all said smith funny or interesting.
Diana
2023-06-19 02:02:50 +0000 UTCsomething very jarring about hearing Swindon and Cheltenham mentioned on sad boyz. big up Britain (its hell in here please let us out)
Olivia O'Neill
2023-06-18 20:01:45 +0000 UTCi really appreciate you guys speaking on your adhd symptoms. i can relate to so many of them and it can be very comforting as well as educational. i related a lot to what jarvis spoke about on binge eating and never related it to adhd but then it clicked and made so much sense. thanks lads. also !! have you guys seen the new spiderverse movie !!!!!
mag e. mouse
2023-06-18 07:05:49 +0000 UTCdawn dish soap and a toothbrush for the oil stain👍👍
harmony
2023-06-18 04:26:05 +0000 UTCfor the oil stain, I got rid of mine that had been washed and dried multiple times with shampoo and then oxyclean powder.
Wasn't it
2023-06-18 01:37:04 +0000 UTCI put some dish soap and baking soda on the stain, sprinkle with the tiniest amount of water and scrub it into the stain. Then I let sit overnight and wash the next day. If it’s a big stain, let it air dry to see if you need to repeat… sometimes it takes a few cycles to get all the stains out. Best to wash it in cold water too, so that if the stain doesn’t come out in the first go-around you repeat the process. Hot water will set the stain.
Kayla Baker
2023-06-17 21:28:09 +0000 UTCThanks!
Carly Kirn
2023-06-17 20:53:37 +0000 UTCComing right over from youtube because man, did I feel understood. I'm in the last few months of my PhD and was diagnosed with a few things in grad school on top of existing chronic illnesses. Idiopathic hypersomnia, then raging ADHD at 27 that was missed despite both siblings and my dad having diagnoses. Also had to do ketamine treatment for my depression, and weekly therapy for 5 years straight. I am 29 and just starting to reach what feels functional to me and believe in my own intelligence again. My MHNP figured out I had awful vitamin D deficiency and don't convert B12 well. That seems to have been one reason I didn't find immediate relief with concerta, now I think it's working better with those supplements. But I can't try out other meds right now because of the shortage. Also having an advisor who gives no positive feedback or validation in 6 years is tough. It's been bafflingly difficult to feel like my capable self and I wish there was an academy that popped up and gave us trophies for getting through this shit. So long story short, thanks for talking about it and not being gatekeep-y or glossing over the difficulties of executive dysfunction. It can be tough finding the right balance of frustration and optimism with content around ADHD so I don't spiral into my feelings. Sorry this is an essay.
Alison Francois
2023-06-17 20:43:04 +0000 UTCI put a good amount of dish soap or laundry detergent right on the stain, rub it in and let it set, then wash as normal 👍 hope this helps.
Joram Coichy
2023-06-17 20:40:50 +0000 UTCI have had "dishsoap on grease stains?" on my to do list for, like, months, and I just haven't gotten through the executive dysfunction to test it, but I read that that's supposed to help??
Carly Kirn
2023-06-17 19:05:15 +0000 UTCplease don't wish me a goodnight again <3 lots of love xoxo
Mariya
2023-06-17 18:23:14 +0000 UTC4'7" height as an adult qualifies BB as a person with dwarfism btw lol personally I would milk that, gimme all the govvy benefits babyyy (although I'm in Canada so we actually have benefits, I feel like in the states they would just give you a coupon for a stool)
jiggyj
2023-06-17 17:18:14 +0000 UTCModafinil ican’t replace stimulants for focus but it is vaguely helpful otherwise, like a way smoother version of caffeine. Unfortunately for me, it seems to cause tinnitus after about two weeks even though it’s not considered ototoxic. I always have issues with side effects like Jarvis. It sucks
Francesca Varney
2023-06-17 12:39:25 +0000 UTCthe conversation about self diagnosis meant so much to me. i’m uninsured and i recently came to the realization through lots of research and self/peer assessment that i’m autistic. everyone i’ve told so far has believed me and said that it actually makes a lot of sense, but i’ve avoided telling certain people in my life because i know they won’t believe me until a doctor says it’s true, and while i get it, that’s just not something i can handle emotionally right now. hearing you two say that self diagnosis is a valid and useful tool was really reassuring, thanks boyz <3
plushbats
2023-06-17 12:32:16 +0000 UTCThe vyvanse thing was why I had to stop taking it bc I wouldn’t even binge, I would just pass out. Adderall I definitely have the forget to eat and then eat everything that isnt nailed down problem so I have to remind myself to eat regularly.
Rhys P.
2023-06-17 08:29:34 +0000 UTCRe: the stain, try carbona. They make one specifically for grease and oil. Bc the stain is old idk if it will do anything, but it’s cheap so it’s worth a shot. Also can really relate to the adhd binge, and the guilty feeling of talking about trying to lose weight.
Rhys P.
2023-06-17 08:17:47 +0000 UTCfinishing this right before actually going to sleep for the night makes the non-specific ending phrase hit different
Shelby Fawn
2023-06-17 05:09:18 +0000 UTCObviously I hope Dipper managed to settle and get some rest eventually, but him just drifting around the room like sadboyz' official ADHD mascot the entire episode was very funny
Drawn at Random
2023-06-17 04:56:56 +0000 UTCDipper is so handsome and loveable, 10/10 content, made my day
Haunt Grey
2023-06-17 04:41:26 +0000 UTCIt’s so funny hearing Jordan talk about small towns in the UK, as someone that lives in a town of around 800 people in rural Ohio it definitely does feel disconnected from any sort of technological advancement.
rin
2023-06-17 04:41:21 +0000 UTCthe red dead 2 thing reminded me of when i was a kid, me and my dad would play the dynasty warriors games a lot on the xbox right. one of the things you can do in those games is when you defeat generals you can take their horse and ride them instead of running around on foot. so when i would try to get my little sister to play with me, it was no longer a hack n slash game about three factions fighting over china and instead it instantly became a horse theft simulator where she'd pick the prettiest character and kill the nearest general and take their horse, then she'd ride around until she found a prettier horse and rinse and repeat. all the while, little me was probably getting tilted cuz i needed her to actually help me win the battle
Delsinning
2023-06-17 04:08:48 +0000 UTCsad boyz nights™️ has become my favorite way to wind down my work week and i look forward to it releasing every friday. i listen to it while i wrap up work and save the youtube episode to watch with my daughter later. thanks for being such a great part of the week! :)
Sarah Amelia
2023-06-17 01:55:17 +0000 UTCThe illusion of being in a walkable city is 100% the biggest perk of college. Every time I get nostalgic about college, I usually end up realizing that that's what I miss the most - the proximity and community of being in a walking-friendly place.
Logan
2023-06-17 00:06:52 +0000 UTC
