Limerence Deep Dive (Chapter 11 - Final Clarification)
Added 2025-12-16 12:00:08 +0000 UTCDr Kirk Honda provides his long-awaited lecture on limerence. December 16, 2025
00:00 Revising the definition
08:06 Why does delineating matter?
21:07 The three constructs
28:38 Why do people develop limerence disorder?
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Comments
What a wonderful deep dive. I think this might be your next book project?? 🤭 I think it’s so important that people are struggling with this can find information and get help ❤️
Riso Chan
2025-12-16 21:57:18 +0000 UTCI remember that when I was about 16, an older friend came up to me once—at a party, upon a lifetime—and said: You need to get out of your head. The party is inside. Why are you here alone, looking at the stars, all broody and stuff? What do you think—Prince Charming is going to come find you here and something magical is going to happen? And I answered: Maybe… (thinking, wow, that’s accurate). I’m a romantic—so what? And he said: You’re not a romantic, you’re idealistic. Meaning: not realistic. Fantasy-seeking. Poetry-reading. Rom-com-loving. In love with happy endings, but unwilling to admit that Baby would have probably been done with Johnny after that summer at the resort—realistically speaking.
MarySoul
2025-12-16 15:17:56 +0000 UTC
