Every time I check. Like when I run something past her or ask her about a plan or something we discussed earlier, it becomes clear she has a mind like a rabbit trap. She is listening and processing and compartmentalising her thoughts -as far as I can tell, pretty much the whole time.
Whether the wholesale deception is intentional or not, I suspect it isn't, this frail has the most perfect social camouflage. She looks for all the world like she is miles away. Out to lunch while day dreaming about dessert. Vacuous and carefree, her top teeth constantly out to dry.
I'm glad I don't have to fight her or investigate her. That's all.
KN