Ask For Divorce!
Added 2019-12-05 16:27:15 +0000 UTC
This mod requires LOT51 Core Library
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This mod changes the way divorce works.
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As soon as you put this mod in your folder, the divorce option will go away and be replaced by the interaction Ask for Divorce:

You'll have to tell your Sim's partner the "news"...

Once you've asked for a divorce, a new choice to send a request for the divorce papers will show up in your mailbox and on your computer:

You'll have to pay for the process. If you fill out the paperwork yourself, it will cost a little less.

Then you'll have to wait for the process to be worked on for about a day or two. The papers will be sent to you in the mail:


You can check the progress via PC or phone.
At this point, only the Sim who asked for a divorce will be able to get a divorce, and it will cost money:

Comments
Big fan of your work. Is it possible to do an update of this at all? Doesn’t seem to work with lates patch and love how realistic this is rather than making it so easy for a divorce
John Kirkwood
2025-03-25 16:24:18 +0000 UTCThe most likely cause is that the test in the interaction doesn't pass because of the relationship requirements (same as maxis, the interaction only appears if the relationship is in red)
Jordan
2023-12-31 23:31:45 +0000 UTCHello. I cannot for the life of me get this mod to work. I removed all my mods and CC, with only the mod and Lot51 Core Library, and I still don't get the option for divorce. I added Xml Injector as well because the comments here made me unsure if I needed them both or just Lot51 Core Library. Still didn't work. Might it be because the Lot51 Core Library recently updated their mod?
menelya
2023-12-31 19:56:18 +0000 UTCTry the mod alone, there are other mods that could conflict with this one.
Zero_
2021-11-29 06:59:07 +0000 UTCDoesn't seem to be working anymore? :(
Arianna Bevier
2021-11-29 00:57:45 +0000 UTChow do I download this mod ?
Sonali Mistry
2021-06-24 20:35:30 +0000 UTCYeah I.... Knew.
Zero_
2021-01-30 07:38:01 +0000 UTCAny mod that modifies the divorce interaction will conflict with this one. I don't know lumpinou mods so I don't know if there are that conflict.
Zero_
2021-01-02 12:09:06 +0000 UTCAre you aware of any mods that conflict w/ this one? Cause it will not work for me. I have a few of lumpinou's mods
MoneyAlex
2021-01-02 06:42:58 +0000 UTCOké i don’t know wich mod conflict whit this one
Meriam Foreverbauerfan
2020-10-10 17:50:24 +0000 UTCMost likely a conflict with another mod that replaces the divorce interaction.
Zero_
2020-10-10 17:49:03 +0000 UTCThis mod doesn't work anymore in my game,I put it in the mods folder I have XML injector also installed but it doesn't work it doesn't appear in my game anymore,maybe it needs an update?
Meriam Foreverbauerfan
2020-10-10 10:00:21 +0000 UTCits work now tnks
Canal DuDani
2020-09-26 19:40:29 +0000 UTCWorks perfectly fine in my game. Did you read the description?
Zero_
2020-09-24 22:06:50 +0000 UTC1.66.139.1020 don't work
Canal DuDani
2020-09-24 17:27:09 +0000 UTCRemember that this mod is not compatible with any other mod that modifies the divorce interaction. Before reporting a problem like this one, please test the mod alone. This is almost surely a conflict.
Zero_
2020-06-05 22:10:29 +0000 UTCThe mod is not showing up for me either? Im not sure if it's the patch update or the xml injector, I installed both but it is not working
Chance Charming
2020-06-05 15:34:15 +0000 UTCfunciona con la actualización de ayer?
atrapat
2020-06-04 14:10:47 +0000 UTCI put this in my mods folder and i go into the game and the divorce option doesn't appear.
Eli
2020-05-07 05:19:58 +0000 UTCYou don't. Just place it into the mod folder
Zero_
2020-05-07 04:32:12 +0000 UTCEli
2020-05-07 04:11:49 +0000 UTCDoes it still work? I have downloaded it, but it's not showing up in my game. BTW I love all your mods
Fe
2020-04-26 04:32:07 +0000 UTCYou mean the autonomous divorce? I think you can make it compatible just by taking my mod and altering the "ask for divorce" interaction to be autonomous the same way you altered the maxis interaction, then upload that... But you don't need my permission to do it, I allow the altering and redistribution of my mods.
Zero_
2020-04-04 14:04:47 +0000 UTCHello Zero. I've recently been told about this mod. I read you think we could make this compatible with my break up mod. If you want we can discuss this in a private message. I'm on discord we can chat there or anywhere of your choosing.
Polarbearsims
2020-04-04 13:31:41 +0000 UTCHello, i'm sorry for my English, i am not bilingue… Excuse me but i have I installed the mod several times with XML injector, unfortunately still nothing at stake!!!
Yann Ngs
2020-04-04 02:05:21 +0000 UTCScumbumbo one? I have that too. Autonomous divorce and similar conflict with this one.
Zero_
2020-03-16 19:58:21 +0000 UTCI have the More Traumatic Divorce for Children mod installed and I was wondering if this mod would conflict with it
Mia
2020-03-16 17:44:41 +0000 UTCI use MCCC for child support. And i don't play families much.
Zero_
2020-03-13 08:52:58 +0000 UTCThis mod would be a 100 times better if it had a child custody mod along with it
Minx
2020-03-13 08:47:22 +0000 UTChello, first of all your mods are amazing. ty for your hard work. Is there any way for you to add to this mod a friendly divorce option that works exactly like this one but without affecting their relationship? could you also do something with children? like the court decides who keeps the children after the divorce?
lala19996
2020-03-09 23:02:58 +0000 UTCyou need the file from here and also the XML injector 2 which is in the reviews here is the link to that file which is originally in the comment now. http://chii.modthesims.info/getfile.php?file=1871599
Wolff7676
2020-02-03 20:52:19 +0000 UTCIt is not working even when I remove every mod I have. Can you please make a video? Because the instructions are unclear for what files to download. There are 2 XML Files you can download and I do not know which one. I need step-by-step instructions.
artem grankin
2020-02-02 04:45:07 +0000 UTCYeah found the issue it was Autonomous Breakups that it was conflicting with, it is working now.
Wolff7676
2020-02-01 14:46:06 +0000 UTCFor people having problems with this one, check that you don't have others mods changing the divorce interaction in any way.
Zero_
2020-02-01 05:00:27 +0000 UTCI just checked over mine as well, my XML injector is fine as I have other mods that use it. I can get through all the steps even get the papers. But the divorce for 5000 is missing as well on my end, l only have the reg divorce option on it.
Wolff7676
2020-01-31 20:18:22 +0000 UTChey I downloaded this mod twice and still doesn't work it only shows divorce with a broken heart on the side because I have this other mod in my game so how do u get this thing to work in the game
gereice debellot
2020-01-14 05:17:17 +0000 UTCI put everything right but it does not work I do not see it anywhere no mailbox, no phone or computer and no interaction resulting from a divorce equipped I missed something?
Pascale Dimon-laire
2020-01-03 13:36:33 +0000 UTCAlmost the divorce procedure has passed. Divorce papers have been sent and read but there is no "divorce (5.000)" option. There is only an option from the game "divorce". (I have XML Injector)
Magdalena
2020-01-02 19:27:27 +0000 UTCwhen i click on the download for this mod i t downloads but i get the blue internet explorer logo why is this & how do i fix it ?
lucy whittall
2019-12-28 09:41:19 +0000 UTCCheck the injector testing interactions from the mailbox, phone or sim
Zero_
2019-12-24 11:40:52 +0000 UTCmines isn't working my option to divorce is completely gone and i put the xml injector in my mods folder also but nothing still didn't pop up and i'm getting very stressed to get it to work
Janiya Westray
2019-12-23 21:19:47 +0000 UTCI don't know... Some things are based on relationship points and some others on relationship bits. Replacing the relbit would be easy enough but won't work for things based on points (some jealousy reactions for example)
Zero_
2019-12-17 20:16:20 +0000 UTCHey zero! I have something of a question. Would it be at all possible with how the game is to have a “taking a break” option for a relationship. I’m using lms first love mod just because I thought it would be a cute storytelling option Having them be together from childhood but I wanted to spice it up with them like taking a break in adulthood but every other option like breaking up, just friends isn’t exactly what I want. Like I want them to part and maintain romance and still have some type of relationship marker so they can get back together eventually. Sorry to bug but I had to pick your brain a little
Nat
2019-12-17 18:31:33 +0000 UTCCheck the xml injector
Zero_
2019-12-17 06:29:35 +0000 UTCthe mod isn't working for me
Sarah Collins
2019-12-17 05:49:45 +0000 UTCDid you take the one from the comments linked above?
Zero_
2019-12-14 22:25:08 +0000 UTCI have installed the XML injector the way that was described by Scumbumbo but it doesn't show up anywhere. I don't even get the XML Injector test option on the mailbox. So, I can't get this mod to work sadly
Pamela Berg
2019-12-14 21:19:18 +0000 UTCYes, this mod without the injector will just make the option to divorce disappear. The injector is nothing else than a script like the many script other mods force you to put in the game, only that is a shared library more mods can share to avoid having too many script in game.
Zero_
2019-12-10 21:38:29 +0000 UTCweird question but do i also have to download the xml injector thing?
Fefe
2019-12-10 21:33:43 +0000 UTCTry if it's that one... the LE is about reenroll
Zero_
2019-12-10 00:17:01 +0000 UTCi do have that one
Vuvubear
2019-12-09 22:45:34 +0000 UTCmay be the rejection one if you have it, is more likely...
Zero_
2019-12-09 22:38:02 +0000 UTCYes the LE happens randomly perhaps i need to trouble shoot more but your mods are the only ones i have that touch university
Vuvubear
2019-12-09 18:59:25 +0000 UTCjust randomly? I checked the mod, there is nothing lest that reference to university in any way.
Zero_
2019-12-09 18:45:59 +0000 UTCWhen my sim was in a restaurant
Vuvubear
2019-12-09 18:25:59 +0000 UTCI need to know when the LE happens.
Zero_
2019-12-09 18:04:59 +0000 UTCHi i am getting the LE again for degree tracker. I took this mod out and I am not getting it anymore.
Vuvubear
2019-12-09 17:13:18 +0000 UTCHello Zero, here's my Portuguese translation for Divorce mod http://www.simfileshare.net/download/1489196/
Dayana Jsuz
2019-12-08 00:21:02 +0000 UTCZero, you inspire so many ideas! I hope none of us seem to be demanding or unappreciative of the amazing work you are doing as-is. I know it takes WAY more effort for you to bring these ideas into reality than it does for us to brainstorm them. I've been following some of your tutorials as I have time (which is not much as a full-time working mom of a toddler), but I'm gaining a whole new understanding of how the game mechanics work - both what they are really capable of and how complex they are to manipulate - and I really appreciate you make that possible.
Sheila Lobert
2019-12-07 11:15:33 +0000 UTCCan you make it where the one that is being divorced not except the divorce. Such as contest it or have them go to counseling (in a rabbit hole) and the outcome of the determines if the divorce is granted. Just a suggestion. Great mod and great way to make the game more realistic. (smile)
Lady D Fierce
2019-12-07 03:12:47 +0000 UTCHello, I love this mod... Seeing it's a Divorce Mod I instantly had the idea to make a similar mod but for Marriage. As in: People need to send a request Write some papers (both Sims to make it realistic, if it's possible) And then both of these Sims will leave the lot (into a rabbit hole) where they sign the marriage contract! This is great, this mod is something I never thought I'd need in my life but I'm glad it exists hehe ><
Lyoons
2019-12-06 21:41:26 +0000 UTCHello Zero, here's my chinese translation for Divorce https://simfileshare.net/download/1486530/
equallove
2019-12-06 18:17:44 +0000 UTCSoo perfect. Thank you very much for sharing this mod.
Evangelina Silvercloud
2019-12-06 17:05:26 +0000 UTComg I love it I LOVE IIIITTTTTT
Aadrianova
2019-12-06 14:06:07 +0000 UTCYeah... I know... i lost the interaction (it was made with the constructor) it will probably get included into the main rework of the mod.
Zero_
2019-12-06 10:18:11 +0000 UTCadded, thanks
Zero_
2019-12-06 05:32:00 +0000 UTCwhen did the LE happen? I should have removed all the references to uni ...
Zero_
2019-12-06 05:20:16 +0000 UTCi think this is causing a LE https://filebin.net/hc7czyzut6fi76gz/lastException.txt?t=6cem3f5i
Vuvubear
2019-12-06 04:11:37 +0000 UTCOh this is awesome! Thanks so much! <3
Miss Mani
2019-12-06 01:20:51 +0000 UTCHi Zero, this is the link for the spanish translation http://www.simfileshare.net/download/1485534/
Marco Cantillo
2019-12-06 01:12:59 +0000 UTCPerhaps an interaction could be added to the divorce papers for "arrange custody" and you could choose weekends or summers and then, depending on the choice, every Friday or every summer the child(ren) are automatically sent "away" and show as "at other parent's house" in the UI, or a permanent hidden buff could give a social interaction with their child saying "send to other parent's house" that would send them "away".
Sheila Lobert
2019-12-06 00:00:40 +0000 UTCThank you!! This is a great update! Would it be possible to include a separation feature in addition to a divorce option? If sims divorce will players be able to arrange some sort of split custody? I've never had my sims divorce before specifically for this concern. :)
BlackPiano
2019-12-05 20:29:50 +0000 UTCJohn, I want a divorce
2019-12-05 19:31:13 +0000 UTCyeah, I can see to expand it on that way.
Zero_
2019-12-05 18:22:07 +0000 UTCWow.. already?! Thanks, I'll add it to the mod.
Zero_
2019-12-05 18:21:37 +0000 UTCleft the autonomy off... I've yet to understand how to tune it properly, there are many factors affecting it displaced in a lot of tuning inside the game... the interaction is a mean one so it would be a bit unpredictable still if tuned only with the preferences set in the interaction itself.
Zero_
2019-12-05 18:21:06 +0000 UTCThis is great, thank you! In future, do you think it would be possible to create an option for an amicable divorce, like one based on a mutual decision or something like that?
J
2019-12-05 18:13:30 +0000 UTCHi! I am a French translator, I translated Ask for divorce into french, you can download the STBL files here: https://simfileshare.net/download/1483757/ Thank you! :)
Candyman Gaming
2019-12-05 17:46:08 +0000 UTCThis sounds amazing! Quick question, if my sims have a bad enough relationship will they initiate this autonomously or will I have to initiate it?
Samantha Den Hertog
2019-12-05 17:09:22 +0000 UTCThank you! This will be awesome!
Babylittletee
2019-12-05 16:53:07 +0000 UTC