I got drunk and left the house (podcast #51)
Added 2023-07-24 22:59:00 +0000 UTCComments
As theres no bars in the South Bumble is also torment here in the south cause if you do meet someone you have to drive 2 hours than its a huge chance it a let down i don't do very well on apps but you know like any shared advice would be great thanks for the podcast.
Daven
2023-07-26 14:30:33 +0000 UTCNothing wrong with waiting until you're ready to meet someone. Although I can completely relate to maybe waiting a little too long to ask to meet someone in person if I really like them but have anxiety about how it will go or if they have the best of intentions. I don't really have any gay bars here either but thinking of traveling a little to Asheville, NC or Atlanta area and seeing what happens. I typically don't go to bars, and really don't drink much at all either - i wouldn't even know how to order a drink there really lol - i've tried a few different types of alcoholic beverages and don't really have a favorite yet, but I'm definitely trying to be more social as well nowadays. It sounds like you at least have a plan on bettering the handling of social anxiety or bettering yourself in that way, and I'm glad to hear someone else feel similar to how I'm feeling about becoming more active/social. No need to give up the things you love doing already, but I'm learning to incorporate more things that challenge my anxiety and just seeing what happens and working on handling that balance. Glad to hear about your experience so far, and hoping the therapy goes well!
James Carm
2023-07-26 03:42:23 +0000 UTC
