Lovers
Added 2022-12-08 18:01:02 +0000 UTCBeen feeling a bit alienated lately. I hate that dysphoria makes me feel that my trans-ness is undesirable as a gay man.
I love being trans and I would never trade this experience for anything else, I just needed to see more trans rep in mlm intimacy to work through some stuffs.
Sorry about the rants guys! :")
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as another gay trans guy i also rly relate. and idk hearing ur struggles w it makes me feel less alone in everything too. i feel like esp since there is a lot of feeling undesirable with trans men, ur art is even more important. i’ve never seen trans men as desired as they r shown in ur art, which is the whole reason i love ur art. ur art is really helping a lot of people with the things we struggle with. esp w the way u show how soft and tender trans love can be, without all of the nonsense fetishization or forced feminization (in a transphobia way not the kink). one hell of a legacy tbh
basil
2022-12-10 17:49:07 +0000 UTCThis is probably going to sound very dramatic ik but the whole reason I followed you was because I needed to find more positive gay intimacy. I’m a gay trans man too, so seeing that finally represented in someone’s work made me finally feel like I’m needed by someone. I get that feeling of never being as desired as you want to be and honestly your art shows nothing but that. We all support you in whatever you’re feeling and how it shows in your art because that’s the whole point. We love it and can’t wait for you to make more.
DeadOctane
2022-12-10 15:31:07 +0000 UTCAs also a trans man who has followed your page for years now you’ve made me Embrace who I am, the trans rep in your art is one of a kind and it’s always a joy to see the soft intimacy you draw with any character. All your feelings are valid man and I as well as others completely understand, don’t apologize for showing emotion here this is your space and you are absolutely safe to show them.
.almondboys
2022-12-10 15:11:32 +0000 UTCDitto
David.david
2022-12-09 08:15:38 +0000 UTCas a trans man who has cried from the warmth and tenderness in your art, please don't apologize. i feel so alienated and unwanted in the gay community, so when i see the love and adoration turned towards bodies like mine in your art, it's so relieving to feel like that's actually a possibility for me.
suga
2022-12-09 07:24:20 +0000 UTCI’m a demiguy but the feeling less than/undesirable in relationships is relatable. I appreciate someone else talking about it too.
Lain
2022-12-09 04:56:34 +0000 UTCNEVER APOLOGIZE FOR RANTS this is literally your art and your space, so absolutely no apologies needed that aside, i'm a gay af trans guy too and the trans rep in your art alongside the sheer warmth and intimacy you portray is one of the biggest reasons why i had no hesitations about becoming a patron of yours ;v; i keep feeling...really bad about my transness since i don't really fall into ~typical~ trans male stuff (e.g regarding, say, top surgery) and definitely don't feel like i'm perceivable as a man (so for another man to desire me as a man seems impossible) so i understand what you mean to an extent ;;; but i hope you can keep working through things. just know that your art does absolute wonders for this highly dysphoric trans guy
Melanthriel
2022-12-09 02:59:03 +0000 UTCi’m so glad to see i have a community here..i’m a trans man and i have really been struggling with this as well..like i’m gay but ace? idk..i want to be desired as a man..by other men?..but i feel like that won’t ever happen..but your art really speaks to me, it makes me feel better and more confident and often is expresses what i feel without words because i often can’t and i think that’s really special. thank you so much Noah.
Citrus
2022-12-08 22:00:55 +0000 UTCyour art is v special to me and one of the major things that made me come out to myself as trans - i couldn’t ignore the visceral emotional reaction i’d get when i’d see the soft and warm trans mlm intimacy you draw, i’d just burst into tears every time. so please don’t apologise, you aren’t alone, thank you for what you do, and i hope it is some comfort that your art also helps others struggling with the same thing
juryinhotpants
2022-12-08 21:35:23 +0000 UTCyour art has helped both myself (and many others) in my journey of identity this year, and i completely understand those complex feelings. your work gives me genuine euphoria every time i see it! 🥰
tuckahue
2022-12-08 20:17:57 +0000 UTCYour art has genuinely helped me so much with accepting who I am as a queer trans man for years now. Ever since I started following you back in 2018 I’ve loved your art and watching you grow into the person you are today has been such an amazing journey :) please dont feel bad about showing your emotions through your art. I’m so truly thankful to you for being the person who showed me the rep I needed in order to help me accept myself, you have a very special place in my heart <33
Woopupper
2022-12-08 18:59:07 +0000 UTCMy partner and I are trans masc and love your work. Thank you for sharing 🖤
Jack
2022-12-08 18:58:20 +0000 UTCI'm also trans mlm and your art actively makes me feel less alienated so thank you 💗
rip
2022-12-08 18:48:53 +0000 UTCI'm a gay trans guy as well and I can fully understand how shitty it is to struggle with those problems and thoughts and especially all this self boubt every day. Also you don't have to apologize for putting your thoughts into your art since that's what it is for. Expressing yourself and coping with shit. And I wanted to say that I rlly love your mlm trans representation and that your art gives me so much hope and helps me to be more comfortable with surgery scars
Oliver
2022-12-08 18:10:32 +0000 UTCit's all understandable man, we appreciate the trans rep (hopefully even if we as patrons are not), and you just need to do what's best for you :] you're a special guy and i like seeing your art in intimacy :]
cole
2022-12-08 18:08:15 +0000 UTCI'm a trans gay guy struggling with the same thing, especially as I've realized I will likely never get bottom surgery, and it brings me so much comfort to see your art with visible scars and representation. Please don't be sorry for putting your emotions into your art, it's part of what makes it so special in my opinion.
Jay bird
2022-12-08 18:04:23 +0000 UTC
