What the hell happened in California!?

So as you might have noticed, I came back from the second half of my trip to California pretty wrecked emotionally. I wanted to share here what happened and why. So it's a bit of a read but if you like it's here. I will be getting back into the swing of things starting today sorry for any delays! This really messed me up more than I thought it would. Love y'all:


Super quick rundown:

Adoptive dad I never liked has stage 4 cancer so I went out to see him and play nice because death as you know.

The night before we're supposed to leave (11am on the 19th) to go back to our states my stepmom starts shrieking like a Banshee that we're stealing her money because my dad added me as a beneficiary after he dies (25% on only ONE of his accounts).

She throw hands at my adoptive mom and we called a Lyft, the cops, and ran to the airport.

She then claimed we stole her makeup money and jewelry (she doesn't wear makeup or jewelry) and my dad took her side and said we convinced him when he was super drugged up on meds to leave me any money.

I've never cared about any money and have always said I'd always rather choose being poor and happy over being rich and sad and he knows that.

What stings is that I always hated the guy because he was always so vile to me and everyone I ever loved. But we had reconnected and I gave him a chance these last couple years. When we were down there I was the only one who actually made sure he took his medicine and we all helped him except for my stepmom. Him taking her side immediately just proves I wasted so much of my time on someone I was right not to put effort into and if there's one thing I actually hate it's wasting my time.

Also, the complete betrayal of someone I considered like another mother to me giving absolutely no care about my feelings or future was devastating.

I've been feeling a lot better now but my mom was even so shaken that she hasn't been herself either for a couple days. We're all getting back to normal finally. I'm sorry it took so long, but thanks for letting me process how I needed to. 🖤🤍💜💙