Negative Reactions?
Added 2023-12-11 01:22:26 +0000 UTCSomething that I've seen argued about a lot in regards to kpop reactions is if a reactor should post an song/album reaction if their opinion is mostly negative of the music they're listening to. Some people think that yes, reactors should be able to share any opinion on art that they want, as long as they are being respectful... While others believe that kpop spaces and fandoms themselves are already so negative, that reactors should just not post something if they dislike it.
I've always been honest in my reactions, and I am very willing to tell people if a song is not my style or I probably won't listen to it more... but if I were to react to something that I really didn't vibe with, or had more negative things to say than positive, would you still be interested in seeing it? Or should it be something I just leave in the drafts and move on to something else? Would your opinion change if I was reacting to a group you really liked? Please let me know! I'd be super curious to hear from you guys.
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I think when you are a fan of the group "negative reactions" (I prefer to call them "critical reactions") are okay, because it comes from a place of knowing the group and their style. Reacting to a group/artist for the first time, hating it, and still posting a negative reaction is a no for me... it's pointless because you will probably won't keep reacting to them, I think it's better to explore it in private and if you find that you actually like other of their stuff, then giving it a second try. At the end of the day I think there's no way to classify something as bad just because it doesn't suit your personal taste, saying "it's not my thing" or "this is not what i was expecting" is completely fine, but dedicating time to explain why you hate it so much might not be a good use of your and other people's time.
Mery Ordaz
2023-12-11 15:54:53 +0000 UTCas long as somebody is respectful about it and keeps the conversation more about the production/company/what they dont like about it and not focus solely on the idols themselves (most of the time though there are some exceptions) then im fine with it if its about one of my faves then i probably just wont watch it haha most reactors ive seen talk about this stick with a "if i dont like it and have nothing constructive or meaningful to say about it then i wont put it up" which i think is a good way to do it
luviemoo
2023-12-11 11:34:31 +0000 UTCI respect others opinions of their thought on the song but please try to be respectful of the group as they all work very hard! Might not be your cup of tea but it might suit others. Also, one song does not depend the worth and hardship a group put into it.. don’t cancel a group based on one song. I don’t like reactors being disrespectful to the group that they react to. These idols work hard! Train for years! Not a fan? No problem but please do not discredit them. I just stop watching certain channel due to them being disrespectful or calling a group not worth their time. But you’re doing good. Keep up the good work.
Bori A
2023-12-11 07:41:29 +0000 UTCreally glad you have trust in me for that. i would definitely not want anyone to ever feel bad about what I'm saying, but I am also not interested in lying to please people. that balance is important I think.
shaylareacts
2023-12-11 06:09:20 +0000 UTCoh for sure, this is great advice. sometimes songs are just meant to see live, no matter their genre.
shaylareacts
2023-12-11 06:04:45 +0000 UTCi'm sure you've already thought about this, but i think the biggest deal breaker for posting a negative reaction is if you think you're in the right headspace to handle negative comments. in my personal opinion, i think i would still watch a negative video. if you didn't like something from one of my ults, i might be kinda disappointed. but at the end of the day it's really not that deep. everyone likes what they like and i know you would never be rude about it.
kat
2023-12-11 05:24:11 +0000 UTCto add another point. I recommend watching a live performance of songs you don’t totally vibe with at first, that usually makes the song grow on me. (doesn’t really work if you really dislike the song but if it’s just a not your vibe type situation this usually helps me atleast :) )
wooziverse
2023-12-11 02:19:20 +0000 UTCI agree, the worst comments are the ones that are aimed at someone's appearance or how their general voice sounds and making fun of artists for those reasons. There is absolutely nothing objective or constructive when it comes to remarks like that. As for music tastes, I do get that not every song or performance will be liked by everyone, especially if someone has specific preferences and it does help when the audience knows what the reactor likes and recommends content that matches their taste, but either way, being respectful is the most important and crucial part in my opinion.
KalaKeiko
2023-12-11 02:01:15 +0000 UTCyeah youtube commenters are definitely more likely to get upset when you dislike something, even if you aren't being mean about it unfortunately. just comes with the platform.
shaylareacts
2023-12-11 01:56:42 +0000 UTCyeah, I think that's why "as long as they're being respectful" is a really important point. hating to get views or to seem edgy is just mean and tacky. that's why I always try and explain it as a difference in what I like instead of trying to claim that it is just "universally" or "objectively" bad, which I think does nothing helpful. obviously "bad" songs (including unfortunate lyric and instrumental choices) do exist, but I would say most of the dislike from kpop reactors come down to personal taste.
shaylareacts
2023-12-11 01:52:58 +0000 UTCI personally think it depends, to be honest. If someone doesn't like something they are reacting to and give their honest opinion and constructive criticism while still being respectful towards the artist and their fans, then that's totally okay and not an issue at all beyond maybe feeling a bit sad and disappointed if someone doesn't like something or someone you like. However, I've seen plenty of reactors who openly disrespect artists and their music and make inappropriate and insulting remarks without any constructive feedback on why they feel that way and writing off their behaviour as being "honest" and not understanding why people are angry at them in the comments for what they've said about certain artists and songs. It's all about the way someone words their opinions and if they stay respectful and civil or are just being disrespectful for no reason that makes the biggest difference in my opinion.
KalaKeiko
2023-12-11 01:43:01 +0000 UTCI personally wouldn’t mind if you don’t like something that my fav group do but I think youtube audiences are not the best for this scenarios, I would definitely watch your reaction anyway but im sure some people will be upset on youtube and will not behave and I think that the hate it’s not worth it.
camila manriquez
2023-12-11 01:40:20 +0000 UTCI might feel sad (not genuinely sad just mildly sad) if you really disliked something from a group I love. but it’s your reaction and that is most important
wooziverse
2023-12-11 01:24:18 +0000 UTC
