Dr. Charla Hathaway

Charla gives you a flirting lesson

Flirting is like unleashing a fountain of goodwill you have within you, that keeps getting replenished as you give it away. Yes, in a way you flirt for invigorate yourself. Flirting is 'attention' ...

Flirt because you can!

Flirting is like unleashing a fountain of goodwill you have within you, that keeps getting replenished as you give it away. Yes, in a way you flirt for yourself. Flirting is 'attention' without 'in...

Naked Chef Charla serves you a Love Sandwich

How to make a Love Sandwich: Take a slice of bread, um smell the earthy goodness! For the first layer of bread--VALIDATE your partner, such as, “Oh, it feels so good to be with ...

Men like it slow

We hear it from women, and I hear it a lot from men. I've coached 10s of hundreds of men into astonishingly intimate 'slowness.' Often we just don't know how to slow down. Think of ways that hav...

On my way to the bathroom

Woke up thinking about you, my Patreons, and snapped a photo of me on the way to the bathroom. The joy of casual nudity, in the house, in the garden, in the neighborhood on a bike. Let’s imagin...

I'm ON today, short notice

Dearest Patreons,

Here's a great interview with a somatic male muse--my counterpart!--and so glad tha...

Illegal in Nicaragua

Can you believe a country makes it illegal to be naked on a beach when the best thing they have is miles and miles of pristine, secluded beaches? I had fun breaking the law for you! I'll be taking...

A naked yogi invites you to the water's edge!

My Dear Erotic Adventurers,

I love doing naked yoga and would love to teach a class with all of you in it, all of us naked together! Why not!

I wrote a love poem...

On a tropical morning, I notice my body

I notice what I want—value it, trust it, communicate it. Desires are our highest intelligence, they steer us towards uncharted Wonder. Choosing what happens on our body is a Spiritual A...

Mermaid spotted on the malecon in Mazatlan

My dear Patreons, I woke up this morning in Mazatlan, Mexico, with a Mermaid in my bed! I've been enjoying some great Tinder dates here, speaking half in Spanish and half in English over a coffee. ...

Clarification on Looking for a good Man post

My friend is looking for a man who will pay the whole tuition for the couple's retreat, Finding the Sweet Spot, ...

I need a good man!

Looking for one good Patreon man to help me out! My friend, an intimacy lovely teacher who offers snuggle labs, wants a partner to take her to my couples workshop, 2024-12-28 00:11:34 +0000 UTC View Post

ooops!

I meant to include a link to the intimacy retreats in the last Patreon.

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A song for you

In the Heart of Darkness a hope lives in everyone's heart, that our humble being may in some way help another and be of service to humankind.

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Patreons, join me on a pristine beach at a cozy resort this Feb and let me lead you in relaxing, gentle activities that will bring more pleasure and intimacy to your one wild, wooly, and precious life!

I love teaching these retreats, Being Me Loving You for women, and 2024-11-25 14:50:56 +0000 UTC View Post

Soft Cock Appreciation Week

Dear Men--and Women who Love Them! My friend Erica Leroye, is on the frontlines of men's sexual health and pleasure and...

Playing for you in the Fall light

My sister erotic performers danced, sang, tied ropes and wielded floggers at a Whore’s Night Out at the Vortex Theater in  Austin, TX, last week. I presen...

I interview cocks--and they can be very...humorous

....and wise. Have you interviewed your cock or vulva today. How are they doing? Here Ernie's cock, who calls himself "Oscar," and he has some great advise for Ernie to lighten up and smell the ros...

I wake up tasting you

I wake up with longings to taste you again...

I hope the lingering summer brushes your skin with the softness of rose petals, and fills you with remembrance of joys gone by, and a glimmering ...

Here's my dessert poem I was teasing you about

I am pulled into a salty arroyo of life and death, Your hot rod burns into me, Undulating to some primordial rhythm of the dessert, Our bodies held together by breath and sand, we are gripped by li...

You are my Dessert Lover

I am pulled into a salty arroyo of life and death, Your hot rod burns into me, Undulating to some primordial rhythm of the dessert, Our bodies held together by breath and sand, we are gripped by li...

Siren Charla is calling you to frolic on the beach with her.

Dear Patreons~-Your Erotic Muse, is calling you to Coco Beach, Nicaragua (20 miles north of Costa Rico), for an intimate&nb...

When I Fuck You Now

 Finally, we can let go of fucking to get something, prove something, or out of expectation. Mature eroticism we can enjoy the surprises and freedom of fucking. We can dive deeper in to the so...

Charla on Coco Beach invites you to a Retreat 2025

I’m offering two wonderful experiences on remote Coco Beach in rustic southern Nicaragua (just 20 miles north of Costa Rica) next winter and, YOU, my Patreons, are my first invites. Join me for I...

Is this a poem

In the wee dim hours of the early morning, I write down my musing and fantasy, and wonder does it quality to be a poem. I'm not sure, you decide, and enjoy either way! Miss Charla

I want your Sweet Surrender

What happens when a strong man--usually so capable and in charge--just gives it up?! With my Lady Handcuffs of silk ribbons and feathers, I want to tie up your Man Hands , so I may may set your fr...

Being ME while Loving YOU

Dear Patreons,

I'm on my rooftop terrace in San Miguel de Allende, Mexico, after presenting my play, Naked at My Age, to a house full of friends. I've been asked to present next winter at S...

On a deserted beach in Nicaragua dancing with the waves and wind

My dear Patreons, if I could be naked I would, a conservative country like Nicaragua must be respected. But I feel the salt and the sea through my very being and I send you greetings. I watch the b...

Is this a Poem

For those of you who missed my sexy Valentine Poetry zoom, here's a poem for you.

Inviting you to a sexy Valentines Zoom show

Dear Friends,

Join us for some Valentine’s yummies.  Juicy readings by some of my most juicy friends.  You may have your camera on or off! But we entertainers are ON!  Invite...