Ancilla L

A Little Housekeeping!

Attention all my patrons!

First of all, I know there were a lot of posts uploaded today, I was just taking care of the backlog, but I have good news for everyone, I have made some changes to ...

The Things They Forget.

We sit together on the balcony of our new home in the mountains, he fiddles with the gardening tools I recently purchased, checking to see if he can use them for anything but their intended purpose...

Class Upload: Fear Play

Hello everyone, this is the upload of the class on fear-play that was conducted on 7 September 2025. Please find attached and available for download:

• Recording of the class

2025-09-08 04:05:16 +0000 UTC View Post

Upcoming Class Joining Information: Fear Play

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This is the information to join the class on Fear-Play tomorrow. The time listed below is in IST (and your local time will be reflected on this 2025-09-06 06:04:32 +0000 UTC View Post

Three Monsoons.

It is only as I cut my lip against his toenail that I gain some awareness of my surroundings. I am not certain how much time has passed since I begged to get down at his feet and worship them with ...

Performance and Performative.

A long time ago, my spouse and I played with someone as a couple. Usually, I only do threeway-play if it in involves cuckolding (me) but she was fun, cute and casual and I was curious so we went fo...

The Sound of His Boots.

I was waiting for him in an empty office while he was off in another part of the hospital, perhaps he was seeing a patient or doing whatever people who work in hospitals do on a daily basis. I can ...

Sharing My Cats, Sharing My Heart.

“Don’t forget that today is my cats-night,” he says to me as he grabs his plate off the counter and promptly drops his spoon.

I shake my head and bring him another as he cleans the chun...

Kink As Battleground.

Every single time I write something that is a bit explicit in terms of my fondness for violence, consensual nonconsent or anything that falls into the edgier category, especially within the confine...

Appreciation.

Sara fusses with the cone around Junie's head as she reminds her precious little doggy not to exert herself so soon after surgery. Sara grew up to be so beautiful, it's almost unbelievable she has ...

Upcoming Q&A on Sadomasochism

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This is the link to join the upcoming Q&A on Sadomasochism scheduled for 24 August 2025. I will post it again (two days prior to the event). This event, unlike my ...

What Can You Teach Your Son?

I still remember the first real discussion about gender I had with my stepson. He was eight-years old, and while he had only lived with me for a year or so, we had developed a highly-communcative, ...

Mothers and Daughters and Women.

The three of us were sitting on the floor in the middle of my mother’s bedroom. The room has gone through significant transitions in terms of design and colour scheme, but through the years we ha...

Class Upload: ESM Expanded

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Class recording.
PPT
Reading Notes

Upcoming Class Joining Information: ESM

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This is the joining information for the class on emotional sadomasochism that is taking place on 3 August 2025. If you have registered by sharing your details with me, I have...

Counter-Parenting and How It Hurts Everyone

A few years ago, when we were moving from a small town to a small city, we began the routine scramble of looking for a new school for the kid and a strange back-and-forth began between my partner a...

The Unexpected Trauma Of Casual Sex

We were sitting in a dark corner of a bar when he brought up his friend Rohit. We’d met through Rohit whom I had hooked up with on a slow Saturday afternoon but I didn’t know either one of them...

Babygirl, Social Power Structures and Kink Representation.

After ignoring its existence for a while, I finally watched the film Babygirl and of course, I didn’t expect to like it (and I really didn’t) but it doesn’t matter because this isn’t about ...

Why I Teach Despite Saying I Would Never.

If you have known me for any consequential period of time, you may know that one of the most consistent themes of my life is that I will always have to eat my words. If ever, I deign to take too st...

A Little Information For My Patrons!

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I just want to start off by telling you all how much I appreciate the support of my community here and I hope this membership is as gratifying for you. I wanted to let everyon...

Class Upload: Comprehensive Risk Assessment

This is the upload of the recorded version of the class on Comprehensive Risk Assessment. Please find:

• Recording of me teaching the class.

• The reading notes for the cla...

  2025-07-13 06:51:33 +0000 UTC View Post

Upcoming Class Joining Information: Risk Assessment

Hello! This is the information for joining the upcoming class on Comprehensive Risk Assessment. The time listed below is in IST, your local-time will be reflected in the event page on Fetlife.

Do You Even Like Me?

At the last parents-forum I attended at the school of my child, I thought I had made a new friend. The school has a new principal and as we interacted through the course of the forum, I found I lik...

There Are No Magical Solutions To Your Kink Problems.

I have known Sharda for many years and while I wouldn’t say that we are friends, she does frequently confide in me about her troubles. Sharda is in a power-exchange relationship with a dom...

Class Upload: The Intersection of Trauma and Fetishism

This is the upload of the class on the Intersection of Trauma and Fetishism that was conducted today. Please find attached:

• The recording of the class.

• The powerpoint ...

  2025-06-29 15:41:56 +0000 UTC View Post

Upcoming Class Joining Information: 29 June 2025

This is the information you need to join and/or access the upcoming class on The Intersection of Trauma and Fetishism on 29 June 2025 (or 28 June 2025, depending on where you are located). The time...

Power Exchange Textbook: Chapter 7

Note: This is the seventh chapter in the Power Exchange Sextbook I am currently writing. The previously 2025-06-17 04:26:49 +0000 UTC View Post

A Detailed Evaluation of The Concept of Personal Responsibility.

Every single time anyone writes or talks about having their consent violated, being assaulted or abused, there are inevitably, (often by the same people), calls for personal responsibility. I think...

Random Writing Lessons #2

Catharsis is a common motivation for writing. As a writer, you can experience cathartic emotion and release through your process as well as your characters but your catharsis is often covert and se...

Class Upload: Conflict Resolution in Power-Exchange

PFA: Class Recording
Reading Notes
Power-point presentation

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