Advent Calendar Day 3
See you tomorrow :)
2021-12-03 06:01:00 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well!
This morning I still didn't have anything for this week's shoot of self love and was ready to give up. I've been taking self portraits (almost) every week for more than a year and I'm starting to get a bit fed up. Even if I know all the benefits behind this project, all I want to do lately is to help others in their Self Love journey and forget a bit about myself.
But I also know that to help others, I have to keep going, keep experimenting and keep creating.
Today, Aline from @thebboost posted something about how it's important to keep showing up, even when we're not at our best. And it motivated me enough to get ready for these god damn self portraits.
So while I was preparing my set, I started wondering how I could help people in their Self Love Journey through these pictures and I remembered how important it is to offer a different representation than what we see in medias. This is what I love in my work and this is what people love in my work as well. This is exactly why I have to keep going. These self portraits aren't just for me, but for everyone who feel inspired to love themselves a bit more everytime they look at them.
So these pictures are a Love Letter to my saggy body and all saggy bodies. We don't have to be validated by mainstream medias to be wonderful as we are.
Talk to you soon,
Flavie.
I'm just passing by to remind you that you're absolutely beautiful and you deserve the best, no matter what it means to you. Trust your guts, trust your intuition, believe in yourself, all the answers are inside you.
I hope you know how amazing you are!
Talk to you soon
Flavie
2021-11-24 07:42:16 +0000 UTC View PostEN Hello Angel!
I hope you're doing well and the world is treating you like the precious gem you are lately!
I'm just passing by to remind you that you're a super Badass, and people around you are lucky to have you. You are allowed to breathe and let go of your pain. You are allowed to move on from what hurts you. You are allowed to take the power back on your life.
You are amazing.
<code>FR Hello petit ange!
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well and you're having a great weekend!
You're beautiful. Like amazingly beautiful. You may not see it because you're used with your unique beauty, but it doesn't mean it isn't obvious for other people. Don't underestimate yourself, please. You've done so much already, and it's nothing compare to everything you're going to do with the rest of your life. You're impressive and many people wish they could do half of what you do. Treat yourself like the precious gem you are.
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-11-14 09:01:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing great and the world is treating you well lately!
I'm just passing by to remind you that you're allowed to be the monarch of your own life! You can be extra, you can be too much, you can be over the top!
Enjoy your day,
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-11-10 10:28:41 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you have a spooky time!
I'm just passing by to show you my Halloween self portraits and tell you a bit about them!
Okay so long story short, a friend of mine opened a private tattoo shop in a collective space that used to be a Jesus House (aka a Chapel). I offered to help her out for something with pictures this weekend and thought it would be perfect to take her portraits in this beautiful spot.
It's only the night before that I realized that Halloween was coming up this Shoot of Self Love Day (aka Sunday) and that I didn't really have an idea that really suited the theme, especially I have to confess that I'm not a super Halloween fan. Every year I try to try, but it always end up being a big fail for me...
Okay so let's get back to these freaking photos. Suddenly my two brain cells did a handshake and it clicked! A few days ago I bought cheesy angel wings for kids, without really knowing what to do with them. And the Chapel was the perfect decor for Halloween portraits! Let's be a cute Angel this year!!!
I almost forgot that the room I wanted to shoot in was on top of super freaky stairs AND the whole floor was just see through glass. So not only I was super scared (did I mention I have a fear of heights?), but anyone who entered the building could see me jumping around naked...
Like if I wasn't scared enough of having to pose on this god damn glass floor, I forgot my remote! Which means that I had to go back and forth between my camera and the posing spot for each photo!
Of course there is a few stuff I wish I did better in the final result of these pictures, but I'm super proud of expanding my comfort zone a bit more today :)
When was the last time you expanded yours? I'm curious!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-10-30 20:25:08 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing great and life is treating you well lately :)
Here are a few illustrated portraits I've made recently! I figured some of y'all may be interested in checking them out :)
I'm currently in the process of hiring an assistant to help me out with the organization part of my job, to be able to focus more on the creative side. I'm super excited and I hope it'll turn out well :) I would like to have more room for illustration in my professional life in the future and maybe finding a healthy balance between my favorite art mediums :)
Thank you for your support, and stay tuned for some fun self portraits tomorrow! I'm over excited about this week's idea, can't wait to show you!!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-10-30 10:08:09 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well :)
Here are my Shoot of Self Love of the week, featuring... Elsa!
I bought and customed her this week and I couldn't pass on the opportunity to take a few shots with my new friend ;)
Have a good week,
Talk to you soon
Flavie
Hey you!
I hope you're doing great :)
I posted a sample of this series a little while ago on Instagram, but I didn't talk about how this photoshoot made me feel.
Lately, it's been hard to appreciate with my body for several reasons, and being able to find myself beautiful again through these pictures is such a great feeling. By extension, and paired with other factors helping, of course, I can look at myself in the mirror again, as well as feel confident in public space. That's why I absolutely love Shoot of Self Love and I highly encourage everyone to give it a try!
I wish you a great day,
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-10-23 12:38:59 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
How are you doing? I hope you're experiencing good things lately, and if it's a bit harder that you don't forget how amazing you are.
This past while, I went through a succession of extremely hard moments, and all I could do was drawing, so here are a few of my illustrations.
But I think the worse of this whole nightmare is behind me for now, that I've learnt what I had to learn during this chapter and I'm ready to move on to a new version of myself.
I feel joy again, more often than not, I feel motivation knocking at my door gently, and hope by its side. I missed all of this so freaking much. I missed seeing a smile on my face, I missed dancing while doing my dishes, I missed making jokes.
I've been recording myself through this huge storm and I may make a video about it at some point.
But for now, it's time to get back to my amazing job. I'm planning on editing your pictures asap, as well as making more post on here, aaaaand getting back to A Shoot of Self Love as soon as this week!!
Thank y'all so freaking much for your patience and support, I can't wait to do some fun shits again!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-10-11 20:56:06 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well and you got good news lately or if not, that they are on your way :)
Today I wanted to share with y'all the Shoot of Self Love of the week and tell you a bit more about it.
Lately, I'm going through some shit and it honestly makes it a bit harder for me to focus on the good, in and out of myself. These weekly shoots of self love are usually helping a lot for my self confidence, but for the first time I stopped the session really shortly, because I couldn't look at myself no more. It was pretty complicated to see what I looked like and the kind of art I was making... I felt like dogshit.
But because I wanted to finish what I started, I uploaded the pictures on my computer, expecting to hate them even more... So what was my surprise when I saw these?!!
They are obviously not perfect, either I am, but I'm not looking for perfection so we're all good.
Next time I'm convinced to be complete turd, I'll try to remember these pictures and give myself a bit more credit. And I hope you will as well!
Have a wonderful day,
Flavie.
2021-09-05 07:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well and that you're having good things in your life lately :)
Today I wanted to honor my wonderful Daisy, Romane.
We met during her session in January and I feel very lucky she trusted me enough to come all the way to my city to embrace herself in front of my camera.
It is a privilege that my job offers me the opportunity to meet wonderful people in such a magical way. In 3hours, these humans I knew nothing about right before happen to show me some of their most vulnerable sides in just about 3hours. And like if it wasn't enough, I get the chance to make art out of it for a living! 🤯🤯🤯
Let's get back to Romane. She was blooming more and more through the session and I really hope this photoshoot helped her see how she really is. ♥
Fun fact: she is such a cool human that we kept in touch and even came back all the way to my city to hangout this summer :)
I hope you liked this little more detailed post ☀
Have a great rest of your day,
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
I hope you're doing well!
I just wanted to remind you that your ideas can become reality, one action at a time. Give your dreams credit, believe in yourself and make room for them to grow.
I'm sure you can offer many more beautiful things to the world so please make tomorrow a better place by taking space.
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
Pictured: my brother almost missing his train, too busy playing the supermodel.
2021-08-31 10:00:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well!
Today, I'm back with a self portrait series that I personally really like.
To be honest, I'm not feeling my best lately. I've been focusing too much on external validation and not enough on inner validation, which made me feel more and more like I was suffocating. I think as human beings we can't completely relay on one or another and we can find a healthy balance. Self portraiture helps me with that.
I've been missing myself lately and I needed to find this facet of me again. So I took the time to reconnect with my sensuality, one picture at a time.
And it feels good.
Self portraiture isn't a magic trick. It won't solve all my problems at once. But gosh, everytime I click on this button, I can feel its benefits immediately. So once again, I highly encourage you to do it as well if you're feeling off.
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-08-29 08:00:03 +0000 UTC View Post
Hello vous!
Je suis contente (et stressée) de vous dire que je suis de retour sur Youtube avec une petite vidéo sans pression. Elle sortira demain à 18h, mais sachant que vous êtes trop chouettes, je voulais vous donner la possibilité de la regarder en exclusivité avant sa sortie officielle :)
J’espère qu'elle vous plaira et que vous serez un peu indulgents quand même :)
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-08-28 10:46:49 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
Today I wanted to illuminate your day with the wonderful Zouzou. They are such a wonderful human and I'm so glad I got the opportunity to show them how I see them.
I hope you're doing well 'cause you're such a badass!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-08-27 08:01:01 +0000 UTC View Post
I'm just passing by to remind you that you're a wonderful human being and that you deserve to trust your guts. If something doesn't feel right, take time to acknowledge and question it. You are allowed to move on from what doesn't fit you. Life is long and full of surprises.
The room you make by letting go of what doesn't work for you allows new beginnings to take place in your life. Give yourself a chance to find happiness. Trust the process. Trust yourself.
I'm talking to you but also to myself, to be honest. I think I really need this reminder lately, so I figured maybe some of you may as well.
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-08-26 09:27:04 +0000 UTC View Post
Today, I wanted to remind you that you're such a beautiful human. You make this world a better place every single day. Even when you're feeling off, sad or useless. You're so precious and I hope you never forget it.
You deserve to live a life that feels good. You deserve to feel confident, loved and joyful. You deserve to laugh too much and get excited about what happens to you.
I hope you know what makes you feel alive, and if you don't, it may be time to go seek for it.
I believe in you.
You are so much more than who you think you are, trust me.
Have a good week,
Talk to you soon,
Flavie.
2021-08-24 08:01:01 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey cuties!
I hope you're doing great!
I posted those a bit late, I hope you don't mind :)
Your body is nothing but a sacred tool for you to live your beautiful life. You don't have to apologize for it. You're amazing in and out. You're impressively wonderful, don't let capitalism tell you otherwise, please!!
Have a pretty day,
Talk to you soon,
Flavie.
2021-08-17 11:28:44 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
Just wanted to show you my new cute panties ;)
I hope you're having a great time lately, and loving yourself as much as you deserve it!
The edition of A Shoot of Self Love is coming very soon, I'm so sorry for how late I am!
Have a good day!
Flavie
2021-07-25 08:00:02 +0000 UTC View Post
EN Hey you!
I hope you're doing great!
Here are Gabe's pictures from my trip in Paris!
I remember how I felt great reading his answers to the questionnaire I send before my photo sessions, and his hair. It was such a special blue... We laughed a lot, as you can see in the pictures!
I can't stop saying it but... I absolutely love my job. Meeting wonderful people and showing them how I see them is such a chance and I'm grateful for it all daily!
Thanks for trusting me!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
FR Hey you!
J'espère que vous allez bien !
Voici les photos de Gabe prises durant mon voyage à Paris !
Je me souviens de comment je me suis sentie en lisant ses réponses au questionnaire que j'envoie avant mes séances photo, et de ses cheveux. C'était un bleu tellement spécial! *emoji coeur* Nous avons beaucoup ri, comme vous pouvez le voir sur les photos !
Je ne peux pas arrêter de le dire mais... J'adore mon travail. Rencontrer des gens merveilleux et leur montrer comment je les vois est une telle chance et je leur en suis reconnaissant au quotidien !
Merci de m'avoir fait confiance !
A bientôt,
Flavie
2021-07-23 13:00:00 +0000 UTC View Post
EN Hey you!
Just passing by to show you these pictures with the wonderfully cute Prune.
After years, we finally got a chance to meet and working with her has been such a blessing!
I'm always so intimidated when I get to work with people who are used with having their pictures taken, but I also love it, 'cause it allows me to expand my comfort zone!
Alright, here is a reminder for anyone reading these lines that you're a blessing to this world and you're allowed to live life at its fullest, no matter what it means to you!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie.
FR Hey you!
Hey vous!
Je passe juste pour vous montrer ces photos avec l'adorable Prune.
Après des années, nous avons enfin eu la chance de nous rencontrer et travailler avec elle a été vraiment très chouette !
Je suis toujours aussi intimidée de travailler avec des gens qui ont l'habitude de se faire prendre en photo, mais j'aime aussi ça, car ça me permet d'élargir ma zone de confort !
Voici un rappel à tous ceux qui liront ces lignes: vous êtes une bénédiction pour ce monde et que vous avez le droit de vivre pleinement votre vie, peu importe ce que cela signifie pour vous !
A bientôt,
Flavie.
FR Hey you!
J'espère que vous allez bien et que l'été s'annonce prometteur par chez vous?
Pour être complètement transparente avec vous, j'ai personnellement beaucoup de mal à travailler ces temps ci. La prise de vue me fait toujours autant vibrer, mais étant toute seule au four et au moulin, je me disperse de plus en plus facilement, et la motivation s'éfrite. C'est pas très grave, c'est le jeu et il est impossible d'être constant dans ce genre de dynamique. Alors j'essaye tant bien que mal de trouver des stratagèmes pour me forcer à en faire autant que possible, à tenir la cadence et à redevenir inspirée, mais c'est malheureusement souvent en vain.
Alors je suis sincèrement désolée si je prends du retard sur les choses que je suis censée rendre/partager/publier. Je suis un peu paumée mais promis je travaille dessus!
Bref, tout ça pour vous montrer des photos que j'ai pris de la sublime Julia lors de mon passage à Paris. J'ai tout de suite été émue par les courbes de ses bouclettes et sa palette de couleur. C'est sûrement une déformation professionnelle, mais je suis très sensible aux palettes de couleur des gens... je n'y peux rien!
Julia, si tu passes par là, j'espère vraiment que tu pourras te voir un peu plus comme je te vois, parce que tu es divine et il est grand temps que tu t'en aperçoives :)
Belle fin de journée à vous et à très vite,
Flavie.
EN Hey you!
I hope you are doing well and that the summer looks promising for you?
To be completely transparent with you, I personally have a lot of trouble working these days. The shooting part of my job still makes me vibrate as much as usual, but being all alone in the oven and in the mill, I disperse more and more easily, and the motivation crumbles. It's not a big deal, it's the game and it's impossible to be constant in this kind of dynamic. So I try as best I can to find ploys to force myself to do as much as possible, to keep up the pace and to become inspired again, but unfortunately it is often in vain.
So I'm sincerely sorry if I fall behind on the things I'm supposed to return / share / post. I'm a little lost, but I promise I'm working on it!
In short, all this to show you the photos I took of the sublime Julia during my stay in Paris. I was immediately moved by the curves of her curls and her color palette. It's surely a professional twist, but I'm very sensitive to people's color palettes ... I can't help it!
Julia, if you read this, I really hope that you can see yourself a little more as I see you, because you are divine and it is high time that you noticed it :)
Have a nice end of the day and see you soon,
Flavie.
2021-07-19 12:30:14 +0000 UTC View Post
Hey you!
I hope you're doing well!
Here is my shoot of self love of the week, made with Tokyo Stories Creations custom made jewelry. I'm over the moon that they offered me this beautiful piece and how it inspired me this series!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-07-11 23:21:30 +0000 UTC View Post
Just passing by to wish you a wonderful week, filled with self love, good surprises and whatever makes you feel good :)
You're awesome, it's time to start believing it!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
2021-07-05 06:45:06 +0000 UTC View Post
EN Thank you so much for your support this month!
You're so freaking cool and I'm so grateful for your support! In June I finally reached a Patreon goal of mine of 40 supporters, and that's because of every single one of you! :)
It may not be a lot for you, but it means the world to me :)
As an artist, it's challenging to always find ways to be financially stable, especially right now, and Patreon is a huge help, to be honest!
I'm almost done working on A Shoot of Self Love #7 and it'll be published beginning of July for pledges starting at $15. This edition talks about ways to improve your life, one progress at a time, through little habits and introspection, for example. I hope y'all will like it!
And a special thanks to my sweet Daisies, aka my dear photo clients, that all have a special spot in my heart. Thank you for your vulnerability, your trust and your support. Y'all make my work such a dream, and not a day passes without me telling how grateful I am for my current life. That's a lot because of you, so THANK YOU!
I hope June was great to y'all and July looks even brighter!
Talk to you soon,
Flavie
FR Merci beaucoup pour votre soutien ce mois-ci !
Vous êtes tellement cool et je suis si reconnaissante pour votre soutien ! En juin, j'ai enfin atteint mon objectif Patreon de 40 abonné.e.s, et c'est grâce à chacun.e d'entre vous ! :)
Ce n'est peut-être pas beaucoup pour vous, mais ça signifie le monde pour moi :)
En tant qu'artiste, il est difficile de toujours trouver des moyens d'être financièrement stable, surtout en ce moment, et Patreon est d'une grande aide, pour être honnête !
J'ai presque fini de travailler sur A Shoot of Self Love #7 et il sera publié début juillet pour les abonnements à partir de 15 $. Cette édition parle des moyens d'améliorer sa vie, un progrès à la fois, à travers de petites habitudes et de l'introspection, par exemple. J'espère que vous l'aimerez !
Et un merci spécial à mes doux.ces Daisies, alias mes chèr.e.s client.e.s photo, qui ont tou.te.s une place spéciale dans mon cœur. Merci pour votre vulnérabilité, votre confiance et votre soutien. Vous faites de mon travail un rêve, et pas un jour ne passe sans que je vous dise à quel point je suis reconnaissante pour ma vie actuelle. C'est beaucoup grâce à vous, alors MERCI !
J'espère que juin a été formidable pour vous tous et que juillet s'annonce encore plus radieux !
A bientôt,
Flavie
2021-06-30 08:00:03 +0000 UTC View PostHey you!
I’m just passing by to wish you a great week, filled with little pleasures, enjoyable moments, and random surprises!
I wanted to remind you that you are allowed to incorporate all this in your daily life :)
Treat yourself like the god damn gem you are!
FR
Hey vous!
Je passe juste par là pour vous souhaiter une excellente semaine, remplie de petits plaisirs, de moments agréables et de surprises aléatoires !
Je voulais vous rappeler que vous avez le droit d'incorporer tout ça dans votre quotidien :)
Traitez-vous comme le putain de joyau que vous êtes !
Talk to you soon,
Flavie x Merle
