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Ask Dr. Kirk (Mon, Nov 10)

Monday, Nov 10, 1 pm Pacific.

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2025-11-06 16:00:12 +0000 UTC View Post

Enneagram Personality Test (2019 rerun)

[Rerun] Is the enneagram personality test valid? Why is it so popular? Can it be used to help people improve their lives or is it just pseudoscience? Dr. Kirk Honda and Humberto explore these quest...

2025-11-06 12:00:10 +0000 UTC View Post

Cultural Appropriation Test

Dr Kirk Honda presents his test for cultural appropriation to Humberto.

00:00 What is cultural appropriation?

10:25 Examples of appropriation

16:26 What is cultural ap...

2025-11-05 12:00:16 +0000 UTC View Post

Jeffrey Dahmer and The Dark Tetrad (2019 rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk talks with Patron Kirsten Palmer about whether or not Jeffrey Dahmer has all four traits of The Dark Tetrad.

Become a member: 2025-11-04 12:00:11 +0000 UTC View Post

Debunking Attachment Myths #2

Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory.

00:00 Dr. Pascal Vrticka

01:04 Are dads 'secondary moms'?

02:13 Is the Triu...

2025-11-03 12:00:12 +0000 UTC View Post

Debunking Attachment Myths #1

Dr Kirk Honda reviews an article by Dr Pascal Vrticka that debunks myths about attachment theory.

00:00 Does disorganized attachment exist in adults?

08:12 How many types of attachm...

2025-10-31 11:00:16 +0000 UTC View Post

Why Do We Have Fetishes? (2018 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks with Yuval Laor about why we evolved to have sexual fetishes.

Become a member: 2025-10-30 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post

Violent Fantasies and Parenting

Rebeccasode! Dr Kirk and Rebecca answer patron emails.

00:00 Do violent fantasies mean anything?

24:50 Recent celebrity losses

43:31 How did Rebecca develop self-care behaviors? 2025-10-29 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post

Countertransference (Deep Dive) (2013 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda talks about countertransference, or the feelings a therapist has about the client. (Intro)

Become a member: 2025-10-28 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post

AI Tools for Therapy

Dr Kirk Honda interviews Gregg Spiridellis (founder of JibJab, etc.) about his AI tools for therapists and clients.

00:00 Introducing Gregg Spiridellis

04:19 What inspired Moments? 2025-10-27 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post

Kirk Rant and Bob Grieves

Dr Kirk rants about internet mobs and Bob explores his trauma. (Intro)

00:00 Validation and hope01:34 Yay timestamps!

07:44 Does a victim of domestic abuse have anything to apologiz...

2025-10-24 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post

Schema Therapy with Bob (Chapter 2) (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas. (This is part 2 of a two-part series.)(Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.

Become a member: 2025-10-23 11:00:05 +0000 UTC View Post

Leftover 17th Anniversary Questions #3

Dr Kirk answers leftover questions from the 17th Anniversary Live Show survey.

00:00 What therapy is best for Borderline?

04:42 How can I address my own toxic behavior?

07:1...

2025-10-22 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post

Schema Therapy with Humberto (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Humberto about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc.

Become a member: 2025-10-21 11:00:06 +0000 UTC View Post

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2025-10-20 12:00:15 +0000 UTC View Post

Cheating On Your Abuser

Bobcast! Dr Kirk and Bob answer patron questions.

00:00 An abusive relationship and affair

31:02 Was the pastor sexually abusive?

41:18 Is thi...

2025-10-20 11:00:16 +0000 UTC View Post

The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 6 - Final Word)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Grand jury results

12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book

31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk thi...

2025-10-17 11:00:17 +0000 UTC View Post

The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 6 - Final Word)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Grand jury results

12:07 Linda Hoffman-Pugh's book

31:07 Who does Humberto & Dr. Kirk ...

2025-10-17 11:00:15 +0000 UTC View Post

Schema Therapy with Bob (2019 rerun)

[Rerun] Dr. Kirk Honda interviews Bob about his schemas, childhood, emotional needs, etc. (Intro) The full episode is available to patrons of the podcast.

Become a member: 2025-10-16 11:00:07 +0000 UTC View Post

The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 5 - Intruder Did It)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Did an intruder do it?

26:41 Points of dispute

33:20 Potential intruder suspects

1:26:2...

2025-10-15 11:00:09 +0000 UTC View Post

The Psychology of JonBenet Ramsey (Chap 5 - Intruder Did It)

Dr Kirk Honda and Humberto Castaneda dive deep into the JonBenet Ramsey story.

00:00 Did an intruder do it?

26:41 Points of dispute

33:20 Potential intruder suspects

1:26:2...

2025-10-15 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post

Schema Therapy Deep Dive (2019 Rerun)

[Rerun] Do you have recurring patterns in your relationships that are frustrating? Schema therapy might help. Dr. Kirk Honda talks for over four hours about the theory and how to use it in your lif...

2025-10-14 11:00:08 +0000 UTC View Post